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Long term disability insurance--Who has it?
So DH and I finally got life insurance a few months ago. Now, we are considering getting long term disability insurance since at a young age, you are more likely to become disabled than die after an accident (morbid thought I know).
Who here has it? What company did you get it from? What percent of your income would it replace? Did you get a good rate?
Re: Long term disability insurance--Who has it?
Husband has it via his job. I do not.
But, here's just an honest question on the topic for anybody for the sake of discussion...
With the level of technology now with prosthetics and even mobility tools (scooters, chairs, etc.) as well as advances in PT and OT, what would be some instances in which you couldn't go back to work and were totally prohibited from having any source of income thus needing to rely upon long-term disability?
I recognize that if you become disabled, you may not be able to return to your same field of work that one was in prior to an accident, but there are lot of jobs people who are disabled could do in place of their previous area of work.
Maybe I'm wrong and there are others, but the things I could think of that could totally prevent someone from returning to earn an income are chronic pain, vegetative state, or total paralysis.
This is a good thing to think about, so thanks for bringing it up, OP! I am not offered this benefit through work and am also curious if it's possible to obtain independently. Though I know government disability benefits do exist, my understanding is that they are barely enough to get by on.
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I currently have STD and LTD through my employer. They are free benefits now, but I have always purchased both when those policies were available to add with other employers. I've never purchased these types of policies outside of a job, though.
LTD is typically pretty cheap to buy because most policies don't kick in until after 6 months from a disability occurring. The vast majority of disabling injuries/conditions will happen and be over within 6 months anyway...which falls under STD.
You just never know! I have a friend who went on disability from her job 15 years ago. She collects both SSI and LTD. Having LTD was a godsend for her. She scrapes by with just a little left over each month...and that is with both. I don't know what she would do if she only had the SSI.
@blondie42107, yes, I do mean SSD. I was just thinking Social Security, in general. Thanks for the correction. In fact, if I am not mistaken, I think when she turns 65 the SSD turns into the more typical SSI AND she loses her LTD all together. Because then she will be considered at retirement age.
She's in her late 50s and I know she is already stressing about what will happen when she loses the LTD.
Now I can't help but be snarky. Even though she is a friend, I don't have a lot of sympathy. While she does have medical problems, I strongly suspect she could have gone back to work a long time ago. She has even talked about, but doesn't want to give up her situation unless she can land in at least a $45K/year job...even though she has no higher education, no current experience, and no computer skills. I think that is her way of saying "she's trying", but making sure her goal is unachievable so she doesn't have to change anything. She even worked a heavy part-time job a few years ago during a campaign because she really liked the politician.
I understand the somewhat lack of sympathy. In my line of work I see people who truly can't return to work and others that probably could, just not the same job. SS has a trial return to work program but I think many are scared they'll get kicked off SS disability and unable to continue working.
@blondie42107, thanks for the info! I never thought of it before, but I could see where SS retirement could be substantially diminished if a person was basically on SS disability for 20-25 of their working years. That's a substantial chunk of time they weren't putting into the system.
She does receive Medicare, but earns enough between the LTD and SSD that she does not qualify for any other type of assistance...though that might change after she is 65.
But, yeah, as a contrast I had a friend in college who was on SSD because she could no longer work as a server due to her disability. But that is why she was in college! So she would earn an education that would allow her to do something less physically intensive and get off SSD. She has been gainfully employed for many years now.
It can vary by policies, but typically short term is for only 6 months and LTD does not kick in until AFTER 6 months have passed. There are actually all kinds of conditions that can kick someone into LTD...not even necessarily something as severe as a vegetative state.
Cancer and cancer treatments can last that long or longer. Organ transplants. Heart problems. Bad car accident. Even dangerously high blood pressure will do it.
One of my coworker's friends was in a horrible car accident on New Year's Eve. He was in a coma for almost a month, was bed ridden for 6 months, and is now in physical therapy which will last about one year. He's lucky to be alive and not paralyzed, but it will be almost two years before he can go back to any kind of work.
My friend I mentioned above, who had been a server, got food poisoning from her workplace that permanently paralyzed her stomach. She was considered too disabled to work for a few years until she graduated from college and could work in a less physically intensive job. How's that for a crazy disability the average person would never even think of!