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Hi Eveyone, its ,me again with another ? How much money do you all keep in your checking account. I have tried so many different things and its not working out. At first, I allocated every dime of our paychecks and literally had 1.00 left in checking. I then would find myself needing gas a few days before payday with no $ in the account. Im also afraid that if we keep too much money in the account that we would spend it on eating out, clothes, etc.. HELP PLEASE! What does MM do?
Re: Checking Account
I budget my personal checking to $0 every paycheck (well actually $60-65 to cover gas). It works well for me because I take my allowance out in cash and all my other bills/savings come out. Then I know I have $60-65 left to spend on gas only. This works for me because I know it costs me roughly $30 to fill up and I fill up once a week. If a real emergency were to come up and I had to travel more and blew my gas budget I'd probably take from savings or use my credit card and then pay off it when I got paid next, but this is extremely rare for me.
You may want to add in a $100-200 buffer in your checking that you earmark only for these instances and do not spend on eating out, clothes, etc. You could also try taking out an allowance in cash each month to cover stuff like eating out, clothes, etc. that way you get in the habit of not using your debit card for those things and then you won't touch your buffer unless absolutely necessary.
I have a buffer in my joint checking where all my autopayments come out of of roughly $100. I also have a auto draft from my savings set up just in case. The mortgage comes out of this account so I'm extra careful.
It's different for everyone, you just have to find what works for you!
ETA: If you find this is happening every month I would recommend taking another look at your budget and see where it's not adding up then make adjustments accordingly. Also, do not use a CC for gas unless you know you'll pay it in full without interest.
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I think you understand the concept of budgeting. Where you're running in to trouble isn't in budgeting. Your issue is that you are making the money too easy to access with your debit card. This is why while your budgeting intentions are there, you have $0 left before the end of the month.
It honestly sounds like more of a money spending self-control issue (no judging, though we all have issues with that here to certain extents here in MM ;o) ).
So, what can you do to make using the DC and running down your checking account harder???
It's a bit tedious, but why not use an old fashioned transaction register from your bank? It's that paper booklet that comes in checkbooks with all the horizontal lines. If you write in each purchase and subtract from your overall balance, you will visually see the money leaving your account. It will make spending that money harder. Because are you really ready to part ways with it?
I think some posters here also use and have benefitted from a cash only envelope method.
We keep a $1000 buffer in the checking account to cover bank errors. We haven't ever personally had any, but I know people who have. We do not use debit cards at all except in rare occassions to pull money from our bank's atm just to have cash on hand. So the only thing we have coming out of the account are bills (including the credit card payments) and transfers to savings accounts.