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WWYD? NYE
A few months ago some friends and I bought tickets to go to a Jeff Dunham show for NYE. There were 2 couples (me, MH, my friend H and her FI) and two singles. one of the singles had bought an extra ticket and intended to bring her sister.
Single 1, we'll call her J, told me last week that she is bringing her exboyfriend. They apparently have reconciled (but she didn't tell any of us about said reconciliation). Her ex is a jerk, to say the least. I won't go into details but let's just say I'm not a fan of him. In fact, me, MH, H and her FI all have strong negative feelings towards him.
Me, H, MH and H's FI are all supposed to share a 2 bedroom suite and the singles (plus the exbf) are going to share a suite. H and I both are to the point where we really don't want to go because of the ex coming. Neither of us have told our men about the addition because H knows FI will not want to be near exbf and I know that MH won't want to either.
So, our options are: the four of us back out and go to Atlanta instead (bowl game) or the four of us go and spend as much time together, without the singles and exbf. WWYD?
Re: WWYD? NYE
Seeing as I'd already purchased the tickets, I'd go to the Jeff Dunham show and just try to hang out with H and her FI while semi-ignoring J, her excuse for a bf, and let the other single decide where he/she wants to hang out. Does that make sense?
Get outta my head, woman!
LOL
Truly, if I avoided EVERY person that sounds like this guy (really worthless to society), I'd never see my family for my Father being there. Sometimes you deal with the asshat in the crowd FOR the sake of seeing the crowd. LOL Besides, the other single person may be SO INCREDIBLY grateful to be able to have you and the other couple to retreat to. If you think it sucks hanging out with the douchebag, try sharing a suite with him!
.: Diary of a Recovering Runner :.
H and I have been texting back and forth saying the same things you guys are saying. I know she, her FI, MH and I will all have fun together. My biggest issue with the exbf is that he was not only mean to J, but he was a jerk to me too (which means MH is really pissed at him). I guess we'll just make due with what we have.
H and I both agreed to tell FI and MH about him coming tonight and see what their reactions are. Wish us luck!