It went well. We have a weekly family meal with DH's family so when we were at the dinner table I went to take a bite of my taco and DH asked "that's not too spicy for baby is it?" His mom and SIL just kept eating and didn't seem to notice, his brother paused and turned and said "too spicy for what? What'd you say?" Then MIL/SIL had to "prepare us" by telling us all that could go wrong and how sick I'll be... Then we went to my parents' and didn't really know how we wanted to tell them so I just said hi Grandma when my mom answered the door.
"I said what I meant and I meant what I said, an elephant's faithful 100%" Dr. Seuss, Horton Hatches The Egg.
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Thats kind of a bummer that the ILs felt the need to 'prepare' you...as if anyone can be prepared for that to happen to them. Buzz kill.
How did your momma react?
First date July 31, 1999 Married January 28, 2009 TTC#1 July 2010 PCOS dx April 2011 DS born: February 21, 2012 TTC#2 June 2013 MMC Sept 2013 (partial molar), CP 02/2014 DS2 born: December 5, 2014
Very subtle with the IL's announcement...at least your BIL got it! And really? Way to be Debbie Downers and tell you everything that's going to happen (hello...it doesn't work the same way for every woman!). Sheesh!
Was your mom excited when you called her Grandma?
TTC since July 2012
BFP #1: 11/9/13; spontaneous m/c at 6w2d, 11/25/13
MIL/SIL are just Debbie downers about nearly everything...DH, BIL and I were sitting there cracking jokes about it.
My mom did a double take. She and my Dad seem pretty happy. Mom almost posted it to Facebook before I told them we weren't telling everyone yet...My parents work for the health system where we are going for all of our appointments, my mom might be taking her break to see the ultrasound pictures before we leave for our trip.
"I said what I meant and I meant what I said, an elephant's faithful 100%" Dr. Seuss, Horton Hatches The Egg.
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I'm glad your BIL caught on so fast but shame on your MIL/SIL! Way to bring down the moment!
TTC 19 months ~Started RE in March 2014~ DH was not ready for IUI so we waited ~Started acupuncture in May 2014~ ~~BFP 7/6/14~~~EDD 3/14/15~~It's a girl!!~~
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Thats kind of a bummer that the ILs felt the need to 'prepare' you...as if anyone can be prepared for that to happen to them. Buzz kill.
How did your momma react?
TTC#1 July 2010 PCOS dx April 2011 DS born: February 21, 2012
TTC#2 June 2013 MMC Sept 2013 (partial molar), CP 02/2014 DS2 born: December 5, 2014
B/w 1/8: betas 17,345, progesterone 25.6
TTC 19 months ~Started RE in March 2014~
DH was not ready for IUI so we waited
~Started acupuncture in May 2014~
~~BFP 7/6/14~~~EDD 3/14/15~~It's a girl!!~~
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