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NBR: Valentine's Day Gifts

What are you getting your SO for Valentine's Day? I want to get MH something, but am drawing a blank.  I need some ideas!  We haven't made dinner reservations yet either, so I should probably do that if we want to go anywhere.




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  • We are keeping it low-key this year and getting season 4 of Game of Thrones for each other.  Which technically doesn't come out until the Tuesday after Valentine's Day, so... fancy :)

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  • I'm not sure we're doing much of anything.   I kind of want to surprise him with a gift, but I don't want to be disappointed when he can't magically read my mind that he should buy me one too. So I probably shouldn't set him up for failure or me up for disappointment. 

    We usually do what @84Lauren does, but we haven't bought our joint Christmas gift yet because we can't decide what we want, so I doubt V day will happen either.

    We are horrible gift givers to each other so there is almost no point.
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  • We normally aren't big on Valentine's Day gifts. We usually just go out to a nice dinner and skip the gifts. I want to get him something this year because he has been really great lately, I've required a lot of extra patience!


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  • Uhhhh...ummmm...hmmmmm...

    A hug and a kiss when he gets home from work.  You know, like every other night.
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  • DH is getting a steak. Neither one of us will attempt to go out to dinner on V-Day. We are horrible about gift-giving for each other as well.

     


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  • SnShne322 said:
    I'm not sure we're doing much of anything.   I kind of want to surprise him with a gift, but I don't want to be disappointed when he can't magically read my mind that he should buy me one too. So I probably shouldn't set him up for failure or me up for disappointment. 

    We usually do what @84Lauren does, but we haven't bought our joint Christmas gift yet because we can't decide what we want, so I doubt V day will happen either.

    We are horrible gift givers to each other so there is almost no point.
    So... you'd only surprise your husband with something nice if you knew you were getting something nice in return???

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  • We usually just exchange cards and maybe chocolate/flowers. DH's birthday is the 7th so we don't do much for Valentine's Day on top of that. I hate the crowds so we rarely go out to eat. Our babysitters (my parents) are going to be on vacation then this year so we won't have a sitter so it will probably be just a low key night at home.
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  • We aren't really big on Valentine's Day. We go out to a nice dinner every year for our engagement anniversary, which is this weekend, so we tend to skip a V-Day dinner because it's usually crowded and overpriced on the actual holiday. I think it's kind of a dumb holiday in general, so we sometimes get each other flowers but otherwise we skip it.
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  • We also don't do gifts. I'll typically cook a nice dinner and splurge on a nice bottle of wine, but that's about it.

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  • 84Lauren said:
    SnShne322 said:
    I'm not sure we're doing much of anything.   I kind of want to surprise him with a gift, but I don't want to be disappointed when he can't magically read my mind that he should buy me one too. So I probably shouldn't set him up for failure or me up for disappointment. 

    We usually do what @84Lauren does, but we haven't bought our joint Christmas gift yet because we can't decide what we want, so I doubt V day will happen either.

    We are horrible gift givers to each other so there is almost no point.
    So... you'd only surprise your husband with something nice if you knew you were getting something nice in return???
    Yes.  But it's not callous.  Neither of us would.  We might be unromantic, I guess, but we don't typically surprise each other with gifts.  It happens so rarely that I think we are uncomfortable with it.  Instead, we usually do something fun or discuss exchanging gifts.  Sometimes, like in this instance, I feel like doing something different, but I know it doesn't work well for us.

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  • We aren't really into Valentine's day.  It's kind of unfair to DH because my birthday is a month before Christmas and two weeks before Valentine's; that's a lot of gift giving in a short period of time.
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  • SnShne322 said:

    84Lauren said:
    SnShne322 said:
    I'm not sure we're doing much of anything.   I kind of want to surprise him with a gift, but I don't want to be disappointed when he can't magically read my mind that he should buy me one too. So I probably shouldn't set him up for failure or me up for disappointment. 

    We usually do what @84Lauren does, but we haven't bought our joint Christmas gift yet because we can't decide what we want, so I doubt V day will happen either.

    We are horrible gift givers to each other so there is almost no point.
    So... you'd only surprise your husband with something nice if you knew you were getting something nice in return???
    Yes.  But it's not callous.  Neither of us would.  We might be unromantic, I guess, but we don't typically surprise each other with gifts.  It happens so rarely that I think we are uncomfortable with it.  Instead, we usually do something fun or discuss exchanging gifts.  Sometimes, like in this instance, I feel like doing something different, but I know it doesn't work well for us.

    ::shrugs::
    Huh.  

    I love surprising H.  It makes me happy when he gets excited over something he wasn't expecting. I never really expect anything in return unless we've made specific plans to exchange gifts.
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  • MrsJenE said:
    SnShne322 said:

    84Lauren said:
    SnShne322 said:
    I'm not sure we're doing much of anything.   I kind of want to surprise him with a gift, but I don't want to be disappointed when he can't magically read my mind that he should buy me one too. So I probably shouldn't set him up for failure or me up for disappointment. 

    We usually do what @84Lauren does, but we haven't bought our joint Christmas gift yet because we can't decide what we want, so I doubt V day will happen either.

    We are horrible gift givers to each other so there is almost no point.
    So... you'd only surprise your husband with something nice if you knew you were getting something nice in return???
    Yes.  But it's not callous.  Neither of us would.  We might be unromantic, I guess, but we don't typically surprise each other with gifts.  It happens so rarely that I think we are uncomfortable with it.  Instead, we usually do something fun or discuss exchanging gifts.  Sometimes, like in this instance, I feel like doing something different, but I know it doesn't work well for us.

    ::shrugs::
    Huh.  

    I love surprising H.  It makes me happy when he gets excited over something he wasn't expecting. I never really expect anything in return unless we've made specific plans to exchange gifts.
    I know it's probably not typical.  If he wants to surprise me with something, he cleans up a messy house while I'm out or I make him a batch of his favorite treat. Usually something small.  When we surprised each other with gifts before, the other would just want to run out and get something for the other, which sort of defeated the purpose.
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  • MrsJenE said:
    SnShne322 said:

    84Lauren said:
    SnShne322 said:
    I'm not sure we're doing much of anything.   I kind of want to surprise him with a gift, but I don't want to be disappointed when he can't magically read my mind that he should buy me one too. So I probably shouldn't set him up for failure or me up for disappointment. 

    We usually do what @84Lauren does, but we haven't bought our joint Christmas gift yet because we can't decide what we want, so I doubt V day will happen either.

    We are horrible gift givers to each other so there is almost no point.
    So... you'd only surprise your husband with something nice if you knew you were getting something nice in return???
    Yes.  But it's not callous.  Neither of us would.  We might be unromantic, I guess, but we don't typically surprise each other with gifts.  It happens so rarely that I think we are uncomfortable with it.  Instead, we usually do something fun or discuss exchanging gifts.  Sometimes, like in this instance, I feel like doing something different, but I know it doesn't work well for us.

    ::shrugs::
    Huh.  

    I love surprising H.  It makes me happy when he gets excited over something he wasn't expecting. I never really expect anything in return unless we've made specific plans to exchange gifts.
    Yeah, totally - I mean it's totally different if your HUSBAND would be uncomfortable with a surprise himself... but if he would really like the gift, and you would then be disappointed just because you didn't get one in return, that's kind of messed up. I feel like that's why people hate gift giving, when people put strings on it. 

    But I guess I just read your OP wrong :)

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  • 84Lauren said:
    Yeah, totally - I mean it's totally different if your HUSBAND would be uncomfortable with a surprise himself... but if he would really like the gift, and you would then be disappointed just because you didn't get one in return, that's kind of messed up. I feel like that's why people hate gift giving, when people put strings on it. 

    But I guess I just read your OP wrong :)
    No there aren't strings attached.  In this case for Valentine's day, I would be going against our gift giving history and that would make him uncomfortable.  Would he appreciate the gift? Definitely, but he would feel like he wanted to return or or get me something because he felt bad, and it defeats the idea in general.
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  • We don't really exchange gifts on Valentine's Day. We usually go out to dinner or something, but we are going on an extended vacation just two weeks later, so I think I'm going to tell him not to make reservations anywhere fancy this year. 

    My brother in law lives with us, so maybe we can just go out for a drink or something, just to get some alone time.
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  • This is the first year that we are celebrating Valentine's Day ever in 9 years. I dislike this holiday because I feel it is a Hallmark holiday, but I also have two boys. I don't want them to grow up disliking the day only because their mom did. We are cooking a nice dinner together, and MH will pick up some flowers with the boys. No gifts really, just enjoying the day together as a family.
  • hmmm....nothing?
    Our anniversary is the week before so we don't really celebrate Valentine's Day at all.
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  • We usually do cards, chocolates or flowers, and dinner. Sometimes we'll cook a fancy meal at home or go out. We'd both rather skip the long restaurant wait on the 14th, so we try to go out on an off day. 

    This year I'm just looking forward to a night out to relax by ourselves.  
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  • We don't usually do anything for Valentine's Day.  It's usually just a low key night with the 2 of us eating a nice meal at home.

    We never exchange gifts on Valentine's Day.  Our anniversary is 2 weeks after Christmas.  After exchanging Christmas gifts and having a nice dinner on our anniversary, this would be overkill.
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  • Maybe a better question to ask would be what would you get your SO right now as a surprise that has nothing to do with Valentine's Day :)  


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  • dmlk413 said:
    We aren't really into Valentine's day.  It's kind of unfair to DH because my birthday is a month before Christmas and two weeks before Valentine's; that's a lot of gift giving in a short period of time.
    You have two birthdays? ;-)
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  • Lauren620 said:
    Maybe a better question to ask would be what would you get your SO right now as a surprise that has nothing to do with Valentine's Day :)  
    Legos.  Maybe that doesn't help.
    Or I would have a photo album from last year ready to go as a gift to both of us. 
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  • Lauren620 said:
    Maybe a better question to ask would be what would you get your SO right now as a surprise that has nothing to do with Valentine's Day :)  
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  • We aren't big on Valentine's Day do we'll probably give each other a card and go out to dinner.

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  • I got my husband tickets to see our two favorite hockey teams play each other in March... We definitely celebrate V-day but usually on the week or weekend before. We tried going out on Vday and agree with others that say it was over priced and too crowded.

    His BD is a week later (mine is 4 days later) so February is definitely an expensive month. For his BD I'm getting him a blu-ray player that he wants so we can stream stuff in our bedroom onto the TV. Right now our only blu-ray player is in our living room/theater set up.

    Other ideas....I agree with the legos (look into possibly a subscription to pleygo...I got that for my husband for our anniversary and he adores it!), Beer of the Season Club (it's a club where they send you different beers from microbreweries once every 3 months), those are all the recent ones that I can think of....
  • We never do anything really.  This year our theater chain is hosting screenings of all Best Picture Oscar nominees so we may do that but not BECAUSE of Valentine's Day.

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  • We aren't really big on Valentine's Day. We go out to a nice dinner every year for our engagement anniversary, which is this weekend, so we tend to skip a V-Day dinner because it's usually crowded and overpriced on the actual holiday. I think it's kind of a dumb holiday in general, so we sometimes get each other flowers but otherwise we skip it.
    @Young_Love That is precious!
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