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NMR: If you watched the debates who did you like?
Re: NMR: If you watched the debates who did you like?
As much as I love her, I'm torn about wanting her to run for President. Part of me would rather see her have a long, illustrious Senate career a la Ted Kennedy, her predecessor. We need people like her in the Senate who are proactive and willing to stray from the party line when appropriate. I think she'll make a huge difference there.
I thought the same thing about Obama 8 years ago. I at least would have rather seen him serve as a senator a bit longer before running. It's pretty embarrassing in retrospect but I think I voted for John Edwards in the 2008 primary.
My issue with them is the selling of fetal tissue and the videos that came out this summer. I found them horrifying that they were discussing babies like spare parts in a junk yard.
My issue with them is the selling of fetal tissue and the videos that came out this summer. I found them horrifying that they were discussing babies like spare parts in a junk yard.
I just can't understand why anyone would be opposed to turning an abortion into helping improve the care and treatment of disease through science. It's an apples to oranges comparison, but it's almost like declining organ donation. Why wouldn't you want to make as much positive as you can from a situation no woman wants to be in?
Then why are they SELLING it? They can donate the tissue and get the same result, minus the income stream.
Then why are they SELLING it? They can donate the tissue and get the same result, minus the income stream.
It's not proven that they are. There are significant costs associated with collecting, storing and transferring human cells and organs. They are legally allowed to recoup those expenses.
ETA: Jinx @formerlyGDaisy09! Thanks for articulating my simplified explanation far better than I ever could.
So many good and interesting responses! I lost track of everyone I wanted to quote, so I'll summarize, lol.
I'm very generally following all the candidates, but I'm registered "non-partisan" anyway, so I don't get to vote in the primaries. I'll start paying a lot more attention when we are narrowed down to two. Like @hoffse and others, I'm SO SO tired of the extremism. And I always find it baffling that it seems to come down to that. Extreme=small percentage of population. It makes logical sense politicians should be focused on the swing voters/middle road folks, but they never are.
Also agree with @hoffse on politicians needlessly beating dead horses for no reason. Generally speaking, abortion and same sex marriage fall under the Judicial branch (ie SCOTUS) of our government and have already been decided...not the Executive branch anyway. So stop endlessly talking about it, candidates. Stop throwing my scarce state taxes at windmills because you disagree with a SCOTUS decision...talking to you, Gov. Jindal. (He spent a couple mil. trying to do some loop around that states can make their own rules for state courts, even if it counters a SCOTUS decision).
Tax system needs to be simplified. I won't even pretend that I'd have any idea how to do that. Though I'd start with the most popular deductions disappearing...ie child dependents and mortgage interest. Hence, why it will never happen.
Affordable medical care for everyone. The ACA is "sort of" a start, but the bigger problem is the vicious cycle of private insurance we have been living under for too long. Medical bills are astronomical...because "meh, who cares, insurance pays them." But now that medical bills are astronomical, insurance rates are astronomical. It's the medical bills that need to decrease and get reigned into a fair amount. How do we do that? I don't know the answer.
(Going a bit rogue and "out there" on this one) Though I think it would help if we can turn medical care into a more open marketplace. Like...readily available price lists for different services. We read reviews and compare costs for things like cars and electronics...why can't we do the same for medical services? Because, I guarantee you, if most consumers started considering prices for their medication/surgeries/doctor visits...we would start to see the laws of competition go into effect. That is what is largely missing in our current configuration. So we continue to pay $150 for one dose of aspirin in the hospital. Because, "meh, who cares, insurance pays it". As an aside, I did have a coworker who brings his own bottle of aspirin to the hospital and will tell the nurses, "No, I brought my own. Take that away. Don't charge me for it." Love it, lol!
@simplyelise, thanks for Common Core math illustration. What is really funny about that is I started doing math that way...as an adult...about 15 years ago. I just figured it out for myself that this was an easier way to do math in my head. It was like an epiphany and then I was kind of pi**ed off they never taught me that technique in school. Not saying it is best for everyone, but I would have had a much easier time in math if I learned that method when I was actually in school.
As for Trump, he could not be a bigger no for me. To me, a KEY character trait that a world leader must possess is tact and diplomacy. POTUS is our country's face to the world and I don't want to spend four years wondering which head of state, ambassador, or business leader is being grossly insulted this week.
@AprilZ81, the insurance I currently have through my employer is kind of like what you are talking about. It is a high deductible plan...it pays nothing, not even for prescriptions or doctor visits...until I have spent $8,000 out of pocket (family) or $3,000 (individual). The individual plan is free, the family plan is $17/month.
The company also has a more traditional plan, but it is a few hundred bucks for family and a couple hundred for employee only.
I even have a lot of medical/prescription expenses but, when I did the math, it was still cheaper for me to just pay out of pocket. Then pay the higher premium PLUS my most expensive medication was the highest tier on that plan anyway. So it would have been $50/pop.
My solution? I buy my medication from an online Canadian pharmacy for less than half the cost it would be in the U.S. Exact same brand, exact same medication. I can even turn in those receipts to my insurance and they count toward my deductible. Though, thankfully, so far I've never come close to hitting that $8K.
Unfortunately, I can't do a lot about the cost of doctor/lab visits. I should start being more proactive and angle for a "cash discount". I think one of the other big losses for medical institutions...though probably more on the hospital side...is the expense of not having patient bills paid. Either because the patient didn't have insurance or...did have insurance, but still couldn't pay some of their portion.
You're also right about the enormous cost of malpractice insurance. I've often heard of limiting lawsuit sizes as a way of bringing down costs for the provider side of medicine.
As an aside, I was in a mock jury awhile back in regards to a case where a person had been paralyzed. And, although a bit disconcerting to relate someone's life to their "dollar value", the prosecuting attorney laid out the math for how they had come to the judgment they were requesting. Some factors included were the man's expected medical expenses, his lifetime earnings he would have made (which took into account his previous income and age at time of injury). But, looking at it from that perspective. While everybody's life is priceless, from a judgment standpoint, nobody's life is worth tens of millions of dollars.
@smerka, for some reason I can't quote you
. This is extra bad where I live. My H was taken to the ER a few years ago after a bike accident. The ER was PACKED! I soon found out why. I overheard people all around me talking about how long they had been waiting. The lady next to me had an "earache" and had been waiting since 10PM the night before...this was at 1:00PM in the afternoon! Another guy had been waiting since midnight for a similarly minor issue.
I don't understand how people in even minor pain can be waiting around overnight and for hours on end (shudder). It was pretty miserable just for the 30 minutes I was there waiting for the "visiting" 15 minutes. I pray I am never that desperate.
Or in the same respect, voting or not voting for someone based on their family lineage.