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January/February monthly check-in

als1982als1982 member
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edited February 2016 in Money Matters

January

1. What were your financial goals for the month?

2. Were you able accomplish them?

3. What were your greatest achievements?

4. What were your biggest downfalls?


February 

1. What are your money goals for this month?

2. How do you plan to be successful in your goals?

3. How do you plan to improve or challenge yourself financially this month?


Status of Ongoing Goals

1. Debt payoff

2. Savings success

3. Net worth watch


GTKY Bonus

Tell us about your Valentine!  This could be your spouse, professional or personal passion, a good friend or pet - whoever or whatever is closest to your heart.

HeartlandHustle | Personal Finance and Betterment Blog  

Re: January/February monthly check-in

  • jessica490jessica490 member
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    edited February 2016

    January

    1. What were your financial goals for the month?

    To keep paying off furniture, keep bills low, add to vacation and savings accounts, and work on small house projects

    2. Were you able accomplish them?

    We are still plugging away at these goals. We cut our furniture balance in half and should have it paid off well before the 0% interest is up in May. We've added to our 2 savings accounts, I've started painting the bathroom and am about halfway done. I was able to buy all the paint and supplies needed for the 3 rooms we are re-painting with a gym membership refund from our health insurance.  We had a few unexpected purchases this month. I bought some cute roman shades for the kitchen (they look great and give more of a homey feel and add privacy!), and the dryer the sellers left died, so we ended up buying a new washer/dry set, but the credit card it's on isn't due until mid-March so we have plenty of time to pay it off. We also bought the dog 2 new winter jackets and I ended up buying a new car.

    3. What were your greatest achievements?

    Working on these small house projects and making our home a little more homey finally! We also bumped up H's 401K contribution to 9%, so I think we are both at the same number now! We need to open up 1 ROTH IRA this year still.

    4. What were your biggest downfalls?

    The extra expenses. I'm worried we may not be able to get the fence in the yard done in the early spring-time like we wanted. Also, my dad started doing our taxes and we may end up owing about $1700, but I'm still missing 1- 1098, so we'll see what happens.  


    February 

    1. What are your money goals for this month?

    Basically the same. Keeping adding to savings and vacation fund, keep on paying off furniture and washer/dryer, and keep working on house projects with the supplies we have. We also will need to pay that tax bill.  

    2. How do you plan to be successful in your goals?

    Saving diligently, keeping spending in check and maybe having H pick up an overtime shift or 2.

    3. How do you plan to improve or challenge yourself financially this month?

    Same ol, same ol


    Status of Ongoing Goals

    1. Debt payoff- Will need to finish paying off furniture and washer/dryer. Since I bought a new car, I plan on paying extra on each payment.

    2. Savings success- H closed out his credit union account in his home town so we were able to bank the $1K that he had sitting in that account along with a couple hundred from our paychecks.

    3. Net worth watch- Don't watch this


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    Tell us about your Valentine!  This could be your spouse, professional or personal passion, a good friend or pet - whoever or whatever is closest to your heart.

    My husband is such a sweet man...I love him with all my heart and he is my best friend and soul mate. We are so similar and just click well overall. I couldn't image life without him.

    I love my fur baby as well. While he can be a pain in the neck sometimes, I couldn't image my life without him either!

  • January

    1. What were your financial goals for the month? I guess building a new budget counts here.

    2. Were you able accomplish them? Yes! We finally sat down on the 31st and took a serious look at all of our expenses and our budgeted amounts and re-did everything to reflect a more realistic financial plan.

    3. What were your greatest achievements? H and I both increased our 401k withholdings to max them out for the year.

    4. What were your biggest downfalls? Spending more money than our new net income allows.

    February 

    1. What are your money goals for this month? Stick to our new budget 100%.

    2. How do you plan to be successful in your goals? We use YNAB so my plan is to 1. Check the app BEFORE making a purchase and 2. to Immediately enter in any charges after making a purchase. In the past I've let receipts accumulate in my purse and haven't entered them in until days or weeks after the fact and then it's clear we went way over in our restaurant budget or something else.

    3. How do you plan to improve or challenge yourself financially this month? I think it's pretty much stated above. Track everything. Check the budget before spending (something I don't typically do). 

    Status of Ongoing Goals

    1. Debt payoff - On track to pay off my car by December. We unexpectedly had to buy a new one in late November after my old car was totaled in a wreck. We had the money to pay cash for a new car, but opted to use the cash to pay off our student loans since we were able to get a car loan for a much much lower interest rate.

    2. Savings success - We have a healthy emergency fund. I'm trying to learn more about investing so I can work on building our equity. I opened a Roth IRA last year and plan to contribute to it as long as I am able.

    3. Net worth watch - What is this?

    GTKY Bonus

    Tell us about your Valentine!  This could be your spouse, professional or personal passion, a good friend or pet - whoever or whatever is closest to your heart.

    My H obviously :) We don't really do Valentine's Day and I love that we're both very nonchalant about this holiday. If we have friends available, we'll invite them over for a game night and dinner, otherwise we'll just spend the day together. I hate going out to eat anywhere near Valentine's Day so we'll pretty much stay close to home in order to avoid traffic.

    I like to get my dog a Valentine's Day treat because I'm a crazy pet mom like that.

  • labro said:

    January

    1. What were your financial goals for the month? I guess building a new budget counts here.

    2. Were you able accomplish them? Yes! We finally sat down on the 31st and took a serious look at all of our expenses and our budgeted amounts and re-did everything to reflect a more realistic financial plan.

    3. What were your greatest achievements? H and I both increased our 401k withholdings to max them out for the year.

    4. What were your biggest downfalls? Spending more money than our new net income allows.

    February 

    1. What are your money goals for this month? Stick to our new budget 100%.

    2. How do you plan to be successful in your goals? We use YNAB so my plan is to 1. Check the app BEFORE making a purchase and 2. to Immediately enter in any charges after making a purchase. In the past I've let receipts accumulate in my purse and haven't entered them in until days or weeks after the fact and then it's clear we went way over in our restaurant budget or something else.

    3. How do you plan to improve or challenge yourself financially this month? I think it's pretty much stated above. Track everything. Check the budget before spending (something I don't typically do). 

    Status of Ongoing Goals

    1. Debt payoff - On track to pay off my car by December. We unexpectedly had to buy a new one in late November after my old car was totaled in a wreck. We had the money to pay cash for a new car, but opted to use the cash to pay off our student loans since we were able to get a car loan for a much much lower interest rate.

    2. Savings success - We have a healthy emergency fund. I'm trying to learn more about investing so I can work on building our equity. I opened a Roth IRA last year and plan to contribute to it as long as I am able.

    3. Net worth watch - What is this?

    GTKY Bonus

    Tell us about your Valentine!  This could be your spouse, professional or personal passion, a good friend or pet - whoever or whatever is closest to your heart.

    My H obviously :) We don't really do Valentine's Day and I love that we're both very nonchalant about this holiday. If we have friends available, we'll invite them over for a game night and dinner, otherwise we'll just spend the day together. I hate going out to eat anywhere near Valentine's Day so we'll pretty much stay close to home in order to avoid traffic.

    I like to get my dog a Valentine's Day treat because I'm a crazy pet mom like that.


    Hi @labro! So glad to have you jump in!! Net worth is the total of your assets less any debts. Assets typically include your home appraisal, value of your retirement and other accounts, debts include mortgage, student and auto loans, credit cards etc. Some of us track that here, but definitely not all. I personally use Mint to keep an eye on this number.
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  • @als1982 Thank you! I understand what net worth is, but I just didn't understand how it was being "watched" here. That makes sense. We don't use Mint...my H has a thing about giving a website access to our account information, but I should probably think of developing a spreadsheet for us so I can track it there. We have a couple net worth goals we'd like to hit so it's something I'm interested in keeping an eye on!
  • January

    1. What were your financial goals for the month? File my taxes, spend less overall, and not use CCs much.

    2. Were you able accomplish them? Yep! I still spent more than I wanted to, but I feel like I'm finally start to get handle on my CC spending... Of course that means I shouldn't use them at all.

    3. What were your greatest achievements? Filing our taxes and putting all of that money in savings towards our e-fund. We have our e-fund a little over 50% funded!

    4. What were your biggest downfalls? Eating out as usual. I started tracking it on a spreadsheet thou and actually seeing the number I'm spending every month on food has helped motivate me to stop spending so much.


    February 

    1. What are your money goals for this month? Spend less eating out... :) Would like to stay around $150 for the month (I know this is a lot more than most people, H and I are terrible!)

    2. How do you plan to be successful in your goals? Keep tracking it and get H on board with the plan. Plus better meal planning/prep!

    3. How do you plan to improve or challenge yourself financially this month? Just doing the above I suppose. All my monthly allotments/payments stay the same.


    Status of Ongoing Goals

    1. Debt payoff-- SL is at $7600ish. I have one CC with 0% interest that should be paid off in March.   

    2. Savings success -- put our tax return in savings for our e-fund!

    3. Net worth watch -- don't usually track


    GTKY Bonus

    Tell us about your Valentine!  This could be your spouse, professional or personal passion, a good friend or pet - whoever or whatever is closest to your heart.

    I'm a lucky girl, I have two. :) My H and my pup! I just love H. He's my rock and really keeps me from losing my mind. We've been together 10 years (since we were 15!) and I'm just so glad to have him in my life. My dog is crazzzzy, but she brings me so much happiness. I can't imagine life without her. That expression "Whoever said diamonds were a girl's best friend never owned a dog" is definitely true for me.

  • @hoffse Is your dad Nigel Thornberry? Seriously your story about him is SO COOL!
  • labro said:
    @hoffse Is your dad Nigel Thornberry? Seriously your story about him is SO COOL!
    Lol, no, but he's pretty cool.  Zoo people in general are really cool, in a super nerdy way.

    He knew Dian Fossey.  When she died, her sponsoring organization called my dad from Africa to see if he would come take her place.  I was a little kid, and it was after the bribery situation, so he declined and decided to focus on captive groups instead.  He wanted to raise and educate me in the US.  There's more to the Dian Fossey story than you hear about from "Gorillas in the Mist."  She kind of went off the deep end before she was killed.

    I do want to go to Africa with him just once to see the Great Migration.  He is a hobby photographer and has some insane photos of his trips there.  My favorite is this photo he took of two male lions in mid-air fighting each other over nearby females.  It's a shot worthy of National Geographic, even though he had to get way too close to manage it.

    But yeah, we're a zoo family.  I've had some interesting encounters with animals, but nothing like my dad.  You have to have certain vaccinations to be able to hold the baby gorillas and such.  I've gotten very close, but I can't play with them like he can.


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    GTKY Bonus

    Tell us about your Valentine!  This could be your spouse, professional or personal passion, a good friend or pet - whoever or whatever is closest to your heart.

    I'm a lucky girl, I have two. :) My H and my pup! I just love H. He's my rock and really keeps me from losing my mind. We've been together 10 years (since we were 15!) and I'm just so glad to have him in my life. My dog is crazzzzy, but she brings me so much happiness. I can't imagine life without her. That expression "Whoever said diamonds were a girl's best friend never owned a dog" is definitely true for me.

    I have never heard this phrase, but I love it!
  • cbee817cbee817 member
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    edited February 2016

    January

    1. What were your financial goals for the month? save $1,000, move $ from vacation fund for Disney

    2. Were you able accomplish them? yes

    3. What were your greatest achievements? Staying on budget and using some of our vacation money to actually go on a vacation!

    4. What were your biggest downfalls? I did buy a Bernina- it's financed for 1 year 0% and it'll be paid off in December. I have used it a lot already and it's really great for quilting.


    February 

    1. What are your money goals for this month? Stay on budget, save $1,000, get taxes done

    2. How do you plan to be successful in your goals? stick to the plan, auto transfer at each paycheck, efile once everything is checked over hopefully before we go on vacation.

    3. How do you plan to improve or challenge yourself financially this month? n/a


    Status of Ongoing Goals

    1. Debt payoff - car ($20,861 0.9% interest 48 months) and mortgage ($92,387 4% at 15 years)

    2. Savings success - $1,000 to savings, $3,600 from vacation fund to pay for Disney

    3. Net worth watch - $335,240


    GTKY Bonus

    Tell us about your Valentine!  This could be your spouse, professional or personal passion, a good friend or pet - whoever or whatever is closest to your heart.

    My valentine is my DH- he's amazing. Really good dad, super helpful around the house, crushing it with his new job and school district, and is very thoughtful/sweet with me. He's a great partner and my best friend. He also has an amazing head of hair that he's shaving off for Goin' Bald for Bucks at his school in honor of our nephew that has a brain tumor. My other 2 valentines are my little ladies- I always wanted boys before I became a mom but these 2 are so funny, sweet, smart, and challenging. They complete our family and I'm so glad that they are happy, healthy, and our little girls. Can't wait to watch them run around Disney and have a great time!

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  • January

    1. What were your financial goals for the month?  Get a new budget going, fund our liquid e-fund

    2. Were you able accomplish them? Yep.  We've adjusted to the new budget; I might be getting a small raise next month 2-3%, but that won't drastically change anything in the budget.  We were paying $600/month towards the front porch and we realized we were both feeling really pinched, so we lowered it to $400/month.  I think it will be smooth sailing now.

    3. What were your greatest achievements?  Fully funding the $1000 that we wanted in the new e-fund.

    4. What were your biggest downfalls?  We didn't really have any, luckily!  We have discovered that our water heater is going out and we will probably be replacing it in February, so that's kind of a bummer. 


    February 

    1. What are your money goals for this month?  Fully fund our vacation fund for our July trip so we don't have to worry about it; get H's 457 rolled over into an IRA at Vanguard

    2. How do you plan to be successful in your goals?  I've started on the IRA process already.  We're going to be putting our tax return ($374) into the vacation fund, and we've been selling a few items as we de-clutter.

    3. How do you plan to improve or challenge yourself financially this month?  I would love if we can not only fully fund the vacation, but also cash flow the new water heater.  I am not sure that's going to happen--we have the option of 0% for 18 months at Home Depot, but it will still give us something to aim for.


    Status of Ongoing Goals

    1. Debt payoff--Everything is on track.  My car will be paid off in October, and I'm starting to get the itch to pay it off early.  That would interrupt our other savings goals though.

    2. Savings success--We've made progress building our accounts back up.  We still have our $2K CD e-fund, $1000 in a new liquid e-fund, and about half of what we want to have in the vacation fund and the shopping fund (will be used for a new dresser and a new shotgun for H).  H has also adjusted to his new paycheck amount since we increased his 401K to 14%.  Feeling really good about our progress so far in 2016.

    3. Net worth watch--Don't track this.


    GTKY Bonus

    Tell us about your Valentine!  This could be your spouse, professional or personal passion, a good friend or pet - whoever or whatever is closest to your heart.

    My H.  I love him so much.  We started dating when I was 20 and he was 34.  I was just moving out of my parent's house, which was a really bad environment.  H had already been through college, and growing up, and coming into his own, and all of that, but over the years he has given me the time and space and support to grow and realize my own dreams.  I am more myself now than I ever could be before.  He's been my #1 cheerleader--whether its been my decision to change careers, or go back to college, or open my own business--he's always got my back. 

    And he's super sweet.  Although I don't complain about the time he spends hunting, because I know it's his passion, he plans weekends and date nights for us to be together, feeling like he has time to make up to me.  He gives really good advice too.  He's my best friend and my confidante.

    Also, this might not seem romantic to most people, but here on the MM board maybe you can appreciate--he has always said that as he's planning for retirement, his #1 goal is to make sure I will be taken care of.  Because of our age difference, the likelihood of him passing away several years before me is quite realistic.  Therefore, he's always considering what my situation would be like as an elderly widow when making decisions about his retirement, life insurance, etc.  It's why he has agreed that we can move to a warmer climate when I retire, because he knows that's where I would like to live if/when I'm alone.  I know it's odd, but I find it really sweet!

  • bmo88bmo88 member
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    edited February 2016

    January

    1. What were your financial goals for the month?

    • Pay off half of the remaining balance from our Europe trip (it's on a 0% interest travel rewards credit card)
    • Close on our refinance loan (switched to 20 year mortgage with lower interest)
    • Increase DH's ROTH IRA contributions to $250 a month (previously $200)
    • Reach 6 months expenses in e-fund

    2. Were you able accomplish them?

    • Yes to all the above!

    3. What were your greatest achievements?

    • Reaching our e-fund goal, it's a huge relief!

    4. What were your biggest downfalls?

    • Going out to eat at Red Lobster because my brother gave us a gift card for $50 as a Christmas gift. We ordered our favorite items and knew it would come to around $75 with tip. When the check arrived, I looked in my wallet and realized I had left the gift card on the table at home. Ok, not the biggest financial downfall, but it still sucked to pay $75 out of pocket at Red Lobster! There are so many better places that money could have been spent if I had to choose...

    February 

    1. What are your money goals for this month?

    • Pay off the remaining balance from our trip to Europe ($1,000)
    • Purchase new tires ($400) and a chrome book ($175) for DH, and stay on budget!!!
    • Set aside money for car registration in March ($285)
    • File our taxes--and hope we don't owe money.

    2. How do you plan to be successful in your goals?

    • Shop local deals and watch prices. DH is pretty good about tracking prices and spotting a good deal...I have trained him well!
    • Set up the necessary automatic transfers. "Set it and forget it!"

    3. How do you plan to improve or challenge yourself financially this month?

    • I would like us to push our debt payment amount up by about $200 this month. DH feels its fine (which it technically is given we throw an extra $1500 above minimum), but I am getting angsty and really want it gone.

    Status of Ongoing Goals

    1. Debt payoff

    • Currently at $18,230 (started at $64,500 1 year ago). We technically refinance and moved $21,000 into our 1st mortgage, so it's still "there," but it was previously a HELOC/2nd mortgage. We aren't focusing on that portion at the moment because the interest is significantly lower (3.8% rather than 5.99%). We are on track to have the $18,230 gone by November 2016.

    2. Savings success

    • Finally achieved 6 months expenses in the e-fund!
    • Saved $4,000 in our baby fund account so far, goal is $5,000.

    3. Net worth watch

    $129,000--we got a little bump from our home appraising for $22,000 more than we paid for it 1.5 years ago, but the market has done quite a number on our retirement accounts (lost about $4,500 net so far and no growth for 3 months). 

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    • I have three very special valentines: my DH, Maya and Max (our labrador retrievers). They are all very stubborn, but very loving. DH and I have been together for 12.5 years and every year he writes out a long letter in a valentine's day card. We don't go crazy on gifts, but typically make a special dinner together. Simple and sweet.

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  • January

    1. What were your financial goals for the month?

    Just working on building up my savings... namely have enough to pay my portion of our car insurance bill.

    2. Were you able accomplish them?

    Yes! And have some a little left over.  Pretty awesome as we had some vet bills that I chipped in a bit on, and some new brakes on my car.  Also H sat down and did some research and found a new insurance company that is saving us about $400 a year across all our vehicles/camper.  It doesn't affect me much since I only pay for my car's portion, but I was glad that he was finally realizing that a bit of work could result in saving some money.

    3. What were your greatest achievements?

    See above.  I was also H finally acknowledged that our budgets are a little too tight, and that even saving $30 or $40 a month is *something*.  

    4. What were your biggest downfalls?

    I splurged a little on some new work clothes.  I didn't entirely NEED them, but I'm aiming for a better position here, so I feel more confident when I have some nicer things to wear at work.  We also spent too much on food.


    February 

    1. What are your money goals for this month?

    Just keep saving.  Tax time is scaring me... first year as married, and I had about $12,000 in 1099 income from wayyy back in January of 2015 that I didn't pay taxes on, so I know I'm going to owe.  I'll likely have to do a payment plan but I'd like to lessen the blow as much as possible by April.

    2. How do you plan to be successful in your goals?

    I'm going to work on our food budget first and foremost.  It will help that H should be traveling all month... I'm content to eat very frugally, but he usually likes to have bigger fancier dinners, and works from home, so he needs stuff like snack foods around.  

    3. How do you plan to improve or challenge yourself financially this month?

    Umm, I guess see above?


    Status of Ongoing Goals

    1. Debt payoff

    n/a... not really a goal for me right now.  H is plugging away at the landscaping debt but I can't remember where he's at with it.

    2. Savings success

    Just plugging away...

    3. Net worth watch

    n/a not worth tracking right now

    GTKY Bonus

    Tell us about your Valentine!  This could be your spouse, professional or personal passion, a good friend or pet - whoever or whatever is closest to your heart.

    Well, obviously my H.  As I've mentioned in other posts, his spending habits are a bit frustrating, but I think he's slowly making progress.  That being said, he's very good at managing his money in terms of never paying things late, and acknowledging the debt.  His efforts with the car insurance really made me happy as I'm often the one who has to do all the research for everything.  Money issues aside, he's a great guy, makes me laugh when I'm bummed out and even when I'm not, and is so friggen smart.

    The other is our dog Deacon.  We have 2 dogs, but Deacon is my Valentine this year because he's had some health problems this past month, but he seems to be on the mend.  He's our old boy and we love him, H has had him since he was 8 weeks old.

  • @dragonstarjk, I think the fact that your husband is always thinking about retirement and your age difference is very romantic!
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  • January

    1. What were your financial goals for the month?

    To cash flow everything while having only half of my pay.

    2. Were you able accomplish them?

    Yes, thankfully.  But damn was it hard.

    3. What were your greatest achievements?

    Cutting our eating out to $50.

    4. What were your biggest downfalls?

    Groceries.  Man, it's killing me!  

    February 

    1. What are your money goals for this month?

    Cash flow a bunch of medical stuff.  I need an eye exam, glasses, and contacts.  H needs a deep dental cleaning that isn't covered by his dental insurance (why do we pay for it?).

    Also going to cash flow DD's birthday party.  I have more than enough budgeted and think we won't have a problem doing so.
    And again, getting the grocery budget under control. 

    Then staying on budget for our expenditures in Hawaii. Our goal is $3,000 for everything (food, alcohol, entertainment, excursions, car gas, hotel resort fees, etc). We budgeted $4,000 just to be safe, but I would prefer to keep it under $3k.

    2. How do you plan to be successful in your goals?

    Our biggest saving grace is that we will be gone for 10 days. So we won't have 7 days of daycare, less groceries, less gas, and less eating out opportunities.  

    3. How do you plan to improve or challenge yourself financially this month?

    Groceries.  Seriously.
    We've decided that once the booze is gone in the beer fridge, we aren't going to restock it and unplug the alcohol fridge. This is big for us, but our budget and our waistlines will thank us.  

    Status of Ongoing Goals

    1. Debt payoff

    N/A Have none.

    2. Savings success

    Just the regular sinking funds.

    3. Net worth watch

    Haven't even looked.  However, we put half of our lump sum in yesterday while the market is on the lower side, so we'll see how that ends up panning out.

    GTKY Bonus

    Tell us about your Valentine!  This could be your spouse, professional or personal passion, a good friend or pet - whoever or whatever is closest to your heart.

    H of course.  He is seriously amazing.  He works so hard to help provide for our family.  His alarm goes off at 3am many mornings and he doesn't get home until 6pm some evenings, but you will never once hear him complain.  He is also amazing with DD.  Never thought I could love that man more, until the day she was born.  I still sneak turning the video monitor on and watching him change her diaper or get her dressed on the weekends. Oh and he makes some delicious meals.  
    My favorite thing about him is that we can dream together.  About anything. Life with our kids, a vacation, owning a home at the lake someday, retirement, job opportunities, the next house remodel project, anything.

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  • short+sassyshort+sassy member
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    edited February 2016

    January

    1. What were your financial goals for the month?

    Acquire tenants for the other side of my duplex and the 2-bedroom unit of the new duplex.

    2. Were you able accomplish them?

    Nope :(.  Previous tenants for my house left the place filthy and trash.  Fixing all that took longer than expected.  But I finally posted my ad over this weekend and have some showings lined up.

    At least got an AirBnB booking for this weekend that will be a $500 net gain.

    My H and I went to the 2 bedroom unit for other duplex this weekend and made a list of what is left to get it rent ready.  It's a long list, but everything is fairly quick and cheap. 

    3. What were your greatest achievements?

    The AirBnB booking from above.

    4. What were your biggest downfalls?

    Procrastination and not staying on top of things in regards to getting my rentals ready.


    February 

    1. What are your money goals for this month?

    $2,000 toward my HELOC.

    2. How do you plan to be successful in your goals?

    Focus on putting off major purchases and not spending unnecessarily.

    3. How do you plan to improve or challenge yourself financially this month?

    Focus on finally finishing the new duplex.  I'm praying by March 1st I'll have tenants in all three of my rental units.  Or at least the one I am currently advertising, plus the 2 bedroom that is almost done.


    Status of Ongoing Goals

    1. Debt payoff

    Continued paying my credit cards off in full, but no progress on my HELOC.  Made a couple large payments on the HELOC, but had an unexpected $3200 repair bill at the new duplex.

    2. Savings success

    Same - no progress, but no withdrawals

    3. Net worth watch

    About $240K, not much progress for the time being


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    Tell us about your Valentine!  This could be your spouse, professional or personal passion, a good friend or pet - whoever or whatever is closest to your heart.

    My Valentine is my husband.  We had actually been living together for 12 years when we got engaged.  At the time, I was excited to finally be marrying the man I knew I wanted to spend the rest of my life with, but really didn't think it would be any different.  I was wrong.  Getting married totally changed the dynamic in our relationship, but in a good way.  It strengthened our relationship and we became a team.  We started talking about our future together, instead of just the future in general.

    Even after all these years, my husband and I exchange compliments and "I love yous" all the time.  But it isn't just words.  He is always thinking about how he can make my life and our life easier and happier.  He researched laptops and digital cameras when I needed a new one.  He's the one who thinks to put the heater on an hour before we go to bed, even though I'm the one who gets cold.

    And it's not just the small things.  I really wanted a deck out of our back bedroom.  He built it for me.  With the duplex we bought, I might have been the one who found and analyzed the deal.  Used my credit and equity in my home to buy it.  But he was the one out there every single day working on the rehab himself as well as managing our workers and contractors.  He also lets me drag him to every potential house I'm thinking about so I can get his feedback!

    He is intelligent, thoughtful, and kind.  Who knows when to set me straight when I'm being...as he calls it...a "whackadoo" (stressing too much over something minor).  But also how to be a supportive shoulder to lean on when I'm genuinely upset and/or sad, whackadoo-ness or not.

    I'm also charmed that he loves our two fuzzy Valentines as much as I do.  When our dog stand on her hind legs, he picks her up or dances with her.  When our cat mews at him, he picks her up or motions for her to jump on his lap.


     

  • I seriously love how all of you speak so highly of your husbands. I'm not an affectionate person (at all) but I think it's adorable when other people say such sweet things about their partners. Not that I would anticipate anyone would speak negatively, but these are all such nice, super sweet things.

  • January

    1. What were your financial goals for the month?

    January is a tough month so we didn't have any set goals this time.

    2. Were you able accomplish them?

    N/A

    3. What were your greatest achievements?

    We found a nice couch on craigslist and got a really good price on it.  We are so happy with it.  In the past I've been more inclined to buy the cheapest new version of whatever we needed but I'm really enjoying finding higher quality second hand things lately.  

    We filed our taxes and are looking forward to receiving our return.

    We changed cell phone plans to save money.

    4. What were your biggest downfalls?

    The kids were sick a lot, I was sick, we had a lot of co-pays and still more doctor bills to come.  My DH's paycheck had an error (all of the employees did) so we received less money than expected this month.  The money will be included in the next paycheck though, so at least we are getting it.  


    February 

    1. What are your money goals for this month?

    - Fund our emergency fund!  This will be if we get our tax return in February, so excited and relieved to do this.

    - Put money into savings, amount TBD, still writing up our February budget

    - Finally visit Aldi's.  Everyone says they have great grocery deals, so I want to check it out.  I'm a pretty loyal Wal Mart shopper so we'll see what the prices are like and if we like the products.

    2. How do you plan to be successful in your goals?

    In general I want to be very careful in my spending, making sure to buy good quality things that we really need, not junk or impulse purchases.  

    3. How do you plan to improve or challenge yourself financially this month?

    I'm challenging myself to not go to Dollar Tree this month, it is definitely my biggest weakness for impulse purchases.

    Status of Ongoing Goals

    1. Debt payoff

    Regular car payments

    2. Savings success

    None this month

    3. Net worth watch

    Not sure


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    Tell us about your Valentine!  This could be your spouse, professional or personal passion, a good friend or pet - whoever or whatever is closest to your heart.

    My DH is a great dad and a hard worker.  He is great at playing with the kids and attending their events or just being there for them.  He took a day off of work when my DD had the stomach flu last week and I have no idea how I would have taken care of the other 2 with DD needing 100% of me.  He also stayed up with the baby last night so I could go to bed early as she had been up half the night the night before, uncomfortable from her shots that day.  We are partners and that means a lot to me.


  • @julieanne912 Congratulations!!!!!! Every little bit counts!
  • January

    1. What were your financial goals for the month?

    To stay on track and not have to touch our savings.

    2. Were you able accomplish them?

    We actually ended up putting over $500 into savings!

    3. What were your greatest achievements?

    Staying the course with a slightly tighter budget and savings some extra.  Though admittedly the savings was more related to my husband working extra hours than any budgeting skills.

    4. What were your biggest downfalls?

    No downfalls this month...for once!  We did find out that we owe for our federal taxes, but only $1300. Unfortunately because we can't touch other savings since we are house hunting we have to pull the money from what was our car downpayment savings (I would rather do that than touch the e-fund).


    February 

    1. What are your money goals for this month?

    To stay the course.  Hopefully save another 3-500.  

    2. How do you plan to be successful in your goals?

    I am finally (finally!!) tracking my purchases every single day. it makes such a big difference.

    3. How do you plan to improve or challenge yourself financially this month?

    I want to challenge myself to use the pantry/freezer better to start getting through our food. We are moving in mid-late March so now is the time to eat it down.

    Status of Ongoing Goals

    1. Debt payoff

    Typical student loan payment, thats our only debt right now.

    2. Savings success

    The goal was to not take from savings, and we put $500 to savings. That's on top the "scheduled" $458 to my IRA, the $135 we save towards insurance (we pay lump sum), and the money towards car maintenance/clothes/birthdays and xmas sinking funds.  Those are all different funds and total around 3-400.

    3. Net worth watch

    We don't track our net worth.  



  • I've been meaning to sit down and do this all week, but it's been a crazy one!!

    January

    1. What were your financial goals for the month?  Keep plugging away at H's student loan.  We also increased H's retirement to help us max out our 401k/403b this year.

    2. Were you able accomplish them?  Yes. We were able to get back on track with our budget following a spendy December, though we didn't put as much toward the student loan as I would have liked.

    3. What were your greatest achievements?  Just staying the course and getting back on track carefully watching every dollar.

    4. What were your biggest downfalls?  We've both cut back on alcohol for health reasons and haven't been eating out as much either, so that was good.  Otherwise, we just needed to adjust to our new mortgage payment (refinanced from a 30 year to a 15).


    February 

    1. What are your money goals for this month?  Keep throwing money at H's student loan.

    2. How do you plan to be successful in your goals?  Stick with the budget and send our tax refund directly to Nelnet (already done!)

    3. How do you plan to improve or challenge yourself financially this month?  I've also been trying to find small ways to pay extra to our mortgage principle.  At this point, I've sent about $150 earned from Swagbucks, ebates and Mr. Rebates in February.  I'd like to try and make an extra $50-$100 a month to continue to do this.  Our electric garage door opener is also on the fritz.  I'd like to hold out as long as possible on getting it fixed.  So far, we've both just parked in the driveway (we only have a one car garage - so H already did this) and haven't had any problems, so I'd like to make it work for a few more weeks/months...


    Status of Ongoing Goals

    1. Debt payoff  $2,287.31 to H's student loan.  

    2. Savings success  $2,189.34 to retirement.

    3. Net worth watch  Mint has us hovering around $90,000, depending on the day.  We are so close to six figures!!


    GTKY Bonus

    Tell us about your Valentine!  This could be your spouse, professional or personal passion, a good friend or pet - whoever or whatever is closest to your heart.  By Midwestern standards, we met and married late (at 30/31), but I'm so very thankful I didn't settle and waited for the perfect partner.  My husband is the most thoughtful, kind and generous person I know, and he makes me want to be a better person.  He's also incredibly hard working, ambitious and driven.  Plus he's pretty darn handsome.  :)
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  • short+sassyshort+sassy member
    2500 Comments 500 Love Its Fourth Anniversary Name Dropper
    edited February 2016
    Pic of my Izzy Valentine.  For some reason I couldn't attach her to my original post.
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