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ok im getting an iud on feb 1. i keep hearing that is painful to get it in. is that true and what is the pain like??
Re: iud insertion??
took three tries to get mine in. I just had it put in a couple of weeks ago.
Uncomfortable, but nothing like giving birth. Granted, I did take a xanex before!
Kristi and Kerry June 21,2008
Yes, it was uncomfortable but it wasn't unbearable! I would consider the pain to be as bad as a hard contraction during labor, breathe thru it and then it is over. I took some tylenol and walked out of the office just fine. Cramped for the rest of the day but then nothing.
And I agree, the more worked up about it you get the more it is going to hurt. So relax and you'll be out of there before you know it.
I had my copper iud put in in November. The insurtion was a short seiries of stabbing pains but I was up and out in 10mins. I did take two Advil before hand. I drove home(1hr) myself.
That evening I had the worst cramps of my life for about three hours but then I slept fine and was pretty much back to normal the next day. I love it. You don't have to worry about a thing and you don't even know it's there.
My word or advice is only take Advil or Motrin because they are smooth muscle relaxers and your uterus is a smooth muscle. Advil honestly did wonders.
Good Luck!
I haven't had kids. I got the copper IUD.
One sharp pain as they inserted it, then period-type cramps until the Xanex wore off. I had a local anesthetic, which helped with the immediate pain. Once the pain relievers wore off, I was on high dosage ibuprofin every 4 hours for the next WEEK, and having cramps that were far worse than anything I had felt before. Constantly.
However, after that week was over, it was *almost* normal, except that my first period was a bit heavier/cramp-ier than usual. Since then (it has been 5 cycles,) things have gotten progressively easier, although my period is still heavier than usual.
And DESPITE all of this, it was SO TOTALLY WORTH IT for us. Not having to worry about pills/sponges/condoms/rings/spermicide...and being off of hormones has done wonders for my sex drive. I have also lost weight and stopped retaining water. All in all, I'm happier and feel sexier. What's the point of being on birth control if you never want sex?