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Re: Down payment
I agree, there really is no 'one' way to do things. We bought in 2004--a whole different era in mortgage lending, so I don't have much to add. We put down ZERO but didn't have to pay PMI.
We had a 2 year ARM and a second mortgage; we've since refinance twice, and now sit comfortable in a 15-yr. fixed at 3.375%, which will be paid off in about 10 years.
We bought well under the amount we were pre-approved for and are less house-poor than a lot of our friends who made a down payment but bought way more house.
It wasn't the most conventional way of doing things, and I'm sure the 0% makes a lot of people cringe (I don't even think that's possible these days), but that part doesn't matter in the end because we have made smart decisions along the way, and we didn't buy any more than what we truly needed. That is the most important thing in the home-buying process, IMO.
Basically the number comes from industry experience saying that the more of a down payment people make, the more likely they are to make their payments in full, on time and less likely to walk away from the house if something happens.
It also shows that you're able to responsibly spend money (which goes back to on time and in full mortgage payments) and that a life emergency (broken hvac, major car repairs, etc) have less of a chance of causing you to miss payments.
This is why for the most part (yes, there are exceptions) that the interest rate will go up if you're under 20% or that your lender may (or not) require PMI.
We didn't put anything down when we bought our house and that was entirely due to lack of planning and impatience. We were young, stupid and not very MM at the time. We did get a great loan program thou, so we are not required to pay PMI.
In the future (thinking of moving in 5 years or so) our goal will be to put 20% down IF we can keep our e-fund at a decent level and cover all the closing/moving costs. If not, we may settle for less than 20% down depending on interest rates, the house we find, etc.
A lot of times people end up with what is considered "lender paid PMI" - they'll agree to a higher interest rate to avoid the added PMI payment. That's what my lender tried to "offer" me when I refinanced and the appraisal came in way below market value. It was somehow worth less than the original appraisal from two years earlier despite $20k worth of improvements AND a real estate market that exploded. You have one weekend to go to an open house and offer over asking in my city or else you aren't getting a house because it's that competitive.
I was being relocated for work and they were paying for it. To not take advantage of going directly into my new house on my company's dime would have cost me. It would have also been a headache to have to move yet another time after I had the 20% saved up. This was my final move of 3 moves in 3 years...all paid for by work.
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We just bought in November, and put 10% down ($56k on a $560k house), with 3.875% for a 30yr fixed. We also borrowed $25k from my in-laws for closing costs & some start-up costs. This is not exactly how we planned to do it (we were planning on starting to look seriously this month, but instead ended up putting in an offer on a house we loved at the end of October), but it ended up being the right thing. We have no PMI, but not because it's lender-paid. The broker was able to look at our other savings (including retirement & e-fund), and calculated that we woul dhave at least 1 year of mortgage payments saved after buying. Apparently, that was enough to do without PMI.
Before all this, I was really against buying before we had 20% saved, but eventually I was convinced for the following reasons:
1) We are in a very HCOL area (DC). This means rents are high (more expensive than our mortgage for a similar property) and housing costs are rising. The longer we wait, the more expensive a house would get. We're not trying to make a ton of money on our investment, but I don't want to buy at the top of the market, either. Besides, I hate giving someone else $1500/month for a 700sqft apartment where we don't get any of the equity or tax benefits.
2) Our income recently went up over 50% as my husband switched from public to private sector work. We could have saved the remaining 40k in downpayment in a few months, which would have been nice, but now it means we can pay back the in-laws quickly. Moreover, it means that while we weren't able to save as much as we wanted before buying, our payment is very manageable given our new income. Even if H goes back to government and I leave the workforce, our house would still be affordable.
3) We can re-amortize our loan at any point if we put at least $20k more into it. My husband will get a bonus of around this size most years from the foreseeable, so we will likely take advantage of this at least once and cut down our monthly payment.
4) This fall was a great time to buy in our market. Prices momentarily dipped and the market slowed way down. It's very cyclical in our area, with closing-to-asking ratios and median-days-on-the-market going way up in spring and getting more reasonable in the fall. We got asking price without having to use our escalation clause by buying in November, but I'm confident there would have been several more offers if the house had been on the market in the spring.
5) Interest rates were just on the cusp of going up, making it a good time to buy. I don't believe all the hype about getting in before rates jump through the roof, because the Fed is moving pretty conservatively and it's not like mortgage rates are going to be up to 10% next year, but it was an extra push.
6) This isn't very MM, but I really wanted to own a house, and one that we could stay in for a long time. I have moved so many times since middle school and I really hate feeling unsettled, and like I don't have my own space. I wanted a guest bedroom and an office and a yard so we can get a dog. A few months probably wouldn't have mattered, but we couldn't have gotten this house if we waited, and it was every thing we wanted.
Buying a home is a huge financial investment and you have to be responsible about it, but it's not only a financial decision. We were willing to pay more for the life we wanted, which included a single family home sooner rather than later. Be smart in your choices, but I think it's also good to remember that there's more to life than money (which is what I tell my Dad, who thinks no one should ever own).
Late to the party, but I bought my home with 20% down. However, I had to borrow money from my mom to do that and I was SO financially drained for many months.
I'm not sorry about the way I did things...though I really wish I had started saving more money sooner...but I was also crazy lucky that I did not have anything major happen in my first year of home ownership, because I would not have had the money to deal with it.