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I know I find this horrifying

Ready to rumble.
Re: I know I find this horrifying
what?!?! I didn't finish reading, did she do anything about it other than have her husband say "thtop it!"
If no, than she's allowing it to continue...
I wouldn't ever leave the kid with the ILs, even if FIL was there. I wouldn't stop worrying the whole time.
That is crazy. I wouldn't feel comfortable leaving the kid alone with grandma.
Gah!
My best friend is a social worker, and she once had a client who told her she fellated her grandson in order to soothe him when he was an infant. Told my friend it was a common practice in the old country.
That's disgusting. That woman would never set eyes on my child again.
The nerve!
House | Blog
No no no no no.
Kay. KayKayKayKayKay....
some things are best left unsaid.
Some things can never be forgotten and that effing doozie will haunt me till I'm 94.
I really wanted to play it off like I thought this was no big deal to freak you guys out, but I got nauseous just trying to come up with what to say about it. That is flat out disgusting. I'm not sure I would be maintaining any sort of relationship with my MIL if I had to constantly worry about her lack of boundaries and common sense.
"That chick wins at Penises, for sure." -- Fenton
She called a hotline and was told that it's molestation only if g-ma is doing it for her own sexual gratification. Technically true I suppose but I do wonder if she would have gotten the same response if it was a g-pa kissing a girl baby's privates.
And Kay. OMG.
Wha? That is beyond insane.
Later she says some stuff that makes it pretty clear this isn't just innocent boundary issues.
He did say once that he thinks he was abused and when he gets drunk he says all sorts of wild stuff like "you should be able to trust your mom" and "what do penises have to do with Christmas. There should be no penises at Christmas" WTF?!? But, when I press for more info he clams up.
The nerve!
House | Blog
see this seems wrong. a kid would not know the difference, one. two, how do you know for sure that isn't part of it. and three, plenty of people rape and molest for power, not sexual gratification. the act, not the motivation, shoud be the issue
now i jugde him
"That chick wins at Penises, for sure." -- Fenton
this is making me feel so icky inside.
No penis on Christmas?
Yea, something is wrong with the H.
The fact that her apology included "when I show my boys affection" makes me wonder what other inappropriate ways she shows affection.
If my H was saying crap like hers when he got drunk, I'd be driving him to a therapist the next day.
I have no words.
Claire Elizabeth 12/31/2011
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"That chick wins at Penises, for sure." -- Fenton
I agree 100%