June 2010 Weddings
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Thank you question
Not totally sure what to do here.
I had a bunch of people come to the wedding & reception that didnt give us a gift or a card, some of them didnt even sign the guestbook.
How do I handle the thank you. I've gotten mixed reviews on it. I think I should send them to everyone who came, if of course I can find them in a picture or the guestbook. J & his Mom think we are only obligated to send thank yous to people who gave us a gift or a card because the reception was the thank you for coming to the wedding.
Need your opinions ladies!
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Re: Thank you question
If I have something from them Im sending one, so even if it was just a card Im sending it. A few people brought nothing but wrote us a note in our guestbook, I feel like I should send them one too.
I guess my issue is that we're sending a picture with the card, so I feel like if they came they should be thanked & given a picture. Im torn.
I am sending cards to everyone.
How do you know that they didn't give a gift and it didn't get misplaced or lost in the flurry of activity on the wedding day? Or they sent a check and you never received it?
If you send a card saying "Thank you so much for attending our wedding.. etc. etc." and don't mention a gift, they'll call you and say "Did you receive the X that we sent. And if you say "no" then you've discovered an issue. If they sent something and it got lost/misplaced and you didn't send a thank you b/c you thought they didn't get you a gift, they'll just think you're rude... they won't know you never received it.
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I sent a thank you to everyone who came. I think it's your decision though. Either way I don't think someone would think less of you because they didn't get a thank you card when they didn't give you a gift/card/or sign the guest book. Here are a couple quotes I found online if you need some.
Your presence at the wedding, made it that much more of a special occasion.
Your friendship, love and well wishes will be remembered always.
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