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What is your monthly budget?
A spin off of my last post.
What do you pay out each month?
How many months of an e-fund do you choose to keep on hand?

Love: March 2010 Marriage: July 2013 Debt Free: October 2014 TTC: May 2015
Re: What is your monthly budget?
Mortgage and escrow: $1200
Utilities (gas, power, water): $175
Pest control: $25
Security alarm: $20
My car payment: $260 (paid off in January.. woohoo!)
Car Insurance: $120
Car gas: $200
Groceries: $450
Netflix: $10
Internet: $40
Cell Phones: $80
Fun Money: $120
Other: $300 (This is for stuff like car maintenance, dog's annual shots, hair cuts, etc.)
Total = about $3,000
We have 10 months of those expenses saved in an e-fund. BUT, our e-fund is technically money in H's ROTH that just is not invested, so we are working on building a different e-fund so he can reinvest some of that.
Once we are on baby step #3 and all debts are paid off, then we plan to do 4 months Efund which will be about $10k.
Sorry, I don't feel comfortable posting our income portion as I know many people who lurk here, IRL.
H's gas: $300 (he drives 100 miles/day)
Auto Insurance: $185 (full coverage on 3 cars)
Car Maintenance: $150 (this is to build in a buffer and slowly build a savings)
H's: $64
Entertainment: $75
We also do $20 each in "Mad money" on months we feel aren't tight, but lately that hasn't been happening since we've had short weekend trips instead.
TTC since 1/13 DX:PCOS 5/13 (long, anovulatory cycles)

Clomid 50mg 9/13 = BFP! EDD 6/7/14 M/C 5w6d Found 11/4/13
1/14 PCOS / Gluten Free Diet to hopefully regulate my system.
Chemical Pregnancy 03/14
Surprise BFP 6/14, Beta #1: 126 Beta #2: 340 Stick baby, stick! EDD 2/17/15
Riley Elaine born 2/16/15
TTC 2.0 6/15
Chemical Pregnancy 9/15
Chemical Pregnancy 6/16
BFP 9/16 EDD 6/3/17
Beta #1: 145 Beta #2: 376 Beta #3: 2,225 Beta #4: 4,548
www.5yearstonever.blogspot.com
What do you pay out each month?
we have $5061 budgeted each month, however I subtract out the following things to determine our e-fund goal...if we're in an emergency situation we would not be spending money on them:
We're in a HCOL area. I budget $7100 bring home (based on H's minimum weekly wage, but it's higher in the busy seasons). Health insurance is already taken out ($200/pay), and my TSP retirement ($320/pay).
House:
Mortgage + escrow + insurance: $1900
Electric (budget): $97
Home Security: $ 43
Gas (home - budget): $114
Sewer/Water/Trash: $84
HOA: $38
Internet/Cable/Phone: $130
Netflix: $8
Cell Phones (4 lines): $208
Home supplies (TP, cleaning stuff, etc): $50 (usually do a BJ's run every 3 months)
Transportation:
Car payment: $350
Car Insurance (2 cars): $160
Gas (cars): $400
Food:
Groceries: $400
Eating out: $300
Misc:
Child Support: $600
Deck: $200
Chiropractor for me: $100
Gym:$20 (will be canceling this and getting a family membership to the YMCA this winter I think that's $60ish)
Personal spending: $200 ($100 each)
Hair cuts: $50
Health and beauty: $50 (shampoos, deodorant, lotion, etc sometimes added to BJ's run)
Pet: $50
H's XM radio: $16
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Total: $5556 (from my spreadsheet, I think I got it all)
We have 10K in an efund, so 2 months if you cut out the eating out, chiropractor, etc.
TTC since 1/13 DX:PCOS 5/13 (long, anovulatory cycles)

Clomid 50mg 9/13 = BFP! EDD 6/7/14 M/C 5w6d Found 11/4/13
1/14 PCOS / Gluten Free Diet to hopefully regulate my system.
Chemical Pregnancy 03/14
Surprise BFP 6/14, Beta #1: 126 Beta #2: 340 Stick baby, stick! EDD 2/17/15
Riley Elaine born 2/16/15
TTC 2.0 6/15
Chemical Pregnancy 9/15
Chemical Pregnancy 6/16
BFP 9/16 EDD 6/3/17
Beta #1: 145 Beta #2: 376 Beta #3: 2,225 Beta #4: 4,548
www.5yearstonever.blogspot.com
We are in HCOL
Mortg + Condo fee- $1221 but we pay down extra (especially lately)
Electric- $100-$250 (summer vs.winter)
Home and Auto Insurance- $218 for 10 months only with refund check in December
Car lease payment- $279
Gas for cars- $220
Groceries-$400
Cell Phones- $123 (will be lowered at end of Oct)
Phone/Internet/Cable- $185 (will be lowered in Nov)
Dog apts/special food- $100
Fun $- $400 or less (pays for all the xtras like h.cuts, gifts,entertainment)
That should be it
After paying all these bills, we see what's left to stash into our different savings account while leaving a small buffer in our checking as well.
We have no consumer debt or student loans
We have about $10K in our E-fund
For 2014, we bring home about $8,100/month (after taxes, health insurance (including dental), 401K/403B contributions).
We pay out $7,400/month on average based on our monthly spreadsheet we keep (Oct-December are projections).
1. mortgage, taxes, insurance: $1,330
2. gas, electric, water: $198
3. cell phones: $146
4. day care: $1,700
5. Target/BR/JCrew credit cards: $379
6. Capital One credit cards for house and repairs (huge sewer repair job, new side entrance door, 8 dining room chairs, new clapboards for 1 side of the house): $1,126
7. Citibank credit cards for everything else (we charge everything): $2,311
8. misc checks (birthdays, weddings, holidays, donations, DD#1 dance class, etc): $210
All bills are paid in full each month and SL/cars are paid off. Our day care bill will drop 50% in 1 year and be completely gone in 3 years (DH and I will be able to get newer cars at that point!)
Our mortgage was refinanced in 2010 to a 15 year loan and will be paid off in 2025 at the latest.
We have 9 months of expenses on hand between checking, savings, CDs, and our vacation savings account. We also have a 401K, 403B, 2 Roth IRAs, 2 529 plans for the girls, state pension, and a private company pension.
Rent: $869
Cable/internet: $171
Utilities: $70
Electric: $140
Insurance: $170
Food/household: $600
Daycare: $1340
Cell phones: $140
Life insurance: $20
Netflix: $8
Storage unit: $100
Personal spending: $120
Family spending: $160
IRA: $100
Weight Watchers: $42
Gas: $300
2nd bank account (used for Christmas, birthdays, oil changes, and other expected but non-monthly expenses): $275
Other: $295
We have $20k as an emergency fund which is 6 months bare bones budget and 4 months regular budget.
TTC since 1/13 DX:PCOS 5/13 (long, anovulatory cycles)

Clomid 50mg 9/13 = BFP! EDD 6/7/14 M/C 5w6d Found 11/4/13
1/14 PCOS / Gluten Free Diet to hopefully regulate my system.
Chemical Pregnancy 03/14
Surprise BFP 6/14, Beta #1: 126 Beta #2: 340 Stick baby, stick! EDD 2/17/15
Riley Elaine born 2/16/15
TTC 2.0 6/15
Chemical Pregnancy 9/15
Chemical Pregnancy 6/16
BFP 9/16 EDD 6/3/17
Beta #1: 145 Beta #2: 376 Beta #3: 2,225 Beta #4: 4,548
www.5yearstonever.blogspot.com
TTC since 1/13 DX:PCOS 5/13 (long, anovulatory cycles)

Clomid 50mg 9/13 = BFP! EDD 6/7/14 M/C 5w6d Found 11/4/13
1/14 PCOS / Gluten Free Diet to hopefully regulate my system.
Chemical Pregnancy 03/14
Surprise BFP 6/14, Beta #1: 126 Beta #2: 340 Stick baby, stick! EDD 2/17/15
Riley Elaine born 2/16/15
TTC 2.0 6/15
Chemical Pregnancy 9/15
Chemical Pregnancy 6/16
BFP 9/16 EDD 6/3/17
Beta #1: 145 Beta #2: 376 Beta #3: 2,225 Beta #4: 4,548
www.5yearstonever.blogspot.com
This is so timely!! Right now, we're saving for a major bathroom remodel and a big trip, but I'm seriously thinking about talking to H about buckling down and getting "gazelle intense" about paying off our student loans and mortgage.
Our take home (DH's pay+ rental income - 401k and insurance) $8366
Every month required bills:
water: 55
electric: 235
retirement (roths) 916 this would be cut if we ever needed to
mortgage 1259 (when we find out who owns our mortgage we will put the rest of what we got from the sale of our old house, and that will allow us to recast the mortgage down to below $900. we will still probably pay this as we want to get the house paid off in 10 years or under)
C's college fund 250
copays 20
car insurance 118
real estate taxes (our home and rental) 1280
homeowners insurance (both) 240
trash 20
id protection 10
gas for the house 50
cable/internet (just cut to internet only) $50
phone (want to cut this somehow) 157
internet phone 4
Savings funds every month:
home savings (long term projects like a deck) 200
vacation 250 (we live across the country from our families)
general monthly things (we almost always allocate $ here, but what we do varries)
donation 1000
gas-car 350
home decor 100
lunches 50
grocery 300
craft fund 10
cleaning 10
clothing 45
toll tag (DH drives on a toll road to work) 150
baby 200
repairs/tires 100
gifts 50 (this seems like a lot to me, but includes birthdays and Christmas- and DH's side of the family is very generous so we have to reciprocate)
entertainment 100
restaurant 200
post office 5
pocket money 200
3 funds we chose not to fund this month:
hair care/cuts
health/beauty
newspaper
We tend to have a very detailed budget. We also don't switch it up too much at the beginning of the month unless we know of something big coming up. We will switch things up during the month when we need to (diapers on sale, and wanting to stock up, or something). We use the envelope system and so money from one month to the next will carry over in those envelopes. So I don't spend $45 on clothes every month, but when I do go clothes shopping that means I will have 100-200 to spend on what we need/ want. Once we do figure out monthly bills, I will want to try to pay more towards the mortgage if possible, but we would have to make decisions about what to possibly cut. I am also trying to get an in home tutoring business started so that I can continue to work with students while not teaching. If that works out we could add 100-500+ a month to our mortgage/budget.
Our required monthly expenses are: 3982
We have 25k in our emergency fund which means about 8 months if my foggy morning math is even close to correct.
We have a lot of fluff we could cut out if we ever needed to. We also don't follow most of the same MM rules that a lot of people on here follow, but it works for us.
Mortgage: $833
Gas/electricity: $190
Water/trash: $54
Internet: $47
Phone: $45
My car loan: $275 (It's actually $245 but I pay extra)
H's truck loan: $417
Car insurance: $100 (Full coverage for 3 vehicles)
Groceries: $400 (Includes toiletries)
Eating out: $200
H's student loan: $138
Gas in vehicles: $150
H's cell phone: $40
Roth IRA contribution: $120
Furniture Row: $100 (0% interest, will be paid off before offer runs out)
E-fund: $25
HSA contribution: $90
Vacation savings: $100
Home improvement savings: $100
Onstar: $20 (I will probably cancel this once the phone minutes run out)
Daily Burn online fitness subscription: $15
Online newspaper subscription: $8
Pet food/supplies/misc: $60
We have $1,000 in our e-fund and I am contributing $25 a month to build it up. I'm okay with not having a huge e-fund because we've already made a plan for where we would cut and what we would do if one of us lost our job or was unable to work.
We don't budget 'fun money'. Anything that's left after all of the above items are paid, including funding savings and retirement, is 'fun money'. That's used for anything not included in the above categories--such as haircuts, clothes, entertainment, etc.
Mortgage $1050
Electric/natural gas $150
Water $50
Internet/phone $65
Cell phones $150
Hulu/Netflix $16
Auto insurance $150
Gas $300
Groceries $400
Eating out $100
Daycare $800
Preschool tuition $80
SL $90
SL (H) $165
Auto loan $200
Auto loan $240
Credit card $250
So about $4256/month going out.
Fun money, entertainment, trips, etc we plan a head for and save the funds accordingly.
Envelopes:
$200 - Food
$100 - Gas
$100 - Miscellaneous
$100 - Hobby(SCA, spend way more in Spring/Summer, so evens out throughout the year, this also includes my vacation which is a 1-2 week event in the Summer)
$50 - Car Miscellaneous(Car washes, routine maintenance, repairs, etc.)
$50 - Personal Care
Bills:
$260 - Car Payment(next to go in snowball, can't wait!)
$125 - Car Insurance(Living in a frat house is KILLING me on this one)
$80 - Cell Phone
$125 - Student Loans(On Public Service Loan Forgiveness)
All leftover funds go into savings, which is kept separate from my E-Fund. I have $2,500 in my EFund, which is more than the recommended $1,000, but the Frat Mom life isn't as stable as I'd like it to be. If for some reason they were to lose their charter or house, I would be out of a (second) job and house. I also, right now, have about $1,400 in my regular savings, which will go toward paying my car off early some time next year. I want it paid off by my 30th birthday next September.