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High-Earning Poor

I thought that this was an interesting article I just came across about the lack of savings with the upper middle class.

http://qz.com/520414/the-high-earning-poor/??utm_source=parIC&cid=sf01002

Two thoughts:

- Really quite scary, because by the age of 55, there is A LOT of catching up to do in a short amount of time if you don't have much for retirement already.

- The article classifies the upper middle class with starting at ~$55k. In my HCOL area, that number seems really difficult to classify as "upper"... Even the upper tier, $74-100k, can be a bit of a stretch if student loans, home/rent, auto, daycare, insurance, etc. are all a factor.

Thoughts?

Re: High-Earning Poor

  • Keeping up with the Jones is in my opinion a national epidemic which has caused a decline in our societal values. American consumerism, and the value of a person being measured by the size of their house, the newness of their car and the brand of the clothes on their backs is detrimental to our individual and national economic health. This new value system (stuff over security and perception over reality) is in large part why so many don't have savings.

    As for $55,000, in my small rural hometown, that would certainly be upper middle class. However, in my current LCOL city and surrounding suburbs, a family with two working parents making that amount would find it hard to afford the rent/mortgage, food, utilities and day care, and consistently save for retirement. That amount equates to approximately $13 an hour per person, which while livable here, it certainly isn't luxurious nor would there be much, if any, room in a typical budget for savings or debt payoff.
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  • bmo88bmo88 member
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    edited November 2015
    Interesting article. As a couple currently carrying about $28,000 in student loan/car loan (previously $65,000 just two years ago) and mortgage debt, and with a high income, I honestly think it comes down to priorities and financial education. 

    We have been fortunate to increase our income significantly each year, however, with those increases we have increased our debt repayment and our retirement savings, not our living expenses. We have taken a few vacations, but we planned and budgeted for them. Every raise, bonus and tax return has either gone to debt or our emergency savings. We rarely eat out, don't buy new clothes, DH drives a 2007 paid off car and I only got a newer car after mine was totaled in an accident two years ago. Our washer and dryer are 16 years old and our house is only a new build because as crazy as it sounds, it was cheaper than an existing home for our area and price range.

    Bottom line: Debt can be leveraged as a tool if done carefully or it can cripple you financially. With financial education, goal setting and a plan, people can live affordable, enjoyable lives on almost any budget. But it can also go the other way with high incomes. You can make the most money in the world and with poor spending habits, little savings and no plans, you can live paycheck to paycheck.
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  • als1982 said:

    Keeping up with the Jones is in my opinion a national epidemic which has caused a decline in our societal values. American consumerism, and the value of a person being measured by the size of their house, the newness of their car and the brand of the clothes on their backs is detrimental to our individual and national economic health. This new value system (stuff over security and perception over reality) is in large part why so many don't have savings.

    As for $55,000, in my small rural hometown, that would certainly be upper middle class. However, in my current LCOL city and surrounding suburbs, a family with two working parents making that amount would find it hard to afford the rent/mortgage, food, utilities and day care, and consistently save for retirement. That amount equates to approximately $13 an hour per person, which while livable here, it certainly isn't luxurious nor would there be much, if any, room in a typical budget for savings or debt payoff.

    I agree with you about the focus on "stuff." I also think it has really hurt our economy. We've traded well made, locally sold goods that supported middle class jobs for cheap luxury goods produced overseas that give the illusion of wealth but only support low paying service sector jobs at home. I truly believe our nation's security and future is at risk from this shift.

    The most surprising part of this article for me was the non-retirement savings part. We're working on our retirement while carrying some debt, so the debt ratios were no surprise, but I'm shocked how many people don't have even $1,000 in a liquid savings account for emergencies.
  • Keeping up with the Jones is in my opinion a national epidemic which has caused a decline in our societal values. American consumerism, and the value of a person being measured by the size of their house, the newness of their car and the brand of the clothes on their backs is detrimental to our individual and national economic health. This new value system (stuff over security and perception over reality) is in large part why so many don't have savings. As for $55,000, in my small rural hometown, that would certainly be upper middle class. However, in my current LCOL city and surrounding suburbs, a family with two working parents making that amount would find it hard to afford the rent/mortgage, food, utilities and day care, and consistently save for retirement. That amount equates to approximately $13 an hour per person, which while livable here, it certainly isn't luxurious nor would there be much, if any, room in a typical budget for savings or debt payoff.
    I agree with you about the focus on "stuff." I also think it has really hurt our economy. We've traded well made, locally sold goods that supported middle class jobs for cheap luxury goods produced overseas that give the illusion of wealth but only support low paying service sector jobs at home. I truly believe our nation's security and future is at risk from this shift. The most surprising part of this article for me was the non-retirement savings part. We're working on our retirement while carrying some debt, so the debt ratios were no surprise, but I'm shocked how many people don't have even $1,000 in a liquid savings account for emergencies.
    I really think this has to do with a lack of impulse control, along with keeping up with the Jones's. If people see that money in their account they spend it, or they already have so much debt that they're living paycheck to paycheck.
  • BlueBirdMBBlueBirdMB member
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    edited November 2015
    This reminds me of a story.  My mom has a friend and we've always suspected she and her husband make a very good living.  They live in an expensive area and live a nice lifestyle.  When we got married a couple of years ago, my parents paid for a large portion of our wedding and her friend said to her, "You have cash just sitting around?"  My mother was like "well yes... of course we have liquid cash."  And her friend says "We can never seem to have more than a thousand dollars of so."  These are people who live in a house valued at around 800k, own a large sailboat, go on several vacations a year, and only buy designer clothing.  
    How does one go about keeping up that balancing act?
  • This reminds me of a story.  My mom has a friend and we've always suspected she and her husband make a very good living.  They live in an expensive area and live a nice lifestyle.  When we got married a couple of years ago, my parents paid for a large portion of our wedding and her friend said to her, "You have cash just sitting around?"  My mother was like "well yes... of course we have liquid cash."  And her friend says "We can never seem to have more than a thousand dollars of so."  These are people who live in a house valued at around 800k, own a large sailboat, go on several vacations a year, and only buy designer clothing.  

    How does one go about keeping up that balancing act?
    Eek, that is so scary!
  • This reminds me of a story.  My mom has a friend and we've always suspected she and her husband make a very good living.  They live in an expensive area and live a nice lifestyle.  When we got married a couple of years ago, my parents paid for a large portion of our wedding and her friend said to her, "You have cash just sitting around?"  My mother was like "well yes... of course we have liquid cash."  And her friend says "We can never seem to have more than a thousand dollars of so."  These are people who live in a house valued at around 800k, own a large sailboat, go on several vacations a year, and only buy designer clothing.  

    How does one go about keeping up that balancing act?
    Eek, that is so scary!

    BAW, ok that is just ridiculously excessive and poor planning/money management.

    When I read the article, the point that really stuck out to me was the lower bracket that a household at "upper middle class" is considered. Even with good money management and realatively low debt (i.e.: not a $800k house and brand new cars), it can definitely be a struggle. Throw in no savings/emergency funds with keeping up with the Jonses and you wind up with a good percent of older workers with no retirement plan. I guess I'm not saying anything but that it just freaks me out... Especially adding in also that the current state of social security management is not working/sustainable :/
  • Yeah I'm with April on the quality of the article.  They really should separate out low-interest mortgage debt vs. student loan debt vs. consumer/credit card debt.  I mean, with a mortgage you also get a house.  I feel like these articles often ignore that a house is actually something that should be considered a personal asset, and if you were an accountant the house value would offset the mortgage debt on a balance sheet.

    Likewise, student loan debt is an investment in future earning potential.  Certainly not everyone makes a smart decision with how much they borrow, but you CAN borrow tens or even hundreds of thousands of dollars for your education and have it pay off in spades.  Student loans aren't inherently evil, and if you leverage them correctly they can be a great way to boost your earning potential for decades.

    As for savings, it's really all about trade-off.  When you choose to spend money today, it's gone for future spending tomorrow.  Sometimes that's fine, sometimes it's a problem.  It depends a lot on your debt-to-income ratio, your savings rate, your current income, and your potential for income growth.  If you're doing everything you need to be doing - good savings rate, secure job, retirement planning on track - then I don't see a problem with spending some of it on luxuries.  The thing is, a lot of people put luxuries higher than those other categories, and then they are toast. 
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