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Re: No sex

  • Very Good advice, the best on here!
  • Good. I'm glad she is getting better, the ssri's may really be a bg part to her decreaced libido. With the counseling try prayer, it works. It has helpen both my H and I in every area of our Marriage. We both have been having more better enjoyable sex, and Life with God being at the top of our Lives! Good Luck I will pray for you and your wife!
  • There may be another core issue behind her not wanting to want sex. Is there any possibility that she was sexually abused as a child? She may not even remember the events. Sex may trigger those terrible feelings she once felt, yet she may not know why she feels them. The mind is a master at hiding things that have hurt us, to protect us.

     Ask her how she feels during sex. If she says anything close to disgusted, scared, etc. this may be your answer. In that case, you both will need therapy to work through this issue. 

    Keep faith...communication is KEY! 

     

  • Read "The Sex Starved Marriage".. I am reading "The Sex Starved Wife".. It may help.. good luck.
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