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Update - and call out to Bostonians (Travel dilemmas - Chicago, Boston, Jekyll Island)

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Re: Update - and call out to Bostonians (Travel dilemmas - Chicago, Boston, Jekyll Island)

  • As an aside, I used to track employee vacation time at a previous company for about 80 people.  It was very interesting!  Just like money, most people were either vacation "savers" or "spenders".  We accrued vacation time with each pay period (same at my current company) and some people would use it almost as soon as they got it.  Other people, obviously I am in this category, would use very little of it or...if they did...it was only in a big chunk because they were going somewhere on vacation. 

    I'm definitely a saver to a degree.  I save it when I get to a new company to build up a bank in case I ever need it.  Since my last company cashed out, I would let them cash it out unless I had plans to go somewhere.  Now it's use or don't accumulate so I've been burning days so I don't lose them.  Really irritates me.  I hate taking days to sit at home and do what I could do otherwise.
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  • Yes Los Andes. We sat on the patio and it was really nice. Our friend's wife is from Peru and likes the food. I had a chicken dish with this mushroom sauce I wanted to slurp off the plate - so good. 

    I I should add the good hotel prices I saw were for Chicago at the end of September 
  • Southern ME is a great Boston extension idea. Portland is one of my favorite cities on the planet. IMH (and biased) opinion, Portland and Providence are actually both better food cities than Boston, though Boston has other charms. The Providence food scene is insanely good and relatively affordable. All of the cities mentioned are fabulous for beer if that's something you're into at all. 

    Haha, that's where my H is from...but the other one.  All the way across country in Oregon.

    Not a deciding factor, but a bummer that Boston is not getting rave reviews on food or its price.

    I'll be honest I'm not really sure why people are so down on Boston food. Yes - if you stuck around tourist areas and expected the Union Oyster House to actually be good then you're going to spend a lot of money on meh food, but we have lots of great restaurants if you venture out a bit to the outer neighborhoods, Brookline, Somerville, or Cambridge.
  • csuavecsuave member
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    edited August 2016
    I got a hotel for Chicago on Priceline.  I saw a $91 Express deal for a 4 star in the main area.  I cross referenced their Express Deals with their regular list and figured out the hotels that this deal might be for.  I was ok with the possibilities so I went to bid my own price at $86.  It was accepted and was the hotel I suspected, right on Michigan Avenue.  The reviews say it is getting a little dated and rooms are kind of small but I think it will suit our needs and I am happy with the price.

    ETA @short+sassy I just noticed the hotel I got is the same one you saw on Groupon :)
  • Southern ME is a great Boston extension idea. Portland is one of my favorite cities on the planet. IMH (and biased) opinion, Portland and Providence are actually both better food cities than Boston, though Boston has other charms. The Providence food scene is insanely good and relatively affordable. All of the cities mentioned are fabulous for beer if that's something you're into at all. 

    Haha, that's where my H is from...but the other one.  All the way across country in Oregon.

    Not a deciding factor, but a bummer that Boston is not getting rave reviews on food or its price.

    I'll be honest I'm not really sure why people are so down on Boston food. Yes - if you stuck around tourist areas and expected the Union Oyster House to actually be good then you're going to spend a lot of money on meh food, but we have lots of great restaurants if you venture out a bit to the outer neighborhoods, Brookline, Somerville, or Cambridge.

    I especially understand what you are saying.  That's a big problem in NOLA also!  The food in the Quarter is extremely expensive and many places are mediocre, at best.  Most of the famous 4-star restaurants deserve their reputation, but it's hard on the budget to spend $100-$150/night on dinner for two, lol.

    Thanks to @Xstatic3333 reminding me about the greatness of AirBnb, my H and I are leaning toward Boston, but also using some of the time to travel to nearby areas.  Like a lot of you have suggested!

  • short+sassyshort+sassy member
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    edited August 2016
    jtmh2012 said:

    As an aside, I used to track employee vacation time at a previous company for about 80 people.  It was very interesting!  Just like money, most people were either vacation "savers" or "spenders".  We accrued vacation time with each pay period (same at my current company) and some people would use it almost as soon as they got it.  Other people, obviously I am in this category, would use very little of it or...if they did...it was only in a big chunk because they were going somewhere on vacation. 

    I'm definitely a saver to a degree.  I save it when I get to a new company to build up a bank in case I ever need it.  Since my last company cashed out, I would let them cash it out unless I had plans to go somewhere.  Now it's use or don't accumulate so I've been burning days so I don't lose them.  Really irritates me.  I hate taking days to sit at home and do what I could do otherwise.


    There are about 15-20 states that don't allow a "use it or lose it" vacation policy.  Fortunately for me, Louisiana is one of them ;).

    In fact, the job I had where I tracked employee vacation time, had a "use it or lose it" policy and the people on my projects were all over the country.  I had to maintain two spreadsheets...one for the employees in states that allowed "use it or lose it" and one for employees in states that did not.

    Oh!  And, for those states, it is based on the state the employee's worksite is in.  Not where the corporate office is located.


  • There are about 15-20 states that don't allow a "use it or lose it" vacation policy.  Fortunately for me, Louisiana is one of them ;).

    In fact, the job I had where I tracked employee vacation time, had a "use it or lose it" policy and the people on my projects were all over the country.  I had to maintain two spreadsheets...one for the employees in states that allowed "use it or lose it" and one for employees in states that did not.

    Oh!  And, for those states, it is based on the state the employee's worksite is in.  Not where the corporate office is located.

    Sounds like I need to move to one of the other 15-20 states.....
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  • Glad you found a way to make Boston/New England work out @short+sassy! Hope you'll love it!
  • Although I'm flexible with dates, I am tentatively planning my Boston trip for Sept. 7th (Wed.) to Sept. 13th (Tues.)

    We decided to stay in Boston the whole time, but will rent a car for one day and take a day trip to NH (or similar) for fall scenery.

    I'm looking at a few AirBnBs, but would really appreciate some feedback for those of you who either live in Boston or are familiar with it.

    It looks like the more affordable places are in the Brookline area as well as (I'm not sure what this is called) but the area right across the bridge from "North End".

    Ack!  Some of the listings we just saw last night are already gone.  But here is one of them:

    https://www.airbnb.com/s/Boston--MA--United-States?guests=2&checkin=09/07/2016&checkout=09/13/2016&price_max=130&room_types[]=Entire+home/apt&ss_id=arrh9f5s&ss_preload=true&source=bb&s_tag=V62mfg6H

    This one is in Mission Hill:

    https://www.airbnb.com/rooms/13651290?checkin=09/14/2016&checkout=09/20/2016&guests=2&s=7enLfKho


    Thanks in advance!  Just want to make sure I'm in (probably) a safe neighborhood that is also fairly convenient to get around.

  • LillibetteVLillibetteV member
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    edited August 2016
    @short+sassy I'd stay out of Mission Hill. It's not the best area in general and during that time all of the college kids will have just moved back in. 

    the $112 cambridge studio looks good!
  • @short+sassy I'd stay out of Mission Hill. It's not the best area in general and during that time all of the college kids will have just moved back in. 

    the $112 cambridge studio looks good!

    Thanks!  I'll go with that one then.  I apologize, I thought my links above were directly to the places I was looking at, but I see now it just takes me to the main page of my search.
  • also check this out:

    https://newengland.com/seasons/fall/foliage/peak-fall-foliage-map/

    Early September isn't going to give you very much leaf peeping. 
  • @short+sassy I'd stay out of Mission Hill. It's not the best area in general and during that time all of the college kids will have just moved back in. 

    the $112 cambridge studio looks good!

    Thanks!  I'll go with that one then.  I apologize, I thought my links above were directly to the places I was looking at, but I see now it just takes me to the main page of my search.
    Just be sure you are comfortable with using hosts that don't have reviews as hosts. I personally am not, but it's probably why it's cheap. However the location is good! I used to live just across the river from that spot. 
  • also check this out:

    https://newengland.com/seasons/fall/foliage/peak-fall-foliage-map/

    Early September isn't going to give you very much leaf peeping. 


    Yeah, I was afraid of that.  If I go later in September, it looks like the possibility improves a bit.  I'll run flight and AirBnB numbers for that.

    I do prefer reviews but, when the choices are slim, I don't mind taking my chances.  Especially since you gave a thumbs up to the area.  My H and I are pretty easy going people and not too fussy with accommodations.  Hopefully I didn't just jinx myself, lol.

  • also check this out:

    https://newengland.com/seasons/fall/foliage/peak-fall-foliage-map/

    Early September isn't going to give you very much leaf peeping. 


    Yeah, I was afraid of that.  If I go later in September, it looks like the possibility improves a bit.  I'll run flight and AirBnB numbers for that.

    I do prefer reviews but, when the choices are slim, I don't mind taking my chances.  Especially since you gave a thumbs up to the area.  My H and I are pretty easy going people and not too fussy with accommodations.  Hopefully I didn't just jinx myself, lol.

    This location will put you on the red line which is the more convenient of lines too. Mission Hill is the green line and that is reliably 25 minutes late and slow moving (it's a street car once you're out of the downtown core). 
  • @LillibetteV, I went rogue on your recommendations, though not by choice.  It's been a roller coaster AirBnB experience.

    When I checked on Sunday, there were 35 options based on my search.  And it had been about that for the few days previous.  But it was like, as soon as I had decided for sure on Boston, all my choices were disappearing like hotcakes...even when I pushed out my dates.  By Mon. night, there were 11 options.

    The place you recommended was gone shortly after I went back to look at it a second time and e-mail it to my H.

    On Mon. night, we booked a place in East End (hostess accepted us) for $97/night.  We loved it!  The neighborhood had a NYC feel, apparently it is Boston's Little Italy, so we were assuming great restaurants, and was close to a lot of sites.  It's the hostess' personal studio, but she travels a lot.  Then we get an e-mail Tuesday night at 9PM (Eastern) that her work schedule had changed and she had to cancel our reservation.  Really?!?  And you didn't know that sooner than 9PM?  Super PO'ed.

    So back to the drawing board.  We even started looking at private rooms, instead of "whole house/apartment".  There were a couple places in Cambridge if I pushed my nightly budget out to $160.  Instead, we booked a beachside studio in Revere, for $105/night.  According to the description and other reviews, taking the metro line into Boston only takes about 15 minutes.  So...eeekkk...I'm hoping we truly aren't too far out to be inconvenient.

    Lost the NYC feel, but the neighborhood looks fine if a bit "blah".  And we are only a couple blocks from the beach for a mellow and relaxing morning or evening stroll.  Though it doesn't look like there is much in the way of restaurants.

    Oh!  Based on the "leaf" link you sent me, which was really neat, I pushed out my dates to Sept. 21-27 in order to hopefully start seeing a bit of leaf changing color on our day excursion out to NH (or similar).

    As an aside, some thumbs up to AirBnB themselves.  When my hostess for the first place canceled the reservation, AirBnB gave me a coupon worth 10% of the value of my booking to use for another one.  So even though my second place was a bit more, plus I think one of the fees was less , I didn't have to pay anything extra.

  • @short+sassy I'm glad you got it booked! Revere is definitely underwhelming, but the airport is on the same T line (the "T" is what we call our metro) so that will be fairly convenient. Take it in to Aquarium or State or Government Center and you'll be in the thick of the downtown area pretty quickly. Warning - the T shuts down at about 12:30 even though bars are open until 2am so plan for that or plan for an Uber. 

    I haven't personally hung out at Revere Beach - it's had a reputation for being a little sketchy and gross, but I've heard that in the last couple of years there has been a major push to clean it up and it's supposedly pretty nice now. 

    Also safety tip - don't say anywhere in Boston has a NYC feel around the locals  ;)
  • @short+sassy I'm glad you got it booked! Revere is definitely underwhelming, but the airport is on the same T line (the "T" is what we call our metro) so that will be fairly convenient. Take it in to Aquarium or State or Government Center and you'll be in the thick of the downtown area pretty quickly. Warning - the T shuts down at about 12:30 even though bars are open until 2am so plan for that or plan for an Uber. 

    I haven't personally hung out at Revere Beach - it's had a reputation for being a little sketchy and gross, but I've heard that in the last couple of years there has been a major push to clean it up and it's supposedly pretty nice now. 

    Also safety tip - don't say anywhere in Boston has a NYC feel around the locals  ;)


    Lol, thanks!  Maybe it is just as well then.

    We did a Google view for the street we are staying on and also scrolled it down our "walk" to the beach.  It didn't look alarming, though I realize that doesn't always tell the whole story.  This particular hostess has two studios, including the one we are staying in, very near each other.  Although I didn't read all the reviews.  She has 150 reviews (total) with 4 out of 5 stars.  So I'm assuming if the neighborhood and/or distance to Boston was unpleasant, I would have read comments like that.

    Thanks also for the warning about the T line closing down at 12:30.  Though my H and I (especially H) aren't very late night people, so I don't think it will affect us.

    Bars?  That close?  What a strange concept, lol.  I'm teasing, but there are no laws like that for NOLA.  For some of the rest of Louisiana, yes, but not here or the surrounding areas.

  • oh you'll be in for a treat with our liquor laws. Bars close by 2am or earlier, no happy hour specials, definitely no "to-go" cups and you can easily get a ticket for drinking in public if you aren't super careful. Although a few years ago they started allowing alcohol to be sold at Sunday brunch starting at 10am (it used to be noon) so that was an upgrade. Actually when I was a kid you couldn't buy alcohol at all on Sundays! 
  • I have a good friend in that part of Revere. It's boring, but super convenient as @LillibetteV has covered. Revere Beach isn't much to write home about but if you just like to see the ocean like me, it ticks that box. Can't wait to hear what you think! For us it has been about a $15 uber ride back from downtown if you outlast the T (we used to park at his place a lot when headed into the city, until they got a second car). 
  • I have a good friend in that part of Revere. It's boring, but super convenient as @LillibetteV has covered. Revere Beach isn't much to write home about but if you just like to see the ocean like me, it ticks that box. Can't wait to hear what you think! For us it has been about a $15 uber ride back from downtown if you outlast the T (we used to park at his place a lot when headed into the city, until they got a second car). 


    Thanks!  That's good to hear.  For $100/night, but convenient to Boston, I'll take sleepy and boring, lol.

    As dorky as this sounds, I'm excited there is a Dunkin' Donuts near where we are staying that is across the street from the beach.  I can't start my day without a good breakfast.  They are cheap and I especially like their breakfast sandwiches and iced coffees.

    Dunkin' and Sonic fall into the same category for me.  They're in the suburbs, but not in NOLA.  I like them.  But not enough to drive out to the closest one, unless I am going out to the 'burbs for something else anyway. 

  • I've got a Dunkin' just outside my neighborhood.  Kinda try to avoid it though.....
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  • You will be tripping over Dunkin Donuts. We have them here but it was super weird to see so many of them. Waaaay more than Starbucks. And the DD/Tim Hortons boundary line is somewhere in Maine. 
  • @short+sassy DD in MA are of a significantly higher quality than in other parts of the country. No clue why, but all my friends who have moved away are in complete agreement. That said, I prefer Tim Horton's @smerka! I'm sad they pulled out of RI. 
  • I love all donuts.  DD has become so dangerous since they introduced the brownie batter donut.  It is so good.
  • smerka said:
    You will be tripping over Dunkin Donuts. We have them here but it was super weird to see so many of them. Waaaay more than Starbucks. And the DD/Tim Hortons boundary line is somewhere in Maine. 
    Bostonians basically panic if it takes them more than 5 seconds to find a dunks. I think their hot coffee is pretty gross, but the cold brew is decent and I absolutely LOVE strawberry frosted donuts. If the color pink had a flavor it would be those donuts lol. 
  • smerka said:
    You will be tripping over Dunkin Donuts. We have them here but it was super weird to see so many of them. Waaaay more than Starbucks. And the DD/Tim Hortons boundary line is somewhere in Maine. 
    Bostonians basically panic if it takes them more than 5 seconds to find a dunks. I think their hot coffee is pretty gross, but the cold brew is decent and I absolutely LOVE strawberry frosted donuts. If the color pink had a flavor it would be those donuts lol. 


    When discussing the DD that will be nearby, my H said, "I can finally get some maple bars."  It always baffles us.  For a city that fries everything, NOLA sucks at donuts.

    There are usually only a few selections...rarely maple bars or strawberry frosted (both my favorites)...and the boring, plain glazed ones often leave a gross, greasy coating in my mouth.

    We don't have many Starbucks either.  There are two local coffeehouse chains that are everywhere.

    I've heard of the Tim Horton's chain, but have never been to one.

  • I've heard of Tim Horton's, but none around here.

    Love DD, but the one right by my house sucks....:(  Tried to go today an hour after opening and nothing on display.

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