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How often do you have sex in a week?
I've been married 2 months yesterday and my hubby and I were dating for 7 yrs before but had never lived together.
8 months before the wedding he moved and we only saw each other about once every 4-6wks. We never had bedroom issues but now he seems totally uninterested, only lasts a few minutes and only wants it 1 a week. I have no idea what is going on. I thought newely wed time would be all spicy and sexy. Just want to know if this is normal or not?!?!
Re: New, with an inquiry...
Sounds like you have the same sex life you had before you were married. Why did you think a ring was going to change it?
Agree. People post about how isn't newly weds suppose to be having crazy sex all the time. But honestly in reality that doesn't happen all the time. If it didn't occur before it wouldn't now. I knew prewedding we were okay 3-4 times a month since we had stressful jobs, after wedding, same. Everything is the same so I never expected any variables to change.
I figured being in the same state again would take us back to how our sex life used to be. Instead it seems like the distance put him into a routie of just once a week a so and that's it.
Kristi and Kerry June 21,2008