November 2008 Weddings
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Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.
Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
Re: Heartbreak update
Girl - you are a STRONG woman. You CAN get through this. I promise.
Sending lots of vibes your way.
You know, after reading through your posts, I have a suggestion.
Back off. Just give him some time and space. Let him hang out with his friends, do his thing, whatever. Let them talk . . who cares?
Stand strong, take strength in your commitment to your husband. Give him the chance to come to his senses. Responding to his childish and selfish behavior with packing bags, demanding explanations, etc may not help the situation at all. Some people need the chance to see things for themselves.
However . . . just so you know . . . if you do this, you have to accept that he may not come to his senses. He may be a total tard and decide to act like a boob and break up. If so, your better off. Its going to be a tough week, but you have us to support you
I know this will be hard...... I just hope I can make it thru this. He is my whole world and I thought I was his...... But now im thinking otherwise.
I have not even tried to text or call him since like Friday. He is the one who text me and said that I needed to strighten up bc he has ppl calling him in Virginia who are worried about me.... Then my late night call saturday night that said he was still going thru with his plans when he gets back.....
I did eat a few bites yesterday and started drinking a bit more.... I know as the weekend approaches it will get worse.... Please keep me in your prayers~Love Vanna
To make things worse my chest has starting to hurt....
I haven't been on in a few days and boy did I miss a bunch!
I am VERY sorry you are going through this. I honestly don't know how I would deal with it...on the one hand I would say screw him...what an ass for acting like that and I wouldn't want to be married to a person like that. On the other hand I would think I love him for a reason...we got married for a reason. Thenn I would think what makes him think like this? He needs time to get his head straight and hopefully when he comes back he will explain himself and you can maybe talk to him and see if you can go to counseling together.
If he doesn't want that option...SCREW HIM! You are a strong woman... how I know that is because it is a requirement to be a Novembie! It's in the handbook we all got when we signed on to the Knot and it transfers over to the nth degree when we are on the nest!!
Keep us posted and know that we are here for you!! BIG HUGS TO YOU!!!