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I am curious to know how much money everyone is able to save each month in dollars . I have been hearing people say that they save absolutely nothing because their budget is just too tight. I also heard a few people say that they save so much that they have to end up pulling money out of savings because they over saved. I just don't see how people can not have anything at all saved.
Re: Savings
I actually don't save much per month, but that's because I'm working on paying off my student loan by December.
Currently I save 10% with a 5% match for my TSP (like a 401K). Once school is paid off I'll be saving about $1100 a month for various things (about 30% of my take home) and upping my retirement contribution to 15%.
We do have about 4 months of expenses saved in the event of an emergency, so we aren't completely without savings.
TTC since 1/13 DX:PCOS 5/13 (long, anovulatory cycles)

Clomid 50mg 9/13 = BFP! EDD 6/7/14 M/C 5w6d Found 11/4/13
1/14 PCOS / Gluten Free Diet to hopefully regulate my system.
Chemical Pregnancy 03/14
Surprise BFP 6/14, Beta #1: 126 Beta #2: 340 Stick baby, stick! EDD 2/17/15
Riley Elaine born 2/16/15
TTC 2.0 6/15
Chemical Pregnancy 9/15
Chemical Pregnancy 6/16
BFP 9/16 EDD 6/3/17
Beta #1: 145 Beta #2: 376 Beta #3: 2,225 Beta #4: 4,548
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I get the impression that most of the folks on this board feel the same way. I know I do. I'd even add on "paying down long term debt" as a savings, in a way. For example, if someone's mortgage is $1,000/month, but they put an additional $500/month toward principal. I'd categorize the $1,000/month as a "bill", but the additional $500/month as a "savings".
I think a great goal for most people is to get to a point where they spend a good bit less than they earn. Someone in that boat can then start making progress toward whatever their financial goals are. But when a person lives paycheck to paycheck, it's a tough road to be on because the smallest things can upset that apple cart and there is no progress yet for the future. I've been there. I know some of the folks on this board are there, but are working on it.
Here is my current financial situation and plan, that is a bit unique:
For example, after paying my bills, I have about an extra $2000-$2500/month (soon to be $3000-$3500/month). About 40% of my income (all sources), soon to be 45-50% . But I put none of it in a savings account. I don't even have a savings account. The only savings I have is a $1,000 e-fund. Instead, I pay down my Home Equity Line of Credit balance. Because why would I want to earn 1/4 percent interest in some savings account when I can save myself from paying 4.5% interest on it? And HELOCs are super flexible banking products. I can take money back out of it whenever I need it.
I also don't save for retirement, another savings vehicle, like most people do. At least not in the same way. Though I've only bought one property this way, so far, I use my HELOC for a down payment on real estate investment properties. Earn more income that way. Pay my HELOC down even faster. Then do it again. Rinse and repeat and rinse and repeat. Until I have enough rental monthly cash flow to have a very comfortable living, even without having a f/t job.
Which goes back full circle why, at least to me, my HELOC is a savings vehicle even though it is a loan product.
TTC since 1/13 DX:PCOS 5/13 (long, anovulatory cycles)

Clomid 50mg 9/13 = BFP! EDD 6/7/14 M/C 5w6d Found 11/4/13
1/14 PCOS / Gluten Free Diet to hopefully regulate my system.
Chemical Pregnancy 03/14
Surprise BFP 6/14, Beta #1: 126 Beta #2: 340 Stick baby, stick! EDD 2/17/15
Riley Elaine born 2/16/15
TTC 2.0 6/15
Chemical Pregnancy 9/15
Chemical Pregnancy 6/16
BFP 9/16 EDD 6/3/17
Beta #1: 145 Beta #2: 376 Beta #3: 2,225 Beta #4: 4,548
www.5yearstonever.blogspot.com
Haha! I think of it as savings because, that same money could go into a savings account, but is instead going toward paying down a long term asset. And it eventually becomes savings. Either by paying that house off earlier or having that much more money in equity upon its sale.
But I totally understand why other people wouldn't see it that way.
And the savings I ALWAYS forget about, my HSA account. I sock away the max into that bad boy every year, for the last 3 years. It automatically comes out of my paycheck, so it's already "missing" income that I don't calculate into my monthly income. That's close to an extra $600/month.
I'm not sure where I am at now given my current situation as a married person and with a partner that doesn't have steady income. But when I was single I probably had around 50% of my gross income for living expenses including a very affordable mortgage and a car payment as my only debts. The other half went to taxes, retirement, charitable giving and general savings and added up to a high savings percentage.
My brother (a spender and a family man) was dumbfounded that I lived without cable, internet, and in general had such low monthly expenses.
One of the most eye opening articles I've ever read was about the psychology of this and a study that was done. I don't remember exactly how many people were in the sample, but it was a good sized one. They followed them, their income levels, and their spending habits over a 20-year period. They found that, the people who saved money, always saved money...no matter how little their income and even in cases where they made more money and then it dropped. And the people who lived paycheck to paycheck, always lived paycheck to paycheck, not matter how much money they made.
I have a good friend who is super frugal and definitely a saver. I've known her over 15 years and she has always been like that. Although they are broken up now, she was dating a guy for a year that was completely her polar opposite when it came to money. Serious spender. He made 3x what she did...nice six figure income...yet had to borrow money from her a few times because he "ran a little shy a few days before payday". He did at least always pay her back promptly on payday, but still! But hey, at least she got to ride around in his brand new BMW or Mercedes. Whichever new car flavor he had gotten that year.
What would you do if you or your H ever lost your job with only $1K in an e-fund? I can't remember if you are mortgage free or not.....but say you had a mortgage and car payments, student loans, cable bill, etc, how would you pay for those things? It would make me nervous with only $1K as a cash fund...or do you have others liquid accounts you can pull from for an emergency?
I always though my job was safe until layoff's were mentioned months ago...since then we've been trying to build our e-fund (currently at almost $12K) and I still feel like I would panic and not have enough....what if our furnace broke? those cost around $5-6K on top of paying all our normal bills while I was unemployed?
Anyone can chime in, but I'm just asking you since you mentioned you only have 1K.
I tend to think of the worst possible scenario lol
TTC since 1/13 DX:PCOS 5/13 (long, anovulatory cycles)

Clomid 50mg 9/13 = BFP! EDD 6/7/14 M/C 5w6d Found 11/4/13
1/14 PCOS / Gluten Free Diet to hopefully regulate my system.
Chemical Pregnancy 03/14
Surprise BFP 6/14, Beta #1: 126 Beta #2: 340 Stick baby, stick! EDD 2/17/15
Riley Elaine born 2/16/15
TTC 2.0 6/15
Chemical Pregnancy 9/15
Chemical Pregnancy 6/16
BFP 9/16 EDD 6/3/17
Beta #1: 145 Beta #2: 376 Beta #3: 2,225 Beta #4: 4,548
www.5yearstonever.blogspot.com