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MM: How many credit cards do you have? What's ideal for you?
Re: MM: How many credit cards do you have? What's ideal for you?
On the "no credit vs. mortgage loans" thought, one thing to keep in mind when qualifying for a mortgage is each bank can be very different in what they like to see and what they don't. I had former tenants who were in their late 20s, but they were both anti-credit people and neither of them had ever had a loan or a credit card at all.
Then they found a house they wanted to buy. Their credit scores were very good, mid 700s. I think the credit bureaus automatically start people off with a good score. However, they had zero credit history. Initially, their loan officer was excited and said their good credit score was the main thing...blah, blah, blah...and they received a pre-approval. They went under contract. But then their contract went to the bank's underwriting department and they were given a big, fat NO. Because they had no credit history. They were going to do a 20% down payment and then offered a higher one when they were denied. The bank told them it wouldn't matter, no credit history=no home loan of any kind.
I am not at all doubting @brij2006 and I actually did advise them to talk to different banks. I don't know if they did or not, but the wife's father ended up buying the house with their agreement they would pay the mortgage. Except he didn't co-sign for them, it is just under his name. So, they STILL aren't adding anything to their credit history because they aren't on the loan.
Short story, long. I always recommend people with no credit who are interested in obtaining a home or car loan, get a credit card. It starts that history and even just one purchase every month or two, immediately paid off, makes getting a loan much more likely.
I have a lot of credit cards, though I don't use most of them. Mainly got them for the perks/sign-on bonuses. Usually pay them off each month, unless I am in an interest-free period.
HD and Lowes for their 5% off purchase
Sam's Club and Walmart. I got the Sam's Club one when I had a membership there. And I actually got a membership recently again with a Groupon. It can also be used at Walmart. I also have a Walmart card for their $25 sign up bonus, plus I am there pretty often. Both cards also have a feature where you can get up to $60 as a cash advance, with purchase, but the cash advance is treated like a purchase. That is sometimes handy.
Amex (my Costco card). Got it to use at Costco, though that will be ending next year. 3% on gas and 1% on everything else. It is supposed to be 2% on travel and restaurants, but I've noticed they "miscategorize" those purchases more than half the time.
Barclay's - 1% back
Chase Freedom - 1% back, with 5% rotating bonus categories, plus I got a $200 signing bonus. 5% bonus category through Dec. is Amazon, for my fellow Chasers out there.
BofA - 1% back and I think there is more for other categories. They had a $100 sign up bonus and 18 months of no interest. This is currently the main card I use and the only one I have a balance on because of the no interest thing.
BTW, on that BofA card, I was so excited I had earned $75 cash back last month...until I realized it was because I had charged $7500 that month, lol. Spendy for me, but it was for some of my duplex rehab.
--Two Capital One cards, but each of them are from my "challenged credit score" days. So they both only have a $750 limit and I've also had them long enough they help boost that section of my credit report.
So 6 major credit cards and 4 store cards. Phew!
On top of that, I REALLY need to open a credit card for my LLC business. Right now, I have recurring monthly charge for my business going against one of my personal cards. Not cool. Plus all that rehab stuff is under my business, but I have needed to use my personal cards for some of it.
Reading this thread with a lot of interest since my H and I got the Chase Sapphire Preferred in August and doing our best to work points for a free flight in the future. Question for you - do you and your H each have your own version of the same card? Meaning - do you each have your own Chase Freedom, Sapphire, or Ink card on a separate account, or do you just have one account together in both of your names? Ours is in my name and H is an authorized user, so he has his own card with his name it but the same account number as mine. I'm wondering if it would be worth opening one in his name as well and making me an authorized user on that since it sounds like we could potentially pool our points together that way. Is that allowed? You clearly know a lot more about this than I do!
Probably not so much to do with the credit union and just that you have been lucky
I work for a smaller regional bank rather than a large chain. Some of the restrictions can be selected by the bank if they see a history of fraud amongst their customer transactions. However, a lot of them are determined by the federal government as part of counter-terrorism measures, so banks and credit unions don't have any control over those.
It all really depends on where you travel. The list of restricted/partially restricted countries is updated on an almost daily basis, so it can be hard to keep track of. We had customers in London that had trouble using a debit card because it was restricted in the UK. The next day, it was open to pin-based transactions only. This is why I say to ALWAYS carry an alternate form of payment.
Tried to use my credit card 1 time at the train station and it was declined. They shut my card down and left a message for my mom (she was authorized as my contact while out of the country for extended period) to let her know that I can not use it at an airport or train station in a foreign country. Thank God I had my debit card with me, because I used that instead.
TTC since 1/13 DX:PCOS 5/13 (long, anovulatory cycles)

Clomid 50mg 9/13 = BFP! EDD 6/7/14 M/C 5w6d Found 11/4/13
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Federal regulations have changed about a hundred times since 8 years ago. I don't doubt at all that you've had luck with just using a debit card, but I just want to make sure that people understand all of the risks and hassle that this *could* subject a person to.
You are correct that debit cards have the same protections as credit cards. However, w/ credit cards you have a longer amount of time to dispute a fraudulent transaction than you do with a debit card. Also, some people don't keep high balances in their checking accounts, so fraud on a debit card can tie up your daily living funds for days. Not always, but sometimes, that is the case. It depends on if research needs to be done. If fraud happens on a credit card, you typically don't have to worry about those funds being tied up because you wouldn't need them anyways (unless your card is maxed out, in which case that is a whole other MM conversation and you shouldn't be using a credit card in the first place)
OMG, this! I don't keep much in my checking account. Although it wasn't out and out fraud, about five years ago I paid my electricity bill as a ONE-TIME payment using my debit card. For my next month's bill, Entergy just willy-nilly took the money out of my account. I had transactions bouncing everywhere. I disputed the charge with my bank and, while I ultimately reigned victorious, it took about one week for the charge and all the corresponding NSF fees to be reversed.
Thank goodness I always keep at least a small cash reserve at the house, or I would have been left with only credit cards for that entire week and weekend.
That was also the LAST time I ever used a debit card to pay a recurring type of bill.
We have (all are always paid in full each month):
Target Red Card. Use it weekly for all our groceries and get 5% cash back on all purchases and free online shipping.
DH's Citi Visa: Mainly use for our charitable giving to Gospel for Asia (to get points back), which is 1% - this one of DH's oldest cards, so while the cash back is low, we don't want to close it since it has longevity.
My USAA MasterCard: My oldest card. Gets 1% cash back on everything. Use this for online shopping and all other non-Target purchases.
Joint Amex: It's our Costco membership card. Use for gas, restaurants, and hotels due to the 2% cash back. Cards got compromised the other month. DH got a new one, I did not. I know I should for the 2%, but I like the clean simplicity of having a few cards only.
I also have a back-up USBANK Visa, that I use 1-2 times per year to stay active and then use if my main MC gets compromised.
DH has a Discover, which was his first ever CC. It is never used. But we have it in the safe.
Other store cards that are open, but unused are Best Buy and Macy's Amex and are both in the safe.
I like a slim, clean wallet, so I only carry my MC, VISA, and RedCard.
Thank you! One of the other reasons I think credit scores/histories can be really screwy. One of the detriments for my credit history is that it is "too new". Never mind that I'm 41 and have had at least one CC since I was 18. But that doesn't matter at all. They only look at the average length of time of your current open accounts. They don't look that you have had many credit accounts in good standing, most of them are just closed now, for your entire adult life.
Same with loans. Once they are paid off and closed, they are no longer calculated into your score, though lenders can still see them on your history. The payment history might still be calculated for a few years, I'm not sure about that. Of course, if you had a late payment on it at some point. That still definitely counts against you negatively for up to 7 years (rolling eyes).
TTC since 1/13 DX:PCOS 5/13 (long, anovulatory cycles)

Clomid 50mg 9/13 = BFP! EDD 6/7/14 M/C 5w6d Found 11/4/13
1/14 PCOS / Gluten Free Diet to hopefully regulate my system.
Chemical Pregnancy 03/14
Surprise BFP 6/14, Beta #1: 126 Beta #2: 340 Stick baby, stick! EDD 2/17/15
Riley Elaine born 2/16/15
TTC 2.0 6/15
Chemical Pregnancy 9/15
Chemical Pregnancy 6/16
BFP 9/16 EDD 6/3/17
Beta #1: 145 Beta #2: 376 Beta #3: 2,225 Beta #4: 4,548
www.5yearstonever.blogspot.com
That is so weird! You would think your credit score would be through the roof with that history.
That is so weird! You would think your credit score would be through the roof with that history.
ETA: So if we pay off our car loans and only have one credit card we pay off monthly will our credit score be worse? That's crazy lol.