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DH is on Hospice

We spent last week at the hospital because of pain and vomiting.  The cancer has entered his spinal fluid.  Nothing can be done but focus on comfort.  He is home now but he is just too much for me to handle so I am trying to either find a hospice home or maybe have him admitted to the paliative care unit at Strong.  He is very uncoodinated and disoriented.  What a shittyway to have your life end.  This is so unfreaking fair.

Obviously I won't be on much.  I will send MoxyMissy updates via Facebook and she is welcome to update here if she feels up to it.  If youre the praying type, please pray for Mike, myself and his family for the next few weeks.

 

 

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  • Riv,

    I sent you a message on facebook, we are here for you if you need anything...I'll keep you and Mike in my prayers. ((((Hugs))))))

     

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  • Words cannot express how truly sorry I am to hear this news. You and your husband are so brave and strong for going through such an experience.  I hope you both can focus on making happy, happy memories during such a difficult time.
  • Oh my gosh! I'm so so so sorry.  I really had no idea it had gotten that bad. I will be thinking of you and PLEASE let me know if there is ANYTHING I can do, or we nesties as a group we can do.

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  • You are both in my thoughts and prayers. (((Hugs)))
  • I'm so very, very sorry.
  • I will keep you and Mike in my thoughts. I am sorry to hear the news.
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  • oh no! I'm so, so sorry Riv. I have been regliously praying for you, Mike and your family. I'm in tears right now as i wish i could just give you a hug. Please let me know if you need anything at all.
  • Sorry seems like such an insignificant word, but I'm so, so sorry.  I will continue to keep all of you in my thoughts. 
  • Oh no... wow.  I am so so sorry.  I know saying that doesn't help, but if there is anything you need, please let us know - you will definitely be in my thoughts...
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  • I am so sorry Riv!  You, Mike and your family are in my thoughts. If there is anything I can do, please let me know. 

    (((HUGS)))

  • I will keep you, your husband and your families in my thoughts and prayers- and as everyone else said please let us know if we can do anything.

    I'm so sorry. 

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  • I'm so truly sorry.  You know we're all here if you need anything.  I'll be thinking of you and your family.
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  • Oh, I am so deeply sorry.  Like the others said, that sounds so insignificant at this point.  Please know that you and your husband will be in my thoughts and prayers.
  • Riv, I am praying for you and Mike and your families.
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  • I  am so sorry to hear this.  You and your family will definitely be in my T&P.  Please let me know if there is anything I can do.
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  • Oh my gosh.  I will certainly be keeping you both in my thoughts and prayers.  If there is anything you need, please do not hesitate to ask.
  •  I don't know what to say to make you feel better, but I am truly sorry to hear of your news with your husband.  All us Nesties will be thinking of you  and your husband during this time.   
  • Words can not express how sorry I am. I am praying for and thinking of you both.
  • I am so very very sorry.  Sorry just doesn't seem like enough.  I will definitely keep you, Mike and both of your families in my thoughts and prayers.  If there is anything I can do or that you need, please let me know.
  • You both and your families are in my thoughts and prayers.  If you need ANYTHING, please ask!  I hope you can find him a comfortable place where he can get the care he needs.
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  • Oh my gosh I am just so sorry. Please know that I am praying for you and your family very much.
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  • I don't think words can truly express how sorry I am that you and your family are going through this. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
  • I'm so sorry I don't quite have the right thing to say. I agree, it's just not fair. I'll keep you all in my prayers. I'm just so sorry.
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  • I'll be praying for you, your husband, and your families. I'm so sorry for what you are all going through.

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  • I am so so sorry and can't even imagine what you and your families must be going through.  I will keep you in my thoughts.
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  • i'm so sorry you are going through this. my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
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  • I'm so, so sorry for you. I couldn't imagine what you are going through right now. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
  • I'm so sorry to hear this.  You, Mike and your families will be in my thoughts.
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  • You will be in my thoughts and prayers daily.
  • I don't post on here too much and I haven't heard much about your whole ordeal, but I just wanted you to know you and your families will be in my thoughts and prayers. 
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