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What would you do with Inheritance?
Re: What would you do with Inheritance?
I know everyone has their own thoughts on debt vs non-debt. But I'm anti-risk 100%. There's a risk with having a mortgage, and that risk is to have my home taken away if our life completely changed someday. So many say it's worth keeping for the tax advantage. But I'll give the math on our home. We were able to write off $1,800 in interest last year. However, our mortgage payment equals $4,800/year. Why would we keep a $4,800 expense for a $1,800 tax advantage that we can only take if we itemize (which we do not have enough to do)?
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With a $310,000 mortgage, I'm going to assume having that paid off will mean an extra $3,000 in the budget each month. That's an extra $36,000/year to work with. There's a lot of things you can do with an extra $36,000.
TTC since 1/13 DX:PCOS 5/13 (long, anovulatory cycles)

Clomid 50mg 9/13 = BFP! EDD 6/7/14 M/C 5w6d Found 11/4/13
1/14 PCOS / Gluten Free Diet to hopefully regulate my system.
Chemical Pregnancy 03/14
Surprise BFP 6/14, Beta #1: 126 Beta #2: 340 Stick baby, stick! EDD 2/17/15
Riley Elaine born 2/16/15
TTC 2.0 6/15
Chemical Pregnancy 9/15
Chemical Pregnancy 6/16
BFP 9/16 EDD 6/3/17
Beta #1: 145 Beta #2: 376 Beta #3: 2,225 Beta #4: 4,548
www.5yearstonever.blogspot.com
H and I were just talking the other day about what we would do if we won a small amount in the lottery.
I pretty much agree with everything @hoffse has said. Let that money sit in your account for a month or so. Maybe give yourself $1000 to just splurge on something.
The first thing I would do after that is max out retirement funds. I am not debt-averse, and if you already have a cushy e-fund, then there isn't a lot of worry about what would happen if one of you loses your job. I do like the idea of refinancing to a 15-year mortgage though. We have one and it definitely provides additional peace of mind. As long as it is paid off before retirement, we wouldn't worry about paying it off early.
The second thing we would probably do is decide how much we want to give either to help family members and/or to donate to our favorite local charities.
The third thing we would do is complete some home improvements that we have had planned for several years.
Even if I had any left after those things, I personally would not worry about paying off my mortgage. I would just put the extra away, either invested if that is your thing or just saved up for future vacation plans.