Poll: The first time...

FutureMrs.McC · February 2010

I'm bored. Got this poll from another board and hope it's not TMI.

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FutureMrs.McC · February 2010

I choose other because DH and I had a standing booty call Saturday at 2am for a year before we started dating.

I don't feel like I need to justify it but we did date two times previously and had known each other for four years. Then one night we ran into each other at a diner and I ended up going home with him. We're proof that sometimes he will buy the cow, lol.

nataliejp519 · February 2010

First time with DH was after we'd been dating for almost 4 months. He was my first and only! Stick out tongue

ashr16 · February 2010

< a month. I sound like a whore.

electracity · February 2010

I think it was about 2 months after we started dating......I kept withholding saying he had to fall in love with me first. Stick out tongue

sarlah · February 2010

nataliejp519:
First time with DH was after we'd been dating for almost 4 months. He was my first and only!

Wow, this could me my answer, except for me it was like 2 months, haha. I guess when I knew, I knew.

natalee215 · February 2010

I'd be shocked if anyone on here selects "waited until marriage."

suzannepdc · February 2010

FutureMrs.McC:

I choose other because DH and I had a standing booty call Saturday at 2am for a year before we started dating.

I don't feel like I need to justify it but we did date two times previously and had known each other for four years. Then one night we ran into each other at a diner and I ended up going home with him. We're proof that sometimes he will buy the cow, lol.

I like you more and more the more I learn about you.

Um, I would be the urban dating myth of the one night stand that turned into a relationship....

LadyBird9 · February 2010

Ummmm..... under a month.

I waited until we were "exclusive" to give it up. Once the relationship went FBO (facebook official... thats what the kids are calling it these days) I was easy... LOL!!!!!!!

siba1119 · February 2010

I made Aaron wait until he told me he loved me. I'd given it up to easy in the past and was worried that was why my other relationships didn't last (stupid I know). I think it took about 2 months-ish.

mc12809 · February 2010

I have to say that the previous relationships I had prior to DH "moved along" a little faster. . . . . Embarrassed

But I chose 1-6 months because I waited a little longer cause something felt different about it and I didn't want to rush.

natalie115 · February 2010

We were 16 and 17 and we'd been dating about a month and a half, thank goodness we ended up staying together other wise I might have felt a little slutty...lol. Looking back, that wasn't the best choice, but I don't regret it b/c everything worked out in the end and I can say that he is/was my first and only.

ETA: I just noticed that you put "I hope it's not TMI" in the poll and I have to say that I think there is very little that is TMI on this board Stick out tongue

Wendells · February 2010

suzannepdc:

Um, I would be the urban dating myth of the one night stand that turned into a relationship....

ha! this!

lauralizabee · February 2010

natalee215:
I'd be shocked if anyone on here selects "waited until marriage."

That was me....w/ DH we waited. I'm the only person DH has been with, and he was totally fine that the same wasn't true for me. I'm not one to say that "waiting was worth it" since I'd done it before, but I'm glad that I respected DH's wishes to wait.

kingpepsisgirl · February 2010

I voted other because I made DH wait with his tail between his legs for a little over a year. I had to make sure and I wasn't going to rush it being in HS and all. He was my first and only.

natalee215 · February 2010

lauralizabee:

natalee215:
I'd be shocked if anyone on here selects "waited until marriage."

That was me....w/ DH we waited. I'm the only person DH has been with, and he was totally fine that the same wasn't true for me. I'm not one to say that "waiting was worth it" since I'd done it before, but I'm glad that I respected DH's wishes to wait.

Go Laura! You're my new hero!

kingpepsisgirl · February 2010

ashr16:
< a month. I sound like a whore.

But, you're OUR whore...so that makes it ok. Stick out tongue

FutureMrs.McC · February 2010

ashr16:
< a month. I sound like a whore.

Since we weren't even dating, I think I'm a bigger whore. I'm ok with that.

sarlah · February 2010

I don't when, who with, or how many times you have sex has anything to do with whore-ness. I think it has to do with why you have sex and how you let the guy(s) treat you, & treat yourself. IMHO.

modom3278 · February 2010

I put first date, BUT - DH and I had been friends for several years before that date.

MissMex · February 2010

LadyBird9:

Ummmm..... under a month.

I waited until we were "exclusive" to give it up. Once the relationship went FBO (facebook official... thats what the kids are calling it these days) I was easy... LOL!!!!!!!

hehe! I love you Sara!!!!!!

And Ashley, I guess I have to whore it up with you too. It was like 3 and 1/2 weeks exactly. I made DH proomise not to fall in love w/ me and refused to be his girlfriend. and then I ended up falling in love with him, oops :)hehe.

ashr16 · February 2010

[And Ashley, I guess I have to whore it up with you too. It was like 3 and 1/2 weeks exactly. I made DH proomise not to fall in love w/ me and refused to be his girlfriend. and then I ended up falling in love with him, oops :)hehe.]

Don't you love how life works itself out. That is a cute story.

FutureMrs.McC- I like your story too.

BTW: I was not referring to anyone else as a whore. I was just laughing at myself. Smile

Mrs.S_0909 · February 2010

ashr16:
< a month. I sound like a whore.

Me too. Embarrassed I will say that DH had much stronger willpower to take things slow than I did when we first started dating.

captainleela · February 2010

I chose "other" because we'd been dating for about 8 months. He's my first and only. Poor FI...I was not his first and the poor guy had to wait almost a year for me

niuchick21 · February 2010

I made DH wait about 4 months I believe. Well I made him wait two months, and then he made me wait an additional 2 months after I was ready lol. Stupid games

SgtEriksWife · February 2010

Erik and I didn't go out with each other until about 7 months after we "met" -- but we emailed daily and spoke daily... the anticipation and build-up were borderline erotic. So we planned our "first real date" for a Wednesday... and knew damn well what was going to happen... so I firmly stated that he was NOT going to get a piece of ass on our first date....

The solution.....

He picked me up on Monday for lunch - so that then became our real "first date" -- then we went out to breakfast for our 2nd date... So by the time Wednesday afternoon rolled around, we hit our 3-date rule. hahahah.

sarlah · February 2010

SgtEriksWife:
Erik and I didn't go out with each other until about 7 months after we "met" -- but we emailed daily and spoke daily... the anticipation and build-up were borderline erotic. So we planned our "first real date" for a Wednesday... and knew damn well what was going to happen... so I firmly stated that he was NOT going to get a piece of ass on our first date....
The solution.....
He picked me up on Monday for lunch - so that then became our real "first date" -- then we went out to breakfast for our 2nd date... So by the time Wednesday afternoon rolled around, we hit our 3-date rule. hahahah.

Ahh! I love it!

lauralizabee · February 2010

SgtEriksWife:
Erik and I didn't go out with each other until about 7 months after we "met" -- but we emailed daily and spoke daily... the anticipation and build-up were borderline erotic. So we planned our "first real date" for a Wednesday... and knew damn well what was going to happen... so I firmly stated that he was NOT going to get a piece of ass on our first date....
The solution.....
He picked me up on Monday for lunch - so that then became our real "first date" -- then we went out to breakfast for our 2nd date... So by the time Wednesday afternoon rolled around, we hit our 3-date rule. hahahah.

Yes YES! Hehe

kingpepsisgirl · February 2010

modom3278:
I put first date, BUT - DH and I had been friends for several years before that date.

Surprise MERRIE! You slutbag! hahaha

Ok so it seems no one is a whore...and I'm a prude. That's ok...I can take it.

ashr16 · February 2010

SgtEriksWife:

Erik and I didn't go out with each other until about 7 months after we "met" -- but we emailed daily and spoke daily... the anticipation and build-up were borderline erotic. So we planned our "first real date" for a Wednesday... and knew damn well what was going to happen... so I firmly stated that he was NOT going to get a piece of ass on our first date....

The solution.....

He picked me up on Monday for lunch - so that then became our real "first date" -- then we went out to breakfast for our 2nd date... So by the time Wednesday afternoon rolled around, we hit our 3-date rule. hahahah.

BEST STORY YET! Love it.

Mrs.G_09 · February 2010

As not to appear like a whore, I waited until our 2nd date.

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