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One of my brother's nurses that comes twice a month called and asked if it was OK if she came over ina few minutes. I told her it was fine but asked if she could be quiet when she gets here because the baby is sleeping. My brother's home health care worker told me I was a jackass for saying that. I didn't mean it in a mean way and didn't even think twice about saying it but now I feel kind of bad.
Do you think it was mean for me to say that?

NATALIE - 9/13/09 HANNAH - 6/8/12
Re: Was this mean of me?
I'm having trouble understanding how that could possibly be mean?!?
Unless you took a snotty tone or something (which I'm assuming you didn't), then I don't see any problem with asking her to be quiet for the baby!
I think the HHC worker is the jackass for calling you a jackass!!