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I'm 16 weeks pregnant and woke up with an extreme headache with neck pain and weakness in both hands and arms. Called my OB. He asked me to go to the ER.
After an EKG, blood work, meds to reduce pain, an MRI without contrast, the docs concluded I likely had a migraine that presented in an odd way. I'm very thankful that's all it was. I have had some odd things happen to me in the past.
But now I'm laying in bed, still with dull pain, thinking about the bills. Radiology consult, neurological consult, tests, ugh. Plus just the ER cost.
It makes me sad. Cheer me up, please??!!
Re: MM hit today.
Yes, we have good HI. But to keep our premiums lower, we opted for higher deductible. We've never met it, even with each of the kiddos (3 so far). Maybe we will this year.
I don't chose my delivery hospitals based on cost, I choose them solely on the level of care their NICU offers. Thankfully, we have never needed the NICU. But my mom worked for 30+ years as a nurse in labor and delivery and the post-partum, and she always encouraged me to deliver at hospitals with higher level care available for newborns (you just never know what will happen).
Just know that all the OBs I've talked to do global billing which means they don't submit the claims for the prenatal care until baby is born so if you are pregnant this year but don't deliver til next year you don't have to worry about fulfilling 2 years of deductibles. With dd my max oop on a cobra plan was $3500 but we ended up putting dd on dhs plan once born so she had her own ded at 4k. It's like heaven with this new low ded we have. Less money stress.
The best news that you and baby are ok. Maybe start tracking your foods going forward & include any candy & beverages. This way if this happens again in the future you can look at your journal and see if there is any type of trend that maybe triggering it. There is a possibility that something that didn't bother you before maybe now since your hormones are different. Good luck & stay positive, you and your baby are ok, financial issues can always be figured out & taken care over time.
I had an unmedicated vaginal delivery and zero complications with DD, yet still met my max OOP of $3,000. Plus my pregnancy ran into 2 calendar years, so we had 2 max OOP's to account for.
TTC since 1/13 DX:PCOS 5/13 (long, anovulatory cycles)

Clomid 50mg 9/13 = BFP! EDD 6/7/14 M/C 5w6d Found 11/4/13
1/14 PCOS / Gluten Free Diet to hopefully regulate my system.
Chemical Pregnancy 03/14
Surprise BFP 6/14, Beta #1: 126 Beta #2: 340 Stick baby, stick! EDD 2/17/15
Riley Elaine born 2/16/15
TTC 2.0 6/15
Chemical Pregnancy 9/15
Chemical Pregnancy 6/16
BFP 9/16 EDD 6/3/17
Beta #1: 145 Beta #2: 376 Beta #3: 2,225 Beta #4: 4,548
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