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My boyfriend talks to me his sex experience with his ex often, is it ok?

edited August 2014 in Relationships
When we are doing things he sometimes talks about his sex experience with his ex. Once I thought we did too much stuff and asked him to have a break, then he replied, '' you know, me and my ex girlfriend used to have sex four times in a row''. I told him I didn't feel good about his words, then he got very angry saying, ''what, I can't even say these things?!'' Actually he often refers to his experience with his ex in many things, not only sex. But he said he's totally over her and he doesn't like her at all, I'm much better than her, and I shouldn't feel unhappy about him saying her. I believe he only likes me but it just really make me feel uncomfortable, am I really overreacting?

Re: My boyfriend talks to me his sex experience with his ex often, is it ok?

  • When we are doing things he sometimes talks about his sex experience with his ex. Once I thought we did too much stuff and asked him to have a break, then he replied, '' you know, me and my ex girlfriend used to have sex four times in a row''. I told him I didn't feel good about his words, then he got very angry saying, ''what, I can't even say these things?!'' Actually he often refers to his experience with his ex in many things, not only sex. But he said he's totally over her and he doesn't like her at all, I'm much better than her, and I shouldn't feel unhappy about him saying her. I believe he only likes me but it just really make me feel uncomfortable, am I really overreacting?
    Get rid of this guy and find yourself a boyfriend who hasn't had a girlfriend in awhile.

    This is a 3some...you, your boyfriend and his ex. This is terrible and it is not for you.
  • Yeah, that's not okay.  Dump him.  This is going to be emotionally damaging for you.
  • No this is not ok and no you are not over reacting.  He is trying to control and manipulate you.  Trust me, get out now because you are wasting your time.
  • A man who brings up his ex often, especially in a positive light is not over her!!! Get rid of that loser and find a man who makes you feel way more confident. You owe that to yourself!
  • Whether you've been with him for a few months or years, stop dating him NOW. He is a jerk!
  • No this is not ok and no you are not over reacting.  He is trying to control and manipulate you.  Trust me, get out now because you are wasting your time.
    This is absolutely correct. He is trying to control you! He clearly he has no respect for you if he continues to bring her up, especially in the bed. He is obviously not focusing on you, he is thinking about her! Leave him. He is not over her.
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