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1. How MM was your weekend?
2. Any progress towards goals?
3. Do you decorate your home for holidays or seasons?
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2. $917 to ROTHs. Second to last month. We no longer qualify in 2016! Slight set back with new washer and dryer to the tune of $1,500. We bought it at 24 months no interest, but plan to pay $250 a month for the next 6 months in order to keep rolling on our student loan.
3. Minimally. For the fall I have a single wicker pumpkin from Pottery Barn for the dining room table (bought with a house warming gift card over 6 years ago). For Christmas, I have my grandparents old tree from the 1960s and lights but no ornaments and one wreath for the door (Michael's last year at 75% off!) Home decor is clearly not a financial priority for us!
1. How MM was your weekend?
Not bad. $28 on date activities, $75 on groceries and toiletries, $8.13 for my niece's bday gift, and $17 for a christmas gift for my nephew which we grabbed while it was on sale.
2. Any progress towards goals?
$1257 to student loans on Friday. Current balance is $22,804
3. Do you decorate your home for holidays or seasons?
I don't have any fall or thanksgiving or halloween decorations. So we really only decorate for christmas with a small (maybe 3 foot) hand-me-down tree and our combined ornaments. My mom gets every family member an ornament each year and has since I was little, so our 3 ft tree is pretty well covered! We got a very nice willow tree nativity set as a christmas gift last year and I think we're going to try and make an advent calendar to hang up as well.
1. How MM was your weekend?
Pretty good. Nothing spent Friday. Bought a chest freezer for $130 on Saturday. It wasn't budgeted, but my H and I have been talking about getting one for a long time and this was a crazy good deal. It is twice as big as the typical chest freezer and $70 cheaper. It was a special buy at HD for $158, but I bought the last floor model and asked for a discount. They gave me $15 off, plus I had a 10% off coupon...so that was another $14 off. MM win!
On Sunday, we rarely order out pizza, but were in a mood. Spent $30 on Dominoes.
2. Any progress towards goals?
No progress on paying off my HELOC, but the rehab on my duplex is almost done and today should be the last day I'll regularly be having my two construction guys working there. Phew!They've been bleeding me dry! They charge a very fair price, but its still a huge chunk of money because it has been 5-6 days/week for many weeks.
3. Do you decorate your home for holidays or seasons?
I've never decorated outside my house, other than a wreath on my door, but I usually put up a Christmas tree and pull out a few X-mas décor items and start drinking coffee out of my mug that looks like peppermint candies, lol.
I don't decorate for Halloween anymore, though all I ever did in the past was put out a jack-o-lantern. Don't even do that now! For the Mardi Gras season (I live in NOLA), I put a Mardi Gras decorated wreath on my door.
2. No progress yet but hopefully by the end of the month.
3. We decorate for Christmas and I also have seasonal door decorations - a snowflake in winter, heart for Valentine's Day, bunny for Easter, sunflowers for summer, scarecrow for fall and a turkey for Thanksgiving. I bought all of these at the Dollar Tree throughout the last few years!
1. How MM was your weekend?
It was... ok. We went to Costco on Friday night, which was budgeted on my end. I told my H I had $100 to spend, and he'd be responsible for anything over that. He tends to add extra things to the cart. Ended up spending $198, but he stuck to his word and picked up the extra $98. On Saturday, we dropped my car off to get tires rotated (free), but then that meant he had to go to the grocery store with me, which always means I end up buying some extra items. But, all in all still ok.. budget was $75 and I spent $80, but that included our Thanksgiving turkey. We also had to go buy a part for our washing machine to fix the latch, that was $13 but H paid for that, and I bought us lunch at a burger place, that was $17. Sunday didn't spend anything.
He's trying to convince me he needs to get an RZR offroad vehicle. He says he can afford it, which he can, but of course this is where we differ... I'm like well, sure you can afford it, but you don't need it. He wants it. We ended it at the dealership with him deciding we needed to go home and measure our toy hauler camper to see if it'll fit. We measured, and it'll be tight. He has now decided to take the camper down there to really make sure if it'll fit. Sigh. I hope it doesn't fit.
2. Any progress towards goals?
Moved $125 towards savings. Didn't get much else done in terms of non-monetary goals as we were out of the house most of the weekend.
3. Do you decorate your home for holidays or seasons?
Yes, some. We were gifted a new artificial tree for the wedding so I'm going to put that up, I hope I have enough ornaments for it... have a couple bins full but my old tree was tiny. Also have a wreath for the door. I'm contemplating doing lights outside. H doesn't want to do the lights, but we already have them left over from the wedding. We'll see... we would have to borrow a ladder and I worry about the extra cost to the electric bill. We aren't actually in town for Christmas so I tend to not go overboard.
1. How MM was your weekend? Pretty good- groceries ($170), gas ($25), post office ($10), sold more fabric online (+$33), and cleaned out our guest room/my sewing room this weekend. Feels good to have that more organized.
2. Any progress towards goals? $1,000 went to savings and we moved DH's Roth IRA to fidelity (from AXA where his 403b is) so it'll be easier for us to manage. Also only have 1 more payment on the sewer bill- $700 left!
3. Do you decorate your home for holidays or seasons? Yes we have a few things for each holiday (wreaths for the door, tablecloths, etc), but Christmas is the main holiday we decorate for. Our outside is done but we don't turn the lights on until the day after Thanksgiving. DH likes to put them up when it's decent out and it was in the 50's on Veterans Day. We put the tree up and decorate inside (stockings, small things for the mantel and sideboard) the day after Thanksgiving because we're all home and it's easy to get it done then. We don't have too much but it's fun to show the girls everything- DD#1 is really excited about decorations this year. She was really disappointed when I put up 1 Halloween decoration, so I'm hoping Christmas will make up for it.
1. How MM was your weekend?
Really good. We were actually doing well with not spending anything most of the week; I was having trouble remembering the last time I swiped my debit card. We were also trying to clear out out fridge/freezer/pantry all week, and we spent about $50 yesterday to restock on produce, drinks, and other perishables.
2. Any progress towards goals?
Not yet. I'm hopefully hearing back about a job today, but I also have another interview for a job I can do from home and only have to commit 15 hours to. So if I get that, it'll be a nice side income.
3. Do you decorate your home for holidays or seasons?
I have a fake tree, but we haven't put it up the last couple years because there hasn't been room in our apartment. We tell our girls that we told Santa to leave their gifts at their grandparents' house, since we go there on Christmas morning anyway. We will decorate when we own a house, though.
1. How MM was your weekend? It was so-so. I had off 5 days (woo hoo!) so I went thru my closet and got rid of 75% of my clothes which resulted in me going shopping. So I spent about $15 at Marshalls (gift card for the rest), $8 at consignment shop for a shirt, $35 on lunch out 3 days, $80 on new shoes/socks (100% an impulse buy that was not budgeted but they were 101 Dalmatian vans which is my all time favorite, I'm still a kid at heart), returned stuff to The Limited so +$120(covered my impulse shoe buy), and then $50 for dinner last night because we had my family over.
2. Any progress towards goals?
Nothing out of the ordinary. Not MM but home goal: We replaced all the door knobs and hinges in our house this week to finally get rid of the brass stuff. We're about 80% done with replacing all fixtures/knobs/etc. with brushed nickel.
3. Do you decorate your home for holidays or seasons?
I have a few decorations but we don't do much. I usually have a sign up on the front door for the different holidays and then we do a Christmas tree at Christmas. My outdoor decorations are always lacking.
- $30 for gas on Saturday and $64 for takeout to feed my parents, my girlfriend, her daughter, and me.
2. Any progress towards goals?
- Non pay week, so no.
3. Do you decorate your home for holidays or seasons?
- Minimally for Halloween, but I have a ton of Christmas decorations. Our tree is small, and we change the color scheme of our decorations every few years. 5 or so years ago, everything was red and gold, now everything is blue and silver. We don't have sentimental ornaments, just the plain glass ball ornaments in whatever the current color scheme. My wrapping paper even matches the colors of the tree. I know, I'm crazy. We have stockings for the two of us, and one for the dog. I have Christmas dishes and serving trays, too. Most of the kitchen stuff has been given to me, though. I love everything about Christmas time, and I love having the house decked out. We don't decorate outside, though.
1. Spendy weekend but all cash $60 Sears, $184 Lowes $13 Mcdonalds, $23 Gas
2. $200 to vacation fund
3. Yes! We decorate for Christmas of course, Halloween and Easter pretty much
1. How MM was your weekend? It wasn't terrible. Saturday - about $80 on blinds at Menards, $3 something on eggs and a snack from the gas station (their eggs are cheaper than the grocery store, the snack was needed to get me through Menards without getting hangry/crabby at H), $20 on dinner upgrades for me at a dinner theater with my friend. Sunday - $93 on groceries/alcohol, $15 to church, $5 toward brunch with family.
2. Any progress towards goals? Friday I emailed our financial profile to the financial advisor we are starting to work with. This is the first step toward working with him/purchasing life ins/investing more. Purchasing/installing the blinds means we can check another item off the home-goals list, which feels good.
3. Do you decorate your home for holidays or seasons? I love decorating for the seasons! I can't wait to decorate for Christmas. The process of putting the tree up, reminiscing about the ornaments, and displaying the creche are all important parts of the Christmas season to me.
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2. Our current MM goal is to stay the course. Not the best weekend for saving but OK since we are buckled down pretty tight.
3. I decorate for all of the holidays. I have bathroom hand towels and kitchen towels thanks to my mom and something to put on the front door. Christmas we don't decorate outside other than a snowman wreath on the door but we usually put up a fake tree and garland inside along with other decorations.
1. How MM was your weekend?
We realized we need to review budget. Ended up buying some xmas stuff and then a pots and pans set {sale $99, regular $399!}
2. Any progress towards goals?
Not really. Although next weekend should be better! I've started selling tea through a company on the side and I have a party next weekend. Any extra cash I get will be split between debt and xmas gifts {2 more!}
3. Do you decorate your home for holidays or seasons?
Nope. Although this year we're doing a few decorations since we're hosting a dinner for family. It won't be Christmassy, it'll be more winter themed. The blues out now match my apt.
1. How MM was your weekend?
2. Any progress towards goals?
3. Do you decorate your home for holidays or seasons?
1. How MM was your weekend?
Very good considering my FIL was visiting this weekend. We did some shopping and went out to eat but he treated. And then on Sunday me and him went to Carters and he bought LO 100 worth of clothes!
2. Any progress towards goals?
Not yet but we just had a 500 car repair bill for just a stupid windshield wiper motor.... and my car really needs brakes so i don't think we are going to be able to get my husbands car paid off next month.
3. Do you decorate your home for holidays or seasons?
A little - we have never done much because no one is ever here to see it except us. But this year my FIL will be here Christmas Day and then my mom and sister are coming a few days after. So i'm excited to actually do some decorating instead of acting like total scrooges.