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Update *do not read if you can't take the sad* **long** UPDATED in original post. *final update 8/9*

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Re: Update *do not read if you can't take the sad* **long** UPDATED in original post. *final update 8/9*

  • I am so very sorry. Thinking and praying for you and your H.
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    Clomid x4 = BFN
    Femara+Follistim IUIs x 6 = 3 BFN, 2 C/P, 1 early miscarriage
    IVF June 2014- 43 R, 34 M, 24 F, 12 blasts frozen and severe OHSS
    FET September 12, 2014!
    Beta #1 12dp5dt- 724
    Beta #2 14dp5dt- 1631
    Beta #3 20dp5dt- 12,813
    EDD 5/31/15 until OB tells me otherwise. Grow babies grow!

    "I might have to wait. I'll never give up. I guess it's half timing, and the other half's luck. 
    Wherever you are, whenever it's right, you'll come out of nowhere and into my life." ~ Michael Buble

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  • I'm so so sorry. Sending lots of love and hugs. :(

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  • I'm so, so sorry. Many thoughts and prayers are with you.
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  • Oh Island... I am so unbelievably heartbroken for you and YH.


    TTC since 3/2012 
    DH - 36; nml swimmers; Me - 36; almost no AMH (last 0.081), low AFC, nml FSH/LH
    Clomid + IUI #1 (6/2013) - BFN; #2 (7/2013) - BFFN
    IVF 1.0 5R/5F/2T (ET 6/11/2014) - no frosties, but BFP 8dp5dt (EDD 3/1/2015) 
    Lost our sweet baby boy, Lincoln Alexander 10/3/2014 (19w)
    IVF 2.0 - ER 3/25/2015 - 3R ZERO mature.
    Ovaries are done...
    DE IVF ER - 12/2/2016 (17R/10F = 8 frosties); FET 1.0 (1/27/2017) - BFP 6dp5dt (EDD 10/16/2017)
  • Islandmonkey, I have no idea who you are IRL, but I'm sure we have FB friends in common who can get us together.

    I didn't have two, but I did lose a baby at 20w, and I know how effing heartbreaking it is.  I am so, so sorry.  My thoughts and prayers are with you, your H, and both of your babies.


    IUI - BFP! Baby boy born still - August 2012
    IVF - BFP - miscarriage June 2013
    FET - BFN
    FET - BFN
    Switched clinics
    IVF with PGD - three embryos created, all healthy - July 2014
    FET - transferred two embryos (boy and girl) - Nov 2014 - BFP!
    Baby Boy born July 2015

  • I'm so sorry island. This is heartbreaking :(
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    TTC#1 July 2010 PCOS dx April 2011 
    DS born: February 21, 2012

    TTC#2 June 2013 MMC Sept 2013 (partial molar), CP 02/2014 DS2 born: December 5, 2014
  • I'm so so sorry :(
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    TTC since March 2012 w/irregular and anovulatory cycles.  
    Moved to an RE October 2013  HSG- All clear , S/A- Normal , Bloodwork -Normal
    Uterine polyp found-  Hysteroscopy and D&C 12/6/13  DX w/complex endometrial hyperplasia
    Endometrial Biopsy 3/21/14 - Hyperplasia still present  Endometrial Biopsy #2 6/24/14 - All clear!
    IUI #1  w/stims and trigger - Started stims 7/7/14 - IUI 7/24/14 = BFP 8/7/14
    Beta #1 8/8 - 47  Beta#2 -137  Beta#3 - 96 Beta#4 -287 Beta#5 -519 Beta#6 121 = early miscarriage 5w4d
    Nestie Besties with Nfp147 
  • I am so sorry. There are no words, but I am sending you a giant hug. 

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  • I am so incredibly sorry, love.

    In Christ alone my hope is found. He is my LIGHT, my STRENGTH, and my SONG!


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    T-TTC since Dec 2008. PCOS/nonexistant cycles(anovulation) and endo. HSG in '10 revealed both tubes blocked. Lap surgery in Dec '10 to correct. Failed Clomid/IUI and injectable(Bravelle)/IUI cycles so far.  


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  • I'm so sorry. My heart breaks for you. Sending you a big big hug.

    "Do the best you can, until you know better. Then when you know better, do better." 

    -Maya Angelou


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  • I am so sorry. Sending lots of hugs and comforting prayers to you and your family.
  • I'm so sorry to hear this.
  • I'm so terribly sorry. I'll be thinking of you.
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  • :( Im so sorry for you and your H, island....big hugs to you both :/
  • I'm so sorry Island. You and your H are in my thoughts. I'm so heartbroken for you with this update >:D<
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  • I am sorry sorry Island... My heart is just broken for you.

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    TTC 19 months ~Started RE in March 2014~
    DH was not ready for IUI so we waited
    ~Started acupuncture in  May 2014~

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    BFP 7/6/14~~~EDD 3/14/15~~It's a girl!!~~
  • I am so, so sorry, island. I'll be keeping you and your H in my thoughts. My heart breaks for you.

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  • :'( Hugs dear.  Many prayers for you both right now. 

    TTC since 1/13  DX:PCOS 5/13 (long, anovulatory cycles)
    Clomid 50mg 9/13 = BFP! EDD 6/7/14 M/C 5w6d Found 11/4/13
    1/14 PCOS / Gluten Free Diet to hopefully regulate my system. 
    Chemical Pregnancy 03/14
    Surprise BFP 6/14, Beta #1: 126 Beta #2: 340  Stick baby, stick! EDD 2/17/15
    Riley Elaine born 2/16/15

    TTC 2.0   6/15 
    Chemical Pregnancy 9/15 
    Chemical Pregnancy 6/16
    BFP 9/16  EDD 6/3/17
    Beta #1: 145 Beta #2: 376 Beta #3: 2,225 Beta #4: 4,548
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  • I have no words. Prayers are with you guys.
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  • I am so sorry, Island. :(  I'll be keeping you and your H in my thoughts and sending you all the love and hugs :(
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  • my heart is broken for you island. so much love to you and your husband.
  • I'm so sorry island! I have no words!
  • I am so incredibly sorry. I wish I had something more to say. <3
  • This sucks balls and I'm really sorry. I have a lot of respect for you and your H for making such a heartbreaking decision. It really is the kindest and most selfless thing you can do in this situation. Take care of yourselves.
  • (((((((island))))))))
    TTC #1 since Feb. '12. dx: "unexplained" IF
    After 2 shitty IVF cycles and 1 loss at 6+2 (EDD 11/7/14), DH and I are pursuing DIA.
    11/17/2014 - ACTIVE AND WAITING!
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    Pregnancy was never the end goal; being a mom was.
    I've been holding out on GP: I got drunk once and started a blog: Here it is (11/7 update)
    3T<3

  • I'm so sorry to see your latest update island. Take care of yourself. My thoughts are with you and YH.
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    TTC Since January 2011 - We have bad sperm 
    February 2013: IUI #1 = BFN 
    October 2013: We made the decision to stop TTC and live without children.

    Nestie Besties with Xan921 
  • Giant hugs. I'm so sorry you had to make this decision. :(:(

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  • So many hugs and prayers for you and your family. Take time to heal and we're here for you when you need us.
  • I'm so sorry. I will be thinking of you guys.
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    >:D< take care of yourself. I will be thinking of you, your H and your sweet LOs.
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