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We lost our babies.

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  • MH1006MH1006 member
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    edited May 2014
  • I'm so sorry to hear this.
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    TTC since August 2011
    Cycle 8,9,10 - 50mg Clomid - BFN
    Cycle 11, 100 mg Clomid & IUI#1- BFP 2/23/13 - m/c 4/2/13 @ 9w2d
    Cycle 13, 100 mg Clomid & IUI#2 - BFP 6/27/13 - CP
    Met with an awesome new RE in September 2013 new plan: 5mg Femera & IUI #3
    Surprise Natural BFP 9/9/13 - Welcomed our baby boy 5/25/14

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  • BreMaeBreMae member
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    I'm so so sorry :(

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  • The universe is a butthole sometimes. My heart, thoughts, and prayers are with you, Aimothy. I'm so sorry for your loss.
  • Aim I am so so sorry. Lots of big hugs.
  • I hate this so much. I am so sorry aim, my heart breaks for you and Jim <3

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    Me(27) PCOS, Hypothyroidism & Incompetent Cervix  DH(29) Azoospermia
    4/11- 12/11 Provera, 3 cycles clomid 50mg, all BFN (HSG-all clear)
    Dec 2011 DH S/A shows zero count - dx Azoo
    TESE 4/13/12 - Sperm found!! 5 viles frozen
    IVF ICSI #1- (Lupron protocol) 5R 2F 2dt- 2DP & 4CF - BFFN
    IVF ICSI #2-  (Antagonist protocol) Started stims 7/26
    ER 8/8 11R 9F 3dt - 9BF & 7BF (+HPT 8dp3dt)beta 1-184 beta 2- 1699 TWINS! EDD 5/1/13
    <312/9 Joshua David and Zoe Faith born too early at 19w4d due to incompetent cervix <3
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      LAP Transabdominal Cerclage - 4/15/13 only possibility of carrying my children to term
    IVF ICSI #3.2- (Antagonist Protocol) 7/26 start stims (same day, a year later from J & Z's stim start date!)
    ER - 8/7  19R 9F 3dt of 2 8BF embryos. (+ HPT 7dp3dt) Beta #1- 82.8 Beta #2- 821 Beta 3-7254
    9/11/13 - U/S showed 1 baby HR 135bpm! EDD 4/30/14
    Colin born via c/s 4/7/14 (36w5d) 6lbs 14oz - 8 days in the NICU
    TTC #2 - IVF 4 - July 2015 (Antagonist Protocol) 7/10 start stims
    15R 8F 5dt of 1E blast grade BA & 1 blast to freeze!! (+hpt 6dp5dt)
    beta #1-52 beta #2-62 Beta #3-6.5 - CP
    FET - 9/18/15 (+hpt 5dp5dt) beta #1 -225.1 beta #2-2468 beta #3-21,352
    10/29 - U/S shows 1 bean! HR 151 EDD 6/7/16 It's a BOY!
    5/18/16 Jacob born via c/s (37w 1d) 9lbs .8oz 19in - 6 days in the NICU



  • So, so sorry.
  • So sorry to hear this =(
  • Oh Aim. There are just no words for how heartbroken I am for you and Jimothy. The universe really effing sucks. 
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    BFP #1: 11/9/13; spontaneous m/c at 6w2d, 11/25/13
    BFP #2: 12/31/13. B/w 12/31: betas >1000, progesterone 13.6; B/w 1/2: betas 3065, progesterone 10.2
    B/w 1/8: betas 17,345, progesterone 25.6
    Progesterone suppositories started 1/2. Please stick, baby!!
    Fiona Elise born 9/9/14 - welcome beautiful girl!
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  • There are no words to describe how sorry I am. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. Everyone is here for you. 
    DX: 6/2012 PCOS  TTC: 6/2013  BFP: 9/6/2013  Attempt Natural m/c: 10/29/2013 D&C: 2/20/2014
    BFP 2: 7/7/2014 Beta 7/8: 115, Beta 7/12: 638, Beta 7/16: 3793, Beta 7/21: 21,625

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  • Venti29Venti29 member
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    Thinking of you, I'm so very sorry.
    TTC 10/2010 DX with PCOS 01/2012 Metformin 05/12. Clomid 07/12 50mg- Bust,no response. 8/12 100mg 0 on CD20=BFP. 9/24-56 9/26-125 10/1-2100 B/G Twins, EDD 05/2013 "It's funny they give you a drug to help get you pregnant, but it makes me not want to have sex with you" -DH. Lilypie Pregnancy tickers
  • I'm so sorry
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  • spin25spin25 member
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    Lots of love to you. <3
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  • I am so very sorry.

    Married August 2009

    3 years. 5 losses.

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  • Oh, Aimothy. I am so sad to hear this. I am sending so much love to you and DH. My heart breaks for you guys. PM me if you need to. I understand the crap. I'm so sorry.
    TTC #1 since Feb. '12. dx: "unexplained" IF
    After 2 shitty IVF cycles and 1 loss at 6+2 (EDD 11/7/14), DH and I are pursuing DIA.
    11/17/2014 - ACTIVE AND WAITING!
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  • I'm so very sorry :(

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  • Im so sorry to hear this @aimothy. It always sucks when you lose a baby. I didn't know you were having multiples though. That sucks worse! I hope you and your hubs recover fairly quickly and are able to try again! ((hugs)) 
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  • stephkfstephkf member
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    I'm so sorry :(
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  • mrskimm09 said:
    Im so sorry to hear this @aimothy. It always sucks when you lose a baby. I didn't know you were having multiples though. That sucks worse! I hope you and your hubs recover fairly quickly and are able to try again! ((hugs)) 
    I'm sure you mean well with this post but it really is rubbing me the wrong way. First, losing one baby, two babies, or five, sucks the same. There's no designated amount of suck based on how many babies there were. Second, if you've taken the time to follow her story, you would know that this was her second IVF and it's not exactly something her and her "hubs" can recover quickly from and just "try again".

    Cheering on all of my 3T ladies!  DX with PCOS - 11/2012 DH S/A & HSG - Normal - Too many rounds of Clomid = BFNs - New RE 5/2014 - Repeat Testing - Losing 40lbs before injects/IUI



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  • mrskimm09 said:
    Im so sorry to hear this @aimothy. It always sucks when you lose a baby. I didn't know you were having multiples though. That sucks worse! I hope you and your hubs recover fairly quickly and are able to try again! ((hugs)) 
    I'm sure you mean well with this post but it really is rubbing me the wrong way. First, losing one baby, two babies, or five, sucks the same. There's no designated amount of suck based on how many babies there were. Second, if you've taken the time to follow her story, you would know that this was her second IVF and it's not exactly something her and her "hubs" can recover quickly from and just "try again".
    Wow. I didn't mean this post to be snarky at all. I didn't realize the ladies are on this board. I think you took it a completely different way then what was intended. YES I understand it doesn't matter how many babies you have. I suffered a stillbirth before my son. So I do understand. And NO I haven't been following her so I didn't know. Sorry again. 
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  • MH1006MH1006 member
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    I'm sure you mean well with this post but it really is rubbing me the wrong way. First, losing one baby, two babies, or five, sucks the same. There's no designated amount of suck based on how many babies there were. Second, if you've taken the time to follow her story, you would know that this was her second IVF and it's not exactly something her and her "hubs" can recover quickly from and just "try again".



    I've grown to dislike you even more than some of the usual suspects. Hurry up and get knocked up so you can go away with your horribleness. What you're saying and how you handle things says a lot more about YOU than it does about her. You're not sticking up for anyone, you're just being completely trashy.
  • I don't think this is the right post for anyone's drama. Period.
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  • MH1006MH1006 member
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    I don't think this is the right post for anyone's drama. Period.

    For once (and I'm confident this will be the only time) I agree with you. I tried sending Amanda a PM but was not able. I think the best way to have handled this would have been to PM the new person and NICELY explain the situation so she could edit her response if she wanted to. Completely inappropriate on all ends, but apparently I can't PM.
  • AimothyAimothy member
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    I know exactly where your heart was coming from, Amanda. You continue to be your trashy bad self, because I love it. Welcome to the dark side of being hated by mh. We've got tshirts to hand out to new members.

    Honestly, mrskimm's comment did hurt. No matter if it was one baby or two that had implanted, we out two babies in there. Id still be mourning the loss of one, if one was still growing. But we'll never know because I miscarried the afternoon before our ultrasound.

    My friend Amanda is defensive of me because she knows that I'm hurting. Do I wish people would know what they are talking about before they speak? Sure. But I will expect those who know and love me to try and protect me.

    PMs could have been used but oh well. I'm not worried about this drama overshadowing my post.

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  • Aimothy said:
    I know exactly where your heart was coming from, Amanda. You continue to be your trashy bad self, because I love it. Welcome to the dark side of being hated by mh. We've got tshirts to hand out to new members. Honestly, mrskimm's comment did hurt. No matter if it was one baby or two that had implanted, we out two babies in there. Id still be mourning the loss of one, if one was still growing. But we'll never know because I miscarried the afternoon before our ultrasound. My friend Amanda is defensive of me because she knows that I'm hurting. Do I wish people would know what they are talking about before they speak? Sure. But I will expect those who know and love me to try and protect me. PMs could have been used but oh well. I'm not worried about this drama overshadowing my post.
    Love you <3.

    Cheering on all of my 3T ladies!  DX with PCOS - 11/2012 DH S/A & HSG - Normal - Too many rounds of Clomid = BFNs - New RE 5/2014 - Repeat Testing - Losing 40lbs before injects/IUI



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  • MH1006MH1006 member
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    I continue to be amazed. I do not think it is reasonable to expect that someone "follow your story" and know all of the details. It was a newbie mistake that she'll probably never make again (if she comes back), but I think her heart was clearly in the right place.

    Speaking of trashy, I'm taking my condolences and leaving this post for good.
  • AimothyAimothy member
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    Don't worry. I'll still give you dirty mirror pictures without you leaving your condolences.  It's my gift to you.

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  • I am so sorry :( my heart is breaking for you
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