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I went a financial seminar at work today and the speaker mentioned a 28/36 rule that I never heard of. He said that theoretically, 28% of monthly income should go to your house/rent and 36% should cover all monthly debt payments (student loan, credit cards, cars, etc).
I checked my numbers from 2008 through current- 2013 and 2014 (projected) are the only years that we hit the combined 64% or less. I did not factor in day care as debt.. if I did, we would be way over.
What does MM think about this rule?
Re: 28/36 rule
When I looked at our numbers, I based everything off of net income.. just because our taxes, 401K, DH's 403B, health insurance, FSA for daycare are all deducted for us.
For this year, our mortgage (principle, interest, escrow) and utilities (gas, electric, water, cell) make up 20% of our take home pay.
I have our debt part at 44% and it's all credit cards (we have no student loans, car loans, personal loans, etc) which for us includes cable and internet bill, groceries, gas, clothes, toiletries, stuff for the girls, car repairs, car insurance, home repairs- we charge pretty much everything and pay the bill in full every month.
The 2 things I did not include as debt were day care (20% of our take home pay) and misc checks I write throughout the year (birthdays, weddings, donations, life insurance- basically anything I can't use a credit card for- about 2%).
The balance of our take home pay is used for Roth IRAs, vacation fund, and savings (14%).
That's how I interpreted the 28/36 rule, but it may not be right at all.
Love: March 2010 Marriage: July 2013 Debt Free: October 2014 TTC: May 2015
A lot also depends on where you are at on your career path. I am just really starting on mine so I am willing to have a little higher current debt level while paying off mine and MW's student loans. A decade from now I am hoping to have most of my debts paid off and few new ones.
I am not familiar with the rule, but I would really need to better understand the debt aspect, particularly with respect to credit cards. What you describe above for your credit card use is not something I personally would consider debt. Those are just monthly expenses that you happen to use a credit card to pay. I would only consider it debt if you carried a balance from month to month because you could not pay it in full. So, in your case I would only consider your mortgage payments as debt when seeing how you measure up to this rule of thumb.
TTC since 1/13 DX:PCOS 5/13 (long, anovulatory cycles)

Clomid 50mg 9/13 = BFP! EDD 6/7/14 M/C 5w6d Found 11/4/13
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Chemical Pregnancy 03/14
Surprise BFP 6/14, Beta #1: 126 Beta #2: 340 Stick baby, stick! EDD 2/17/15
Riley Elaine born 2/16/15
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Chemical Pregnancy 9/15
Chemical Pregnancy 6/16
BFP 9/16 EDD 6/3/17
Beta #1: 145 Beta #2: 376 Beta #3: 2,225 Beta #4: 4,548
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TTC since 1/13 DX:PCOS 5/13 (long, anovulatory cycles)

Clomid 50mg 9/13 = BFP! EDD 6/7/14 M/C 5w6d Found 11/4/13
1/14 PCOS / Gluten Free Diet to hopefully regulate my system.
Chemical Pregnancy 03/14
Surprise BFP 6/14, Beta #1: 126 Beta #2: 340 Stick baby, stick! EDD 2/17/15
Riley Elaine born 2/16/15
TTC 2.0 6/15
Chemical Pregnancy 9/15
Chemical Pregnancy 6/16
BFP 9/16 EDD 6/3/17
Beta #1: 145 Beta #2: 376 Beta #3: 2,225 Beta #4: 4,548
www.5yearstonever.blogspot.com
LMAO- Wow I like this theory cus then it means i'm actually doing good!
Ya know i mean except for the fact that i'm not and i'm broke. thats gotta be the worst theory ever. i've heard something similar before and it really makes me angry that anyone would actually be stupid enough to even suggest that someone be as broke as me. .
36% to all non mortgage debt? I "only" pay 31% so i guess that means i'm good. Um 800 to student loans and two car loans totalling 680.... oh yea and that makes my debt load close to double my yearly household income but hey these so called financial guys say thats good. because my payments are less then 36% But then i guess i can comfortably afford to pay 1,710 instead of 1,480. hahahah
28% to mortgage and escrow? Right now we "only" pay 18%... so according to this I can afford a mortgage of 1330 instead of 850...
That would leave us with 1,700 for everything else... Food, gas, spending, saving, giving.... Um i guess that means i'm supposed to eat ramen noodles, walk to work, and never save or give a dime... this plan is more like the "how to be poor and end up on foodstamps" plan. moronic. just plain moronic. How these people have a degree in finance and still recommend that just amazes me.
TTC since June 2012
TTC since 1/13 DX:PCOS 5/13 (long, anovulatory cycles)

Clomid 50mg 9/13 = BFP! EDD 6/7/14 M/C 5w6d Found 11/4/13
1/14 PCOS / Gluten Free Diet to hopefully regulate my system.
Chemical Pregnancy 03/14
Surprise BFP 6/14, Beta #1: 126 Beta #2: 340 Stick baby, stick! EDD 2/17/15
Riley Elaine born 2/16/15
TTC 2.0 6/15
Chemical Pregnancy 9/15
Chemical Pregnancy 6/16
BFP 9/16 EDD 6/3/17
Beta #1: 145 Beta #2: 376 Beta #3: 2,225 Beta #4: 4,548
www.5yearstonever.blogspot.com
The thing with retirement being optional is that for us, it's not. 9% of H's salary goes straight to a pension fund that he'll need to H's his job for 20 years to be vested in (grumble grumble). I know many are in the same situation.
TTC since 1/13 DX:PCOS 5/13 (long, anovulatory cycles)

Clomid 50mg 9/13 = BFP! EDD 6/7/14 M/C 5w6d Found 11/4/13
1/14 PCOS / Gluten Free Diet to hopefully regulate my system.
Chemical Pregnancy 03/14
Surprise BFP 6/14, Beta #1: 126 Beta #2: 340 Stick baby, stick! EDD 2/17/15
Riley Elaine born 2/16/15
TTC 2.0 6/15
Chemical Pregnancy 9/15
Chemical Pregnancy 6/16
BFP 9/16 EDD 6/3/17
Beta #1: 145 Beta #2: 376 Beta #3: 2,225 Beta #4: 4,548
www.5yearstonever.blogspot.com