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Monday Accountability Post
1. How MM was your weekend?
2. Any progress towards goals?
3. Any plans for the holiday season (vacation, time off at home, travel to see family, etc)?
Re: Monday Accountability Post
1. How MM was your weekend? Not bad- groceries ($154), Dinner out with DH on Saturday ($30)
2. Any progress towards goals? Last sewer bill payment made today ($700)!
3. Any plans for the holiday season (vacation, time off at home, travel to see family, etc)? We have Christmas Eve at DH's parents with FIL's side of the family. Christmas morning is at our house for the girls, then we go back to DH's parents for dinner with MIL's side. My mom works a lot (pharmacist at an emergency room) during the time between Christmas and New Years so we'll see them on the 21st for dinner and gifts for the girls. I'm taking off about 10 days- even though we'll be at home, it'll still be nice to have time off and we'll be able to get some housework/cleaning/organizing done.
1. $13 Dollar Store, $20 Gas, $38 Home depot, $33 Chinese food,$15 Stop and Shop
2. $682 to savings. $530 towards a Bose radio we bought and furniture
3. Our family is all local so we don't travel for the holidays luckily. Xmas eve at my aunts house and my sister will be doing Xmas this year. I have every Friday off this month along with a couple other days so I will enjoy my long weekends! I love this month!
1. How MM was your weekend? Good! $20 for take out on Friday, $10 to pay for Christmas Dinner for a senior I adopted for the holidays, and $15 at the grocery store yesterday. ETA: I returned some Black Friday online purchases to Kohls so +$122 back from those
2. Any progress towards goals? My auto payment went to my student loan this week. I'm a year ahead on payments and my balance is down to $8250!
3. Any plans for the holiday season (vacation, time off at home, travel to see family, etc)? We're having H's family over on Christmas Eve for dinner and then I'll see my family on Christmas day while H works. H's family usually celebrates Boxing Day on the 26th too so I'll plan to go to that.
1. How MM was your weekend?
We spent a lot of money, but it was all budgeted and frugal. $151 on property tax, $312 on medical bills, $84 on XMas gifts, and $35 on groceries. Only 6 gifts left to buy plus our gifts for each other.
2. Any progress towards goals?
$100 towards car replacement, so it's up to $1200! Nothing else this week.
3. Any plans for the holiday season (vacation, time off at home, travel to see family, etc)?
Xmas with my parents and sibs this saturday. We're going up and back in one day, so 4 hours roundtrip will let us sleep in our own bed. Going to MIL/SFIL's on the 23rd and staying until the 27th - they're about 4.5 hours away. We will go with DH's sibs to visit FIL/SMIL for a couple hours on one of those days (FIL is about an hour away from MIL). Then I am taking a vacation day on the Monday after Christmas so that I actually get a break after the family visits!
1. How MM was your weekend?
Meh, so-so. Groceries were around $130, but we won't do much shopping next weekend. $50 on a Christmas gift for H's brother, and then I spent about $50 on a new palette at Sephora that I'm obsessed with. I had a coupon, and it's pretty much the only time of the year I buy serious makeup.
2. Any progress towards goals?
Still waiting to hear about bonuses for both of us. I know H nailed down his, but ours are more discretionary. So we'll have to see about that. We should find out for sure this week or next week.
3. Any plans for the holiday season (vacation, time off at home, travel to see family, etc)?
Last Christmas party is the 17th, driving to Atlanta on the 18th, flying to Frankfurt on the 19th for the Christmas markets, training to Brussels on the 23rd to see family, flying home on the 27th, back to work on the 28th, back to Atlanta on the 31st for NYE, then back home on the 2nd for another party for H's firm. My classes resume on the 4th. I'm tired just thinking about it. Our goal this weekend is to pack and get the house ready for a few weeks of neglect.
1. How MM was your weekend? It was pretty good, other than being about $25 over-budget on groceries
2. Any progress towards goals? Nothing out of the norm
3. Any plans for the holiday season (vacation, time off at home, travel to see family, etc)? We're not traveling. We are having my dad and his wife and my siblings over for a pre-Christmas party the weekend before Christmas. Christmas Eve is usually our time together as a couple, and we usually make dinner, exchange gifts, and watch a movie. Christmas Day we will go to my mom's house for Christmas dinner.
1. How MM was your weekend?
Good. We hung out with friends without spending any money. Meal planning went very well too. $15 on groceries, $25 on gas (yay lower gas prices!) and $10 on Shutterfly Christmas cards. The cards weren't in budget but we put a picture of the dog on it and since this may be her last Christmas with us $10 didn't seem like a big deal.
2. Any progress towards goals?
H started driving for Uber and has a good start for his Dec goal. And I finally completed photo albums from trips I took 17 and 15 years ago! I have now gone through and organized all loose old photos and the book shelf section dedicated to albums is completely neat and organized. I always intended to finish that project "one day." Finally made it happen!
3. Any plans for the holiday season (vacation, time off at home, travel to see family, etc)?
This year the rotation has us going to the IL's house. I'll have about a week off so we can spend time with them in FL. Then we'll be home for New Years and I can't wait for a quiet long weekend at home. I'm thinking some binge watching will be in order.
1. How MM was your weekend? Not great but not the worst, either. $12ish on brunch with book club on Saturday, $262 at Target for an impulse Xmas decoration (a cute reindeer!), additional lights for our tree ($10 off a $50 or more Xmas purchase), and sound bar w/sub woofer ($100 off plus 5% off, and was our St. Nick's gift to each other
). $13 on groceries for veggie platter for our after-concert social on Sunday. $15 to church, $8 for a 1-lb box of assorted cookies as a church fundraiser, $35 on dinner after the concert. I'm getting used to the fact that we'll be bleeding money all month due to Christmas. And I'm ok with that - we're going to restrict our budget quite a bit starting in January to get used to living on one salary, so I'm ok with the spending this month.
2. Any progress towards goals? We met with our financial adviser on Friday, and he reassured us that we are right on track for retirement investing, and that we are doing great financially. I know we're lucky financially but lately I've had some concerns about the future, so it was great to hear from a professional that we're doing things well and on the right track.
3. Any plans for the holiday season (vacation, time off at home, travel to see family, etc)? Most of our family is in the area or only 1.5 hours away, so we don't travel much at the holidays, which I'm grateful for.
1. How MM was your weekend?
Pretty MM.
$268 for car maintenance items (budgeted $350, still need a new battery for my car)
$20 on ornaments
$10 on lunch out
$20 on pictures of DD with Santa (hilarious!)
$8 on 2 movies
$50 on MIL's Christmas gift
$5 to finish up my secret santas gift.
2. Any progress towards goals?
H ended up working Friday and he went in for a little bit on Saturday as well. They had told him that there would be no overtime this month, but it's looking like there will be. That will help.
3. Any plans for the holiday season (vacation, time off at home, travel to see family, etc)?
We are actually putting our foot down and for the first time in 13 years, we aren't running to 5 different Christmas' within a 24 hour time period. Still need to figure out the logistics, but we'll have family come to our house.
And the picture of DD with Santa. :-)
TTC since 1/13 DX:PCOS 5/13 (long, anovulatory cycles)

Clomid 50mg 9/13 = BFP! EDD 6/7/14 M/C 5w6d Found 11/4/13
1/14 PCOS / Gluten Free Diet to hopefully regulate my system.
Chemical Pregnancy 03/14
Surprise BFP 6/14, Beta #1: 126 Beta #2: 340 Stick baby, stick! EDD 2/17/15
Riley Elaine born 2/16/15
TTC 2.0 6/15
Chemical Pregnancy 9/15
Chemical Pregnancy 6/16
BFP 9/16 EDD 6/3/17
Beta #1: 145 Beta #2: 376 Beta #3: 2,225 Beta #4: 4,548
www.5yearstonever.blogspot.com
1. How MM was your weekend?
Um not too good - 26 at Kohls, 21 at Five Guys, 85 at Maurices, 63 on a Christmas tree and not one thing of that was budgetted. My bad. Oh yea and gas and groceries....
2. Any progress towards goals?
No idea. Haven't even finalized November yet. Because my genius husband decided to order me a christmas gift and then after he tells me i'm not allowed to look at the bank account till christmas! um WHAT thats not happening! Use your darn credit card then! we have a budget, i cant just not look at the account! I'm now waiting for him to send me an excel sheet of the transactions so he can edit out the name. oyyy veyyy i didn't even want anything for christmas!
3. Any plans for the holiday season (vacation, time off at home, travel to see family, etc)?
FIL is coming here for our son's first christmas. And my mom and my sister will be here for New Years! I'm really excited to actually have visitors for the first time since we moved, 5 years ago. We all of a sudden became worth seeing when we had a baby. lol
TTC since 1/13 DX:PCOS 5/13 (long, anovulatory cycles)

Clomid 50mg 9/13 = BFP! EDD 6/7/14 M/C 5w6d Found 11/4/13
1/14 PCOS / Gluten Free Diet to hopefully regulate my system.
Chemical Pregnancy 03/14
Surprise BFP 6/14, Beta #1: 126 Beta #2: 340 Stick baby, stick! EDD 2/17/15
Riley Elaine born 2/16/15
TTC 2.0 6/15
Chemical Pregnancy 9/15
Chemical Pregnancy 6/16
BFP 9/16 EDD 6/3/17
Beta #1: 145 Beta #2: 376 Beta #3: 2,225 Beta #4: 4,548
www.5yearstonever.blogspot.com
- We did the remainder to our Christmas shopping this weekend. So that hurt. And we got our personal property tax bill from the State of MO. That was almost $800 that wasn't planned at all.
2. Any progress towards goals?
- $500 to our vacation/liquid cash fund.
3. Any plans for the holiday season (vacation, time off at home, travel to see family, etc)?
- My extended family is coming to our house on Christmas Day. H and I will probably go to my parents' house at some point the following week. H's parents are coming up on NYE. We don't have any time off in there though, except for Sundays and Christmas Day.
1. How MM was your weekend?
We did good. $20 on the last Christmas gift I wanted to get for my kids, and the rest of the weekend we stayed home. We worked on something for our side business, which should net us about $400.
2. Any progress towards goals?
Not much, but I won't have tuition payments for a little while, so that should help a bit.
3. Any plans for the holiday season (vacation, time off at home, travel to see family, etc)?
I actually don't know what we're doing yet. We'll probably have the kids open presents at home, then we'll go to FI's parents' house.
Lol. At least our schools are accredited.