FWP

Xan921 · July 2014

Oh dear god, if people don't like the board and don't like the people still on the board, then why are you still lurking? It's really rather pathetic. @brij2006, this isn't directed towards you but rather a general statement for those who feel the need to lurk but not post. I don't think it has anything to do with a poster getting pregnant; I think it has to do with posters turning into assholes once they get their BFP's. There have been many ladies on this board who have gotten pregnant and are still actively posting and are as welcome as always such as @BruinsBabe33, @MRads, @sparklingdiamond, @amccula20, @luckyangel07 , and @islandmonkey8.... just to name a few. These ladies still participate, still care and they still keep in touch.

It's not all people who get pregnant that we dismiss or are snarky to; it's the ones who automatically forget the struggles other are going through, the ones who instantly forget how badly it hurts to see someone pregnant when it's what you want so bad and the ones who don't even bother to still follow our story once they've received their happy ending. That's the issue we have with people, not the fact that they get pregnant.

I'm in a position right now where my RE won't even get near my uterus because it's so fucked up, so do I have days where I feel like saying "Fuck you" to someone who is gushing over their pregnancy or baby? Damn right I do just like everyone else on this planet has moments where they get angry and jealous at those who have something they want.

So next time before someone complains that they don't feel welcomed, maybe take a good look in the mirror and think twice why a board full of women don't care about you anymore.

seahorse01 · July 2014

I've been oot and I guess my FWP is that I have to go back to work tomorrow. Another FWP is that my mom spends a lot more time with my sister than me because I don't have kids. I'm jealous. I guess I should suck it up and deal.

amandaf6383 · July 2014

Okay, first of all, I have never will nor will I ever apologize for something I say/agree with/sympathize with on 3T Check In. I start that thread every Thursday and if you don't like any of the content, then you may promptly go fuck yourself. That is not intended toward anyone specific - that is to everyone. The fact that there are former 3Ters that are getting their bellabands in a bunch over an exaggerated sentiment uttered by someone in pain makes me sick. That's just being a smug asshole.

Second, there are no groups of people that are shunned or scorned. I have GP friends who are moms, pregnant, TTC, and infertile. My only friend requirement is that you're nice and considerate. That's it. There are a ton of amazing and wonderful pregnant/mom friends I've met on this board and they are the ones who cared before they were pregnant and cared after. And there are also GPers who are moms, pregnant, TTC, and infertile that I can't stand. And that's because of the bolded above.

Also, I can't wait to hear CCH chime in. That's when we know it's a party.

seahorse01 · July 2014

I really want to show my penis, but don't want to get in trouble again.

amandaf6383 · July 2014

seahorse01 said:

I really want to show my penis, but don't want to get in trouble again.

Peeeeeenis! Peeeeeenis! Peeeeeeenis!

MRads · July 2014

seahorse01 said:
I've been oot and I guess my FWP is that I have to go back to work tomorrow.

Another FWP is that my mom spends a lot more time with my sister than me because I don't have kids. I'm jealous. I guess I should suck it up and deal.

My mom spends a lot more time with my sister. And she spends a lot more money on her and her kids. It hurts.

Also, I was so jealous of all your FB pics. It looks like vacation was a blast.

BruinsBabe33 · July 2014

MRads said:

I've been oot and I guess my FWP is that I have to go back to work tomorrow. Another FWP is that my mom spends a lot more time with my sister than me because I don't have kids. I'm jealous. I guess I should suck it up and deal.
My mom spends a lot more time with my sister. And she spends a lot more money on her and her kids. It hurts. Also, I was so jealous of all your FB pics. It looks like vacation was a blast.

I was scared she was going to get eaten by a zebra, though :-/

caseyandlizzie · July 2014

^that zebra had crazy eyes!

BruinsBabe33 · July 2014

It did! Crazy eyes! And Seahorse is kind of like a Dandilion

seahorse01 · July 2014

DH was trying to take my picture with the zebra and another one stuck his head in the passenger window and went for his crotch. I laughed so hard I almost peed myself. We drank a lot of local beer and had great food. A good time was had by all.

amandaf6383 · July 2014

seahorse01 said:

DH was trying to take my picture with the zebra and another one stuck his head in the passenger window and went for his crotch. I laughed so hard I almost peed myself. We drank a lot of local beer and had great food. A good time was had by all.

I can't believe that there was no urine shed.

MRads · July 2014

My real FWP is that I am so torn on whether to watch top chef on Hulu or catch up on the bachelorette. And my other FWP is my H is not a fan of all the Top Chef I'm watching. He thinks it is boring.

amandaf6383 · July 2014

MRads said:

My real FWP is that I am so torn on whether to watch top chef on Hulu or catch up on the bachelorette. And my other FWP is my H is not a fan of all the Top Chef I'm watching. He thinks it is boring.

Omg the answer is TOP CHEF! And did you know that they are premiering the new season of the All Star Challenge. Marcel is back. I want all the foams.

nfp147 · July 2014

Oh FFS. Really?

Like others said, 3T is a safe place. If you're not 3T and you don't like something that's posted there, then stay out. There is nothing more fucking ridiculous than someone PG or with their take-home baby bitching about something that was said in 3T.

nfp147 · July 2014

nfp147 · July 2014

KonaCoffeeBean · July 2014

I really want a nose piercing, but I would have to take it out every weekday for court.

OohSparkly13 · July 2014

Xan921 said:

@OhhSparkly13, I hate hate hate when that happens. I'll paint my nails and let them dry for like an hour, they are dry to the touch so then I go to bed but yet I wake up in the morning when sheet marks all over them. Grrrr.

I know, right? It's amazing how much waking up to my nails being messed up and can really screw with my morning, lol.

Xan921 said:

My FWP is that TN mobile doesn't work for me once again and when I try to access TN from work it is super slow and usually won't let me post, so I'm left to only nest at home in the evenings...womp womp womp.

I feel your pain! I can read TN at work but can't post for some reason. And my job doesn't allow me to get on mobile too much. So, like you, I can't post until I am at home.

OohSparkly13 · July 2014

FWP #2: I am trying to be good on my diet but donuts are available 24/7 at the store. Ya know, like at 10pm when my husband went out and bought a dozen...for the two of us....yeah.

amandaf6383 · July 2014

OohSparkly13 said:

FWP #2: I am trying to be good on my diet but donuts are available 24/7 at the store. Ya know, like at 10pm when my husband went out and bought a dozen...for the two of us....yeah.

Nooooooooo donuts. Seriously. Stuff like that is the quickest way to sabotage all your hard work! Talk to DH about needing support by him not picking up stuff like that!

sparklingdiamond · July 2014

KonaCoffeeBean said:

I really want a nose piercing, but I would have to take it out every weekday for court.

I have my nose pierced and I think most people don't even notice it. I have had it in since I was 18 and have been in elementary schools (when I was taking some teaching classes) and wasn't supposed to wear it, but I don't think anyone ever noticed.

abt8113 · July 2014

Another FWP, I forgot to check to see if we had any PTs this morning before I left for work. I don't want to spend the extra money if I still have a couple, but also don't want to drive back home to check.

OohSparkly13 · July 2014

amandaf6383 said:

OohSparkly13 said:

FWP #2: I am trying to be good on my diet but donuts are available 24/7 at the store. Ya know, like at 10pm when my husband went out and bought a dozen...for the two of us....yeah.

Nooooooooo donuts. Seriously. Stuff like that is the quickest way to sabotage all your hard work! Talk to DH about needing support by him not picking up stuff like that!

Yeah...I definitely had a talk with him about it. He seemed genuinely apologetic when I explained it all to him. He agreed to take the donuts to his office so they wouldn't tempt me, lol.

amandaf6383 · July 2014

OohSparkly13 said:

OohSparkly13 said:

FWP #2: I am trying to be good on my diet but donuts are available 24/7 at the store. Ya know, like at 10pm when my husband went out and bought a dozen...for the two of us....yeah.

Nooooooooo donuts. Seriously. Stuff like that is the quickest way to sabotage all your hard work! Talk to DH about needing support by him not picking up stuff like that!
Yeah...I definitely had a talk with him about it. He seemed genuinely apologetic when I explained it all to him. He agreed to take the donuts to his office so they wouldn't tempt me, lol.

Awesome job resisting temptation! That's the hardest part for me..if crappy food is around, I WILL find out. Out of sight, out of mind(ish).

pb&fluff · July 2014

amandaf6383 said:

OohSparkly13 said:

FWP #2: I am trying to be good on my diet but donuts are available 24/7 at the store. Ya know, like at 10pm when my husband went out and bought a dozen...for the two of us....yeah.

Nooooooooo donuts. Seriously. Stuff like that is the quickest way to sabotage all your hard work! Talk to DH about needing support by him not picking up stuff like that!

My DH was on board with me for awhile, but with a new promotion for him came stress eating because he's a stress sweet eater. It's hard for me to resist. And my clinical preceptor today went out and bought Swiss cake rolls. My most favorite Little Debbie snack. :-/ I suck at WW lately.

arj14 · July 2014

I can't remember where I put my MP3 player. I had it playing in the car, I turned it off and I remember holding it, and then... a mystery. It's not in my purse, so that means I either lost it in the street (and FML if that happened) or it's lost in the car (which would be annoying but better than the alternative!)

OceanHutt · July 2014

Ditto thoughts of amazing support to the ladies above who have supported 3T

Amanda and OohSparkly....you both are amazing!!!

Xan mobile nest hates me too

MY FWP?? that i still cant figure out my godforsaken myfitnesspal siggy and I'm super annoyed by it. Also that I want a wrist Tattoo but im worried about how it will look at 80 LOL

OohSparkly13 · July 2014

amandaf6383 said:

OohSparkly13 said:

amandaf6383 said:

OohSparkly13 said:

FWP #2: I am trying to be good on my diet but donuts are available 24/7 at the store. Ya know, like at 10pm when my husband went out and bought a dozen...for the two of us....yeah.

Nooooooooo donuts. Seriously. Stuff like that is the quickest way to sabotage all your hard work! Talk to DH about needing support by him not picking up stuff like that!
Yeah...I definitely had a talk with him about it. He seemed genuinely apologetic when I explained it all to him. He agreed to take the donuts to his office so they wouldn't tempt me, lol.

Awesome job resisting temptation! That's the hardest part for me..if crappy food is around, I WILL find out. Out of sight, out of mind(ish).

Yeah... I'm the same way...especially with Sprite! We can't keep it in the apartment or I will drink it all up and then feel bad about it later.

OohSparkly13 · July 2014

pb&fluff said:

OohSparkly13 said:

FWP #2: I am trying to be good on my diet but donuts are available 24/7 at the store. Ya know, like at 10pm when my husband went out and bought a dozen...for the two of us....yeah.

Nooooooooo donuts. Seriously. Stuff like that is the quickest way to sabotage all your hard work! Talk to DH about needing support by him not picking up stuff like that!

My DH was on board with me for awhile, but with a new promotion for him came stress eating because he's a stress sweet eater. It's hard for me to resist. And my clinical preceptor today went out and bought Swiss cake rolls. My most favorite Little Debbie snack. :-/ I suck at WW lately.

It's so hard to resist temptation sometimes but you can do it! My husband is a huge sweets eater too so he's bad about bringing stuff home.

OohSparkly13 · July 2014

OceanHutt said:
Ditto thoughts of amazing support to the ladies above who have supported 3T

Amanda and OohSparkly....you both are amazing!!!

Xan mobile nest hates me too

MY FWP?? that i still cant figure out my godforsaken myfitnesspal siggy and I'm super annoyed by it. Also that I want a wrist Tattoo but im worried about how it will look at 80 LOL

For the mfp tracker, you should be able to copy/paste the actual tracker image into your siggy.

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