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Health Insurance Marketplace - can I choose to buy a plan in another state?

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  • You're definitely right, @LillibetteV; years of treatment and other therapies are required before gender reassignment surgery. It is still also completely unfair that @brij2006's reconstruction wouldn't be covered. 

    I'm also with you on MA. Insurance works so well there and is totally uncontroversial. The system was even put in place by a Republican! And yet, the rest of the country just isn't having it. Many states seem to be actively sabotaging the ACA (which I admit needs some help) by gutting their exchanges and declining the Medicaid expansion.  I just think that in a country as wealthy as ours, nobody should go uncovered because of preexisting condition they have no control over, even if it means that I personally pay more. I could be in their shoes someday in a hot second. Then again, I have cushy MA insurance so I'm being shielded from the worst effects the ACA has had.  I kind of feel stuck to this part of the country given what insurance is doing outside of New England, particularly if we go for more kids. 

    @als1982 your perspective on these issues as a medical industry pro is very interesting! Thanks for sharing. 
    Thanks for hearing me out!  It is all a hot mess right now.  

    My hospital straddles a state line and 51% of out patient population is Medicaid/SCHIP.  This includes not only the poor but also families with serious or chronic illness, like cancer, heart failure or serious birth defect; all of which can easily incur expenses of $1M+. One state reimburses at less than 40% of actual costs while the other gives us a generous 60%.  

    On on top of that huge budget deficit, there are also several ACA exchange policies that won't even include us in their coverage; and we're the only children's hospital in the city, and in state of Kansas.  (In MO they could drive 4 hours to St. Louis but that's a huge burden for families.)  So what ends up happening is those families come for care, are billed their full amounts.  We do provide generous financial assistance covering in full the costs for families who make 3x the federal poverty level or less, but the bills from those who don't qualify for financial assistance and can't pay end up as bad debt (we don't send our debtors to collections) and is written off.  On average, bad debt, charity care and other write-offs totals more than $120M annually.

    So, yes I agree that our system needs an overhaul, but I think providing some background on how a hospital operates and explaining some of the costs the lay person doesn't always consider (personnel, amenities, equipment) is important.  Again, I'm pro single payor and would love to see the US move toward universal health care, but unfortunately I think we're headed in the opposite direction.
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  • @als1982 - yes children's mercy isn't on our plan.  If something happened to DD we would have to go to KU Med.  seems odd to me to not include a very popular hospital for kiddos.
  • vlagrl35 said:
    @als1982 - yes children's mercy isn't on our plan.  If something happened to DD we would have to go to KU Med.  seems odd to me to not include a very popular hospital for kiddos.
    It's a business decision for insurance companies.  They keep more of your money by not including a provider that offers access to all sub-specialty services, and limiting you to ones that only offer limited care and generic services. It's pretty terrible.
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  • als1982 said:
    vlagrl35 said:
    @als1982 - yes children's mercy isn't on our plan.  If something happened to DD we would have to go to KU Med.  seems odd to me to not include a very popular hospital for kiddos.
    It's a business decision for insurance companies.  They keep more of your money by not including a provider that offers access to all sub-specialty services, and limiting you to ones that only offer limited care and generic services. It's pretty terrible.
    see i had thought maybe it's the hospitals decision that they didn't want to be part of ACA plans.  We looked into getting DD CHIP but we don't qualify so we are all on the same plan.

    My chiro is the one who told me why some doctors don't take Cigna - because they don't pay out much for claims.
  • @als1982, thanks for the perspective.  And I do understand there are a lot costs on a provider's end that the average person doesn't see or think of.  But there is also a lot of outrageousness.

    Same for pharmaceutical companies.  I understand their research and development costs are enormous and only a small fraction of those drugs ever come to market.  I certainly agree they need to include those costs in the prices of their drugs that ARE on the market.  But there is a limit and, in my eyes, they are the WORST offenders for bilking the public and taking advantage of the sick.

    I know it is a very unpopular opinion in this country, but I also think it is too bad we haven't gone the route of universal healthcare like pretty much all the other first world countries have done.

    Or maybe a different hybrid where people with extensive medical costs, either an ongoing basis or a major surgery, have their costs capped at a certain level per year and a special state/government program pays the rest.  Meanwhile, everyone else can have more affordable insurance rates.

    And, yeah, "healthy" people will probably have to pay more in higher taxes.  Some of them will bitch and whine about.  Until their 5-year-old is diagnosed with leukemia.  Or until they need their appendix removed.  Or are in a horrendous car accident.  And are in the ICU for one month and then have 12 months of physical therapy.

    The most precious things we have is our life and our health.  And if I have to pay higher taxes, so more people can enjoy those things and prolong their life, than that is what I think we need to do as a society.  And the people who are 60 or whatever years old and "have never had to see a doctor, so why do I have to pay" can kindly STFU and count their blessings.    

  • @short+sassy heck yes! I actually had an argument with a friend over this (plus other things I think taxes should help pay for like parental leave and higher education) and he said I only felt that way because I would benefit and people like him pay all the taxes. I just started laughing because he knows nothing about my finances and was dead wrong. I pay tens of thousands of dollars in taxes every year and I would still happily pay more if we got services more in line with other advanced countries! 
  • Additionally, I truly believe that all members of society benefit when people are kept healthy so that they can work and contribute to the best of their abilities. I feel the same way about spending on public education-you benefit from it even if you don't personally use it. 
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    Additionally, I truly believe that all members of society benefit when people are kept healthy so that they can work and contribute to the best of their abilities. I feel the same way about spending on public education-you benefit from it even if you don't personally use it. 
    I most definitely agree. As an example, our city had a referendum on the ballot in Nov for about $44mil to build a new middle school. Taxes are going to increase for at incremental rates based on home value, but for perspective, for a home valued at about $250k the owner's taxes would increase about $10/month.

    You bet that people moaned about 'but it's going to increase our taxes' and 'we don't have kids in the schools,' and I'm over here like 'only $10 a month, per household, so that the kids in our community can have a better education? Sign me up!' Education & healthcare affect the entire community, society, and world. It's shortsighted to believe that they don't impact you (general you) personally.

    ETA: the referendum passed, although it was a pretty split vote.
  • smetter04 said:
    Additionally, I truly believe that all members of society benefit when people are kept healthy so that they can work and contribute to the best of their abilities. I feel the same way about spending on public education-you benefit from it even if you don't personally use it. 
    I most definitely agree. As an example, our city had a referendum on the ballot in Nov for about $44mil to build a new middle school. Taxes are going to increase for at incremental rates based on home value, but for perspective, for a home valued at about $250k the owner's taxes would increase about $10/month.

    You bet that people moaned about 'but it's going to increase our taxes' and 'we don't have kids in the schools,' and I'm over here like 'only $10 a month, per household, so that the kids in our community can have a better education? Sign me up!' Education & healthcare affect the entire community, society, and world. It's shortsighted to believe that they don't impact you (general you) personally.

    ETA: the referendum passed, although it was a pretty split vote.
    Our recent override failed and the "yes" vote made the same argument that it wasn't a lot. The "no" voters really weren't concerned about the money, but about how it was going to be used and if there weren't more cost effective solutions. I was on the fence because yes more money for schools is great, but at the same time not all of the problems can be solved with money. It's nearly IMPOSSIBLE to fire ineffective teachers and the standardized testing is ridiculous. I live in a very rational level headed community that wants to see change, but understands that more money isn't always the answer. 
  • smetter04 said:
    Additionally, I truly believe that all members of society benefit when people are kept healthy so that they can work and contribute to the best of their abilities. I feel the same way about spending on public education-you benefit from it even if you don't personally use it. 
    I most definitely agree. As an example, our city had a referendum on the ballot in Nov for about $44mil to build a new middle school. Taxes are going to increase for at incremental rates based on home value, but for perspective, for a home valued at about $250k the owner's taxes would increase about $10/month.

    You bet that people moaned about 'but it's going to increase our taxes' and 'we don't have kids in the schools,' and I'm over here like 'only $10 a month, per household, so that the kids in our community can have a better education? Sign me up!' Education & healthcare affect the entire community, society, and world. It's shortsighted to believe that they don't impact you (general you) personally.

    ETA: the referendum passed, although it was a pretty split vote.
    Amen!
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  • smetter04 said:
    I most definitely agree. As an example, our city had a referendum on the ballot in Nov for about $44mil to build a new middle school. Taxes are going to increase for at incremental rates based on home value, but for perspective, for a home valued at about $250k the owner's taxes would increase about $10/month.

    You bet that people moaned about 'but it's going to increase our taxes' and 'we don't have kids in the schools,' and I'm over here like 'only $10 a month, per household, so that the kids in our community can have a better education? Sign me up!' Education & healthcare affect the entire community, society, and world. It's shortsighted to believe that they don't impact you (general you) personally.

    ETA: the referendum passed, although it was a pretty split vote.

    My issue isn't with the $10.  My issue is with how taxes in general are flittered away on wasteful spending and then they turn around and go "we need more money for schools, police, fire departments, etc".

    My other issue is that I have to live within my budget.  If the costs go up, my paycheck doesn't go up, but each year the government just raises taxes like it's an unlimited money pot.

    A number of years ago, the people out here voted down a gas tax referendum that was slated to fund badly needed transportation projects.  Why?  The whole reason we even had the referendum was the state government had robbed the transportation fund to pay for other pet projects.  The voters demanded that the new funds be restricted to only pay for transportation needs.  State government wouldn't guarantee it.  Voters voted it down.

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  • @als1982 - you work at children's mercy?  DD came up with an idea a couple weeks ago.  She wants to give a gift to sick kids there.  Is there a program where you can donate xmas gifts to the kids in the hospital?
  • smetter04 said:
    Additionally, I truly believe that all members of society benefit when people are kept healthy so that they can work and contribute to the best of their abilities. I feel the same way about spending on public education-you benefit from it even if you don't personally use it. 
    I most definitely agree. As an example, our city had a referendum on the ballot in Nov for about $44mil to build a new middle school. Taxes are going to increase for at incremental rates based on home value, but for perspective, for a home valued at about $250k the owner's taxes would increase about $10/month.

    You bet that people moaned about 'but it's going to increase our taxes' and 'we don't have kids in the schools,' and I'm over here like 'only $10 a month, per household, so that the kids in our community can have a better education? Sign me up!' Education & healthcare affect the entire community, society, and world. It's shortsighted to believe that they don't impact you (general you) personally.

    ETA: the referendum passed, although it was a pretty split vote.
    Our recent override failed and the "yes" vote made the same argument that it wasn't a lot. The "no" voters really weren't concerned about the money, but about how it was going to be used and if there weren't more cost effective solutions. I was on the fence because yes more money for schools is great, but at the same time not all of the problems can be solved with money. It's nearly IMPOSSIBLE to fire ineffective teachers and the standardized testing is ridiculous. I live in a very rational level headed community that wants to see change, but understands that more money isn't always the answer. 
    @LillibetteV You're right that more money isn't always the answer! It completely depends on the problems at hand and what solution(s) are best for those problems.

    In our city's case, the 'no' people mostly argued the money point. The 'don't raise my taxes for any reason' people are strong around here, and IMO detracts from the larger conversation of how to provide a quality education, add value to the community, etc. The current middle school is old, falling apart, is laid out in an archaic, super-spread-out design that is no longer conducive to quality learning, and most importantly doesn't have adequate facilities for music/art/science classes. The school needed replacement back when I attended 15 years ago lol. The other thing is, building a new/bigger middle school allows for the 6th grade to move from elementary to middle school (there are pros/cons of this; I personally am not well versed in which is best) but then the elementary schools will have room for our district to finally offer 4k, which is needed/wanted by community families and makes our city more attractive for new families to move here (more families = more/faster population growth = decreased tax burden per household, in theory).

    Long story short, money had to be the answer in this case. Either way, it's money toward updating an old school or money toward building a new one. Delaying the inevitable new school only increases costs in the long run. No one likes their taxes to increase, I certainly don't either, but there are certain reasons that they should increase and IMO education is one of them.
  • jtmh2012 said:
    smetter04 said:
    I most definitely agree. As an example, our city had a referendum on the ballot in Nov for about $44mil to build a new middle school. Taxes are going to increase for at incremental rates based on home value, but for perspective, for a home valued at about $250k the owner's taxes would increase about $10/month.

    You bet that people moaned about 'but it's going to increase our taxes' and 'we don't have kids in the schools,' and I'm over here like 'only $10 a month, per household, so that the kids in our community can have a better education? Sign me up!' Education & healthcare affect the entire community, society, and world. It's shortsighted to believe that they don't impact you (general you) personally.

    ETA: the referendum passed, although it was a pretty split vote.

    My issue isn't with the $10.  My issue is with how taxes in general are flittered away on wasteful spending and then they turn around and go "we need more money for schools, police, fire departments, etc".

    My other issue is that I have to live within my budget.  If the costs go up, my paycheck doesn't go up, but each year the government just raises taxes like it's an unlimited money pot.

    A number of years ago, the people out here voted down a gas tax referendum that was slated to fund badly needed transportation projects.  Why?  The whole reason we even had the referendum was the state government had robbed the transportation fund to pay for other pet projects.  The voters demanded that the new funds be restricted to only pay for transportation needs.  State government wouldn't guarantee it.  Voters voted it down.

    @jtmh2012 Great points, and I also agree that why government wants to increase taxes, what it's for, and how they plan to use it affects whether or not taxes should be increased. In your example, the voters inspected the value and usage of the proposal and decided to vote it down. It's when the conversation about the larger issues & needs are derailed with the blanket  'I don't want my taxes to increase' argument that things suffer. I don't want my taxes to increase either, but the reality is that things cost money and I'd rather my taxes be used strategically. We could get into another conversation about allocation of tax funds but let's leave it here lol.
  • vlagrl35 said:
    @als1982 - you work at children's mercy?  DD came up with an idea a couple weeks ago.  She wants to give a gift to sick kids there.  Is there a program where you can donate xmas gifts to the kids in the hospital?
    How thoughtful of your daughter!  Yes, we are collecting toys right now to include in our "Snowflake Shop" that's open the week of Christmas for parents to come pick out presents for their kids who are in-patient and their siblings.  You can schedule a drop off online at childrensmercy.org/help-our-kids/donate-goods.  When you get to the hospital, ask for Volunteer Services.  Volunteer Services will present you with a form that you will want to fill out for tax purposes.  Make sure you fill that out and put a note that says the gift is from a child, and include at least her first name.  That form comes back to our office and will trigger my team to prepare and send a special certificate to her!  If you need to call Volunteer Services, their number is 816/234-3496.  Let me know if I can help in any other way!
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  • als1982 said:
    vlagrl35 said:
    @als1982 - you work at children's mercy?  DD came up with an idea a couple weeks ago.  She wants to give a gift to sick kids there.  Is there a program where you can donate xmas gifts to the kids in the hospital?
    How thoughtful of your daughter!  Yes, we are collecting toys right now to include in our "Snowflake Shop" that's open the week of Christmas for parents to come pick out presents for their kids who are in-patient and their siblings.  You can schedule a drop off online at childrensmercy.org/help-our-kids/donate-goods.  When you get to the hospital, ask for Volunteer Services.  Volunteer Services will present you with a form that you will want to fill out for tax purposes.  Make sure you fill that out and put a note that says the gift is from a child, and include at least her first name.  That form comes back to our office and will trigger my team to prepare and send a special certificate to her!  If you need to call Volunteer Services, their number is 816/234-3496.  Let me know if I can help in any other way!
    awesome!  She wanted to do it before Thanksgiving but I told her we have all of December to do it.  The month is already flying by.  is this the children's mercy in OPKS?
  • vlagrl35 said:
    als1982 said:
    vlagrl35 said:
    @als1982 - you work at children's mercy?  DD came up with an idea a couple weeks ago.  She wants to give a gift to sick kids there.  Is there a program where you can donate xmas gifts to the kids in the hospital?
    How thoughtful of your daughter!  Yes, we are collecting toys right now to include in our "Snowflake Shop" that's open the week of Christmas for parents to come pick out presents for their kids who are in-patient and their siblings.  You can schedule a drop off online at childrensmercy.org/help-our-kids/donate-goods.  When you get to the hospital, ask for Volunteer Services.  Volunteer Services will present you with a form that you will want to fill out for tax purposes.  Make sure you fill that out and put a note that says the gift is from a child, and include at least her first name.  That form comes back to our office and will trigger my team to prepare and send a special certificate to her!  If you need to call Volunteer Services, their number is 816/234-3496.  Let me know if I can help in any other way!
    awesome!  She wanted to do it before Thanksgiving but I told her we have all of December to do it.  The month is already flying by.  is this the children's mercy in OPKS?
    No it's downtown (2401 Gillham, KCMO).  If you wanted to drop off toys to the Northland clinic, I could also help you arrange that.
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  • als1982 said:
    vlagrl35 said:
    als1982 said:
    vlagrl35 said:
    @als1982 - you work at children's mercy?  DD came up with an idea a couple weeks ago.  She wants to give a gift to sick kids there.  Is there a program where you can donate xmas gifts to the kids in the hospital?
    How thoughtful of your daughter!  Yes, we are collecting toys right now to include in our "Snowflake Shop" that's open the week of Christmas for parents to come pick out presents for their kids who are in-patient and their siblings.  You can schedule a drop off online at childrensmercy.org/help-our-kids/donate-goods.  When you get to the hospital, ask for Volunteer Services.  Volunteer Services will present you with a form that you will want to fill out for tax purposes.  Make sure you fill that out and put a note that says the gift is from a child, and include at least her first name.  That form comes back to our office and will trigger my team to prepare and send a special certificate to her!  If you need to call Volunteer Services, their number is 816/234-3496.  Let me know if I can help in any other way!
    awesome!  She wanted to do it before Thanksgiving but I told her we have all of December to do it.  The month is already flying by.  is this the children's mercy in OPKS?
    No it's downtown (2401 Gillham, KCMO).  If you wanted to drop off toys to the Northland clinic, I could also help you arrange that.
    oh that's even better - closer to us.  Kind of off topic but Google Fiber had hired us yesterday to play at a pop up event at the starbucks on 11th and main.  I had to take the gig because well it's google.  They want us to play agin next Friday at the VFW in midtown.  I'm so excited if they become a longer term client of ours!
  • vlagrl35 said:
    als1982 said:
    vlagrl35 said:
    als1982 said:
    vlagrl35 said:
    @als1982 - you work at children's mercy?  DD came up with an idea a couple weeks ago.  She wants to give a gift to sick kids there.  Is there a program where you can donate xmas gifts to the kids in the hospital?
    How thoughtful of your daughter!  Yes, we are collecting toys right now to include in our "Snowflake Shop" that's open the week of Christmas for parents to come pick out presents for their kids who are in-patient and their siblings.  You can schedule a drop off online at childrensmercy.org/help-our-kids/donate-goods.  When you get to the hospital, ask for Volunteer Services.  Volunteer Services will present you with a form that you will want to fill out for tax purposes.  Make sure you fill that out and put a note that says the gift is from a child, and include at least her first name.  That form comes back to our office and will trigger my team to prepare and send a special certificate to her!  If you need to call Volunteer Services, their number is 816/234-3496.  Let me know if I can help in any other way!
    awesome!  She wanted to do it before Thanksgiving but I told her we have all of December to do it.  The month is already flying by.  is this the children's mercy in OPKS?
    No it's downtown (2401 Gillham, KCMO).  If you wanted to drop off toys to the Northland clinic, I could also help you arrange that.
    oh that's even better - closer to us.  Kind of off topic but Google Fiber had hired us yesterday to play at a pop up event at the starbucks on 11th and main.  I had to take the gig because well it's google.  They want us to play agin next Friday at the VFW in midtown.  I'm so excited if they become a longer term client of ours!
    The phone number for the Northland clinic is 816/413-2500.  The clinic manager is Scott Sullivan.  Feel free to drop my name (Amy Sleeper).  If you drop toys off there, they likely don't have the inkind donation forms that trigger the kid certificate, so if you PM me your daughters name and mailing address, I can have it done manually.
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  • jtmh2012 said:

    My issue isn't with the $10.  My issue is with how taxes in general are flittered away on wasteful spending and then they turn around and go "we need more money for schools, police, fire departments, etc".

    My other issue is that I have to live within my budget.  If the costs go up, my paycheck doesn't go up, but each year the government just raises taxes like it's an unlimited money pot.

    A number of years ago, the people out here voted down a gas tax referendum that was slated to fund badly needed transportation projects.  Why?  The whole reason we even had the referendum was the state government had robbed the transportation fund to pay for other pet projects.  The voters demanded that the new funds be restricted to only pay for transportation needs.  State government wouldn't guarantee it.  Voters voted it down.

    One of our local news outlets recently reported that certain public officials in our city are being investigated for embezzlement.  We also have a history of financial conduct that has sent former community leaders to prison and resulted in the city having to declare bankruptcy.  So no, I'm not really a fan of raising taxes here either because I have strong doubts about what actually happens with that money.

    I do also have issue with doctors being unable to tell you the cost of something.  I recognize that medical complications can happen and there is no crystal ball that can tell you the outcome for every patient.  However, there are averages and routine costs that could be disclosed.  A hospital that delivers thousands of babies per year should know the average cost of a delivery both vaginally and by c-section.  My doctor should also be able to tell me how much she bills me per hour or per visit to meet with her, but she can't.

    This isn't that different from a client calling me and asking how much it will cost in legal fees to sell their company.  Can I tell them for certain?  No.  There are any number of things that are unpredictable or could go wrong. But I can meet with them, ask some probing questions, review some documents, and then provide a estimate/range with certain assumptions (all of which, by the way, I do for free before they ever sign an engagement letter).  I can also tell them my billable rate and the billable rate of every other person in my firm.   
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