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Re: Kinky Sex....?
Snailbutt:
About bringing someone else into the bedroom? Well, first I just want to let you know I am not here to argue or flaunt beliefs or whatever-the only reason I made a comment to aurora was because she is trying to make everyone feel like a big bad sinner for wanting hot sex with their husbands. Again, Im not trying to point any fingers at all-you asked me personally what I think so heres my response: I don't condemn anyone for what they chose to do-the most important thing is that you and your DH are in agreement. I think that sex unites people-when you have sex you literally share a part of that person, and share yourself with them. I would not want to do that with anyone but my husband. I wouldn't want another woman to "unite" with him-I like that that is something special that no one else can share with him. Now, I definately don't think it is wrong to deprive your spouse either-actually the bible actually says not to deprive eachother from sex when married. I'm all about spicing things up-being creative with positions, toys, places you have sex, lingerie, etc. But my personal preference/choice/belief I would not bring another man/woman into the picture, and for us (again, personally) we dont feel right about bringing in porn or another person. Why look at other naked people when you have the best thing right in front of you-your own naked spouse! I dont think it is wrong to read books or whatever to find new sex tips/tricks/ positions, but I dont want images of any naked man but my husband Just like Im jealous for him he is jealous for me- and that's not a bad thing. "My beloved is mine, and I am my beloved's" neither one of us wants to share one another ;-)
Maybe my sarcasm didn't come out when I first posted it, so I'll try again:
::sigh:: I love newbies...they are so innocent and gullible!Yes they are. They help make the world go round.
SnailButt and Aurora... You two are just too much.
::dies laughing::
What she said! God Bless!
Is it hidden within all of our sarcasm?
HALLELUJAH!!!!!!!!!!!!
I am so glad that you and the other newbies that I have read my post were here to point out the error in my frigid ways! Thank you so much for all your help. I am going to go and repent. And take all of your kinky sex suggestions tonight! Looks like I will be calling in sick tomorrow. Will be too sore to move!
::::::::NEWSFLASH, it is called sarcasm, look it up and learn something today!::::::::::::::::::
I'm astounded this post is still going on.....
Aurora we are awesome!!! xoxoxox
um yeah...i thought it was mud but didnt read all the way to the second page you guys are something else..
Ok-I don't know who in their right minds would enjoy watching their husband with another woman. That is DEFINITLY not the solution.
::Pats Saman on the head:: "You're so cute and gullible when you're a newbie!
Saman, Do yourself a huge favor next time, read the whole post before you open that little mouth of your's. If you read the whole post, you will see that the "holy war" was laced with sarcasm. Now, run along and play!
Snail, they are really cute when they are newbies. Wonder if they feel sorry for our husbands yet?