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Hope everyone had a safe and happy 4th of July!!
June
1. How good were you at keeping your money goals for this month?
2. What did you do differently this month that helped?
3. What were your greatest achievements?
4. What were your biggest downfalls?
July1. What are your goals for this month?
2. What do you plan to do differently to get to your goal?
3. What area of your budget do you want to work on this month, and how do you plan to do that?
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What is your biggest financial regret? What financial decision has made you most proud?
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Re: June/July check-in.
DH's parents have also officially moved in. I actually don't mind having them here, although MIL has little habits that are already starting to add up and drive me nuts. For example, she leaves the lights on everywhere, runs the dishwasher when it's only partially full (like if the top rack has 5 glasses in it, she runs the machine. And this happens at least once a day), and she does at least one load of laundry on the longest cycle each day (even if the load consists of 3 t-shirts or something crazy). Our electric bill has doubled and our water bill is more than triple what it usually is. I mean, we expected the bills to go up because there are more people in the house, but yikes!
I'm proud that DH and I both have retirement funds (I'm jealous that his company offers a matching 401K!). Most of our friends don't and even some of our parents think it's silly for us to be thinking about retirement when we're in our mid-20s, but it makes me feel good that even if I can only put a little bit into that account each month, it's still there.
1. How good were you? We put reduced spending in place during the month so we didn't have the full impact but we did pretty good.
2. What did you do differently? We went out to eat less, did more meal planning and started hosting on AirBnB. We were aggressive with BnB and hosted a lot which will put us ahead and give us some cushion in future months/if emergencies come up.
3. Greatest achievements? DH got a 2 month temp job at the end of the month! It isn't the greatest pay but is a paycheck and steady for 2 months while he continues to look. It also looks like we will be getting BnB "superhost" status after only one month of hosting.
4. Biggest downfall?
$20 unplanned on food at the Kid Rock concert.
July
1. Goals for this month?
Less spending than last month.
2. What do you plan to do differently to get to your goal?
Start managing every dollar to keep closer to reduced spending goals. Meal plan some cheap meals to give room to the entertainment budget.
3. What area will you work on this month?
Plan better for household expenses. I started subscriptions through Target to get an extra 5% off things we buy regularly and to save trips to the store for those items.
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I have no financial regrets. I have been MM my entire life and careful with all major decisions.
I am most proud that I was able to graduate from an expensive business school with zero school debt.
1. How good were you at keeping your money goals for this month? Meh. Not bad I guess. Last month I had upped my Roth IRA contribution and this month I realized it was just too much. I lowered it back down and I need to increase it gradually instead of trying to be at my goal right away. I am already contributing about 16% to my 401K so I was trying to contribute 4% to my Roth IRA, but it just wasn't working. We also went a little over budget on a couple of things but nothing major.
- Fair. We didn't save as much as I hoped. Technically, we still made our goal, but only because our savings goal hasn't been amended to our new target date. Potentially cutting 11 months of our plan has really thrown a wrench. Really, at this point I don't even know if I'm going to rework the budget on paper. We're just saving every dime we can and tossing it into our Move Money account. But, I did pay my student loan in full last month, 6 months ahead of schedule. I'll take it!
1. What are your goals for this month?
- Continue to save everything we can for our potential move. We should hopefully find out this week if we're going or not, so we'll have a better idea of what to expect.
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- Biggest regret- private school 100%. I was actually just talking about this today. It was more than graduating with SL debt. I almost failed my senior project because I was working so much, I rarely even made it to class. I found myself in the biggest catch 22. I had to work to pay my tuition, but I couldn't go to class because I was always at work. I didn't take out unnecessary loans, or loans on which to live, just to subsidize my tuition. But it still felt so overwhelming.
- Most Proud- it seems like such a small thing now, but I know it will all add up eventually. I started saving in my 401(k) from the second I was eligible. Sometimes it was hard, especially at 22, when all my friends were out all the time, some still living on student loans, doing whatever they wanted, seemed to be "living the dream." That's when I started to find balance between spending, and saving for short-term and long-term goals. I remain fairly balanced when it comes to finance. H and I never fight about money. We never have. We disagree about plenty of things, but money isn't one of them.