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Re: Up for debate?

  • I personally don't believe in getting flu shots and won't give my kids one either. My H's aunt just actually got?pleurisy as a side effect of the regular flu shot. I tend to avoid meds and injections as much as I can in general though.

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  • ditto angelfire.  I am not planning on getting a flu shot.
  • I got a regular flu shot this year for the first time in at least 10 years.  The only other one I ever got made me sick.  They were free and pushing them at work this year so I got one.  So far no problems and it was a month or so ago.  I will not get the H1N1 shot -- way too many unknowns with that one for me to risk it.  I've been told by my doctor that for most healthy people without underlying resperatory problems that getting H1N1 really isnt that bad and having it now could protect you from mutating strands in the future. 
  • Lol jessnjason, you really want to start something don't you?
  • Okay, I just read the link.  I'm sure for every argument against the flu shots, you could read an argument that's just as reasonable FOR the shot.  I'm surrounded by all kinds of research and live in a scientific house, so I choose to listen to the medical research and get the shots. I also work in a hospital, so who knows what kinds of germs are hanging out all over me.
  • For healthcare professionals I think it's a great idea to get a flu shot / H1N1 vaccine, but for me, you'd literally have to tackle me and put me in jail before I agreed to one.

     Like a PP said, there's way too many unknowns, and granted, I am sure I put a lot of bad stuff into my body already, I am all set with the vacine.

     An interresting article on Masschusetts. We are the only state that has a bill in our senate that will allow use of force to control the flu. It's absolutely ridiculous.

    http://www.infowars.com/swine-flu-martial-law-bill-clears-massachusetts-senate/

  • Very interesting Shag. Don't know what to think about that.

    Dandy-I didn't know you worked in a hospital. I might think differently if I was in a hospital all day. You just never know what skeevie things jump on you there!?

    I know people feel really strongly about this.

    So strange-my mom is a RN (though hasn't worked in 30 years), my best friend is a nurse practitioner (works in private practice), my aunt is a cardiologist and my uncle is a professor and doctor with 7 specialities (overachiever). All 4 of them advise against the flu shot.

  • IDK how I feel about that either, shag.  It could possibly make sense if like 60% of Massachusetts has H1N1, but that article doesn't really specify what a public health emergency is. 
  • Exactly the point, Dandy. I think only 28 ppl have died in this state from H1N1, and something like half of them had some underlying illness before getting the flu which made it worse.

    There's absolutely no reason for what Mass is doing. I really don't think its ever going to come down to that, but the fact that they could do something like that makes me hate living in this state more than I already do.

  • There is so much talk going on these days about the regular flu and H1N1.  I am with angel - I don't get the regular flu shot and do not plan on getting the H1N1.  I am also a health care provider for children birth-3, some of whom are quite medically fragile. 

    So this stirs quite the debate for me internally.  I personally am about being as natural as I can be.  I don't agree with many vaccines, though do agree some are necessary (measles, mumps, etc).  I have never gotten the flu shot and do not like to put unnecessary things inside my body.  I take many precautions - and even go above and beyond to keep myself clean and protect those that I work with (ie: my last family today has the flu going through their house and I immediately came home, changed, threw my clothes in the wash, and took a shower, just to name a few).  

    But I struggle every day with the fact that I work with kids that are unstable.  I feel guilty for not vaccinating myself, but I do not want to put that crap into my body, especially because I haven't had kids yet, and plan on doing so.

    So I guess that is my input - it is a struggle I face but I really am trying to stick with taking all precautions aside from getting vaccinated.  There are many reasons as to why I don't want to get vaccinated, but I don't feel like writing them all out!!!  Good topic Jess!!

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  • Most of my students and at least one of my grad classmates have confirmed diagnoses of H1N1. So, basically, I'm screwed :P

    I didn't read the link, but all science aside, I hate needles and avoid them at all costs.

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    I personally don't believe in getting flu shots and won't give my kids one either. My H's aunt just actually got pleurisy as a side effect of the regular flu shot. I tend to avoid meds and injections as much as I can in general though.

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    exactly this. i've never had a flu shot, and am not big on medicine....

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  • I am with the opinion that fmailies need to make informed decisions based on their own research and what is best for their family as a whole.  I think that too many people just take what the media says and they don't look at both the good and bad about H1N1 or seasonal flu.

    That being said, DH and I will not get either the seasonal or H1N1 vaccines, nor will our children.  We believe in being as natural as we can and have taken precautions (extra vitamins C and D, extra hand washing, etc.).  I work in an office where sick people are in and out all day so therefore like barbnsteve I tend to come home change clothes, take a shower, and wash clothes.  DH works for the borough we live in and is around all sort of disgusting stuff everyday and does the same thing as I do.  All three of the kids are in school so you know there are all sort of things flying around but I feel that the cons aren't worth the risk of vaccinating them. 

     

  • Shag- not sure what to think of that.  I think it is wrong and shows government using their power unjustly.
  • My own personal standpoint (as an elementary teacher) is that I take all the precautions I can to avoid getting sick - naturally.  I wash my hands multiple times a day, use hand sanitizer, take vitamins - and so far so good!  Last year I did not do this and I was out over 15 days due to illness.

    That being said, I went for a physical today and my doctor stressed that I get a flu shot & H1N1 shot - he STRONGLY recommended it.  I will not be getting it.  I am choosing not to.  I feel that I need to build up my immune system on my own, especially being a teacher.

    There are pros and cons to everything - different strokes for different folks, all that good stuff.  It's like the whole debate of vaccinations causing autism - there's strong evidence for it, and strong evidence against it.  You can find evidence and research to support any standpoint you want to take on ANY topic.  It's all in how you choose to react and respond.

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  • I think that in any case, it's always better to let things progress naturally - I don't like taking medication unless it's really necessary, and I don't see the point in a flu shot when I'm otherwise healthy. I'd rather get h1n1 now when I'm young and healthy and build immunity, so when it comes back around in 30 years and I'm old, it might not kill me then. I'm not a disbeliever in vaccines at all - of course I'm going to get my kids vaccinated for crap like polio - but I think a yearly flu shot is a lot of extra junk for someone that isn't high risk. I don't really find any difference between the h1n1 shot and the other seasonal shot, other than it's for two different strains. The vaccine with the weakened virus I would def. NOT do right now though.
  • I'm a lurker and rarely post, but I feel compelled to at least offer a reason for the other side. I work with bone marrow transplant patients on a daily basis and have had patients die of H1N1. I would be doing my patients a HUGE disservice by not getting vaccinated. I couldn't live with myself if one of my patient's died on my account. As many stringent precautions that we take, the system is far from perfect and I need to protect my patients. If that means getting vaccinated then I will, and I did (seasonal and H1N1).
  • I'm not getting flu shots of any kind because I never do, not because I'm some super crusader for naturalism.  I'm not afraid of needles at all, I get weekly allergy shots, I just never got flu shots growing up, and I never get them now.  I take care of my health but I am also, as my mom likes to say, from strong peasant stock and we just don't get sick (my mom says "strong like bull" in this awesome Russian accent).

    Now, if you want to start a fight, let's talk about vaccines.  I would like to address that there is no evidence linking them to autism.  I'm sorry, but it's just not true.  There was one study, once, but he was completely discredited by every agency and he, himself, basically "took it back."  Then they took out the chemical that people thought was "dirty" and causing autism in the early 2000s and the prevalence of autism did not go down.  If that chemical was causing it, why not?  Jenny McCarthy "cured" her son by feeding him natural foods.  Sorry, honey, if he's cured, it wasn't autism.

    If you don't want to give your kids tons of shots at once, fine, don't, spread it out over months and years.  If you don't want your kids getting vaccinated at all, at least please base that on real science and not bogus craap.  But my kids will be getting vaccinated.  No one needs scarlet fever and polio coming around again.

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    Now, if you want to start a fight, let's talk about vaccines.  I would like to address that there is no evidence linking them to autism.  I'm sorry, but it's just not true.  There was one study, once, but he was completely discredited by every agency and he, himself, basically "took it back."  Then they took out the chemical that people thought was "dirty" and causing autism in the early 2000s and the prevalence of autism did not go down.  If that chemical was causing it, why not?  Jenny McCarthy "cured" her son by feeding him natural foods.  Sorry, honey, if he's cured, it wasn't autism.


     

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  • My personal choice is that I have never had a flu shot and I am not about to start now...with either. I would rather build up immunity naturally and there are to many unknowns as a couple other people mentioned. 
  • While I get what people are saying about immunity, I have to ask if that makes sense re: the flu. Isn't it a new or mutated strain each year? How can you have an immunity to something new?
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  • ugh... I'm annoyed.
  • imageLarkNow:

    Now, if you want to start a fight, let's talk about vaccines.  I would like to address that there is no evidence linking them to autism.  I'm sorry, but it's just not true.  There was one study, once, but he was completely discredited by every agency and he, himself, basically "took it back."  Then they took out the chemical that people thought was "dirty" and causing autism in the early 2000s and the prevalence of autism did not go down.  If that chemical was causing it, why not?  Jenny McCarthy "cured" her son by feeding him natural foods.  Sorry, honey, if he's cured, it wasn't autism.

    If you don't want to give your kids tons of shots at once, fine, don't, spread it out over months and years.  If you don't want your kids getting vaccinated at all, at least please base that on real science and not bogus craap.  But my kids will be getting vaccinated.  No one needs scarlet fever and polio coming around again.

    Ditto... I absolutely agree... the vaccines that have been around for years have been tested millions of times and have been found to be safe.  I see no argument for not vaccinating your kids with these.  H1N1 only scares me because its so new and untested and like Kellybeth said, the flu mutates every year so you're only protected for this 1 year (I think its 6 months for the vaccine) so I really dont see the point.

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    imageLarkNow:

    Now, if you want to start a fight, let's talk about vaccines.  I would like to address that there is no evidence linking them to autism.  I'm sorry, but it's just not true.  There was one study, once, but he was completely discredited by every agency and he, himself, basically "took it back."  Then they took out the chemical that people thought was "dirty" and causing autism in the early 2000s and the prevalence of autism did not go down.  If that chemical was causing it, why not?  Jenny McCarthy "cured" her son by feeding him natural foods.  Sorry, honey, if he's cured, it wasn't autism.

    If you don't want to give your kids tons of shots at once, fine, don't, spread it out over months and years.  If you don't want your kids getting vaccinated at all, at least please base that on real science and not bogus craap.  But my kids will be getting vaccinated.  No one needs scarlet fever and polio coming around again.

    Ditto... I absolutely agree... the vaccines that have been around for years have been tested millions of times and have been found to be safe.  I see no argument for not vaccinating your kids with these.  H1N1 only scares me because its so new and untested and like Kellybeth said, the flu mutates every year so you're only protected for this 1 year (I think its 6 months for the vaccine) so I really dont see the point.

    See now this is where I have to jump in and ask if they are so "safe" then why are more and more kids getting diagnosed with autism, ADHD, allergies, and asthma?  There are all sorts of places to find the ingredients to the vaccines that  are given to kids.  Check out: http://www.informedchoice.info/cocktail.html  where you can see a list of what are put into vaccines. 

    Again I think that families need to make the choice that is best for their family but they should be informed choices that take in both sides.  For example, the chicken pox vaccine: who on here received that as a child?  I got the chickenpox not the vaccine.  The vaccine is estimated to give from five to ten years worth of temporary immunity and there is a fear among some researchers that mass vaccination will drive the disease out of the childhood population into the adult population where it is much more deadly.  Because of this I would rather my children get the chickenpox than the vaccine.

    Kellybeth is right about the flu vaccines.  Do you know if the strain that is from this year is what is in that shot?  No because most times when the vaccine is made they don't know what strain the flu is going to be for that year.

  • I thought KB was speaking towards the other side of the argument. As in, everyone keeps saying they don't get the flu shot b/c they want to build immunity, but what exactly are you building an immunity to if it changes every year?
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    See now this is where I have to jump in and ask if they are so "safe" then why are more and more kids getting diagnosed with autism, ADHD, allergies, and asthma?  There are all sorts of places to find the ingredients to the vaccines that  are given to kids.  Check out: http://www.informedchoice.info/cocktail.html  where you can see a list of what are put into vaccines. 

     

    How exactly does that list prove that an increase in autism, ADHD allergies, and asthma  is due to vaccinations?

  • Sorry my brain was working faster than my typing.  I meant to put in between the two sentences:  why are manufacturers putting more and more ingredients in vaccines?   The chemicals/heavy metals and the animal by prodects are what really bother me. 
  • I'm still not seeing where you're proving to me that these things cause adhd, asthma, etc?
  • JessnJason, you know that as years pass, technology develops, and overall knowledge about illnesses / disorders, and diseases increase, right? I am just about positive that 30 years ago there were just as many kids with autism, ADHD and whatever else kids have nowadays, except that 30 years ago they just diagnosed the kids as slow, or different because they didn't know what the shitt was wrong with them.

    You're comparing apples to oranges here. You can't honestly say that that 30 years ago they had the knowledge that they do now about disorders such as autism. If they had the ability to go back and examine all the kids they thought were 'different' 30 years ago (that were getting the same vaccines we get now (polio, measles, mumps, etc), I think this whole 'vaccines cause the prevalance of autism, bs' would be a completely different story.

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