ERR....I wish people would stay out of the business between J and I. I LOVE how I got on FB this am to receive a few messages from his friends and family saying how bad I treated him and how he's so much better off without me and that I'm such a horrible person because I cheated on him. Seriously I didn't cheat, going out to lunch with a friend of the opposite sex is NOT cheating. J knew about the lunch and its not like I hung out with this friend all the time. It was someone I re-connected with via fb and we use to be best friends. The guy is married too, I could NEVER cheat. People need to stop judging me. I didn't treat J horriblely, he was never home and when he was, he played the Wii all night. I understand that right now we are both better off, even though some days I think I'm not and I think that he made a horrible mistake moving out. I don't like being attacked. I choose not to respond to these cause it will only make matters worse. People are playing these childish games and I guess what J doesn't seem to understand is that every text message and fb message I get from ppl, I print off to show what these people are doing to me. I'm not out there fb messaging his family and friends saying how horrible he treated me and how he never supported anything I did. The past is the past, you can't change it, you can only learn from your mistakes and move on and that is exactly what I am trying to do. Sorry I needed a small vent. This is why I only usually check fb status' from my blackberry, to much drama. I just need to get to work and have the kids make my day better.
Re: Seriously some people (vent)
People are stoooooooopid!
That's pretty low to attack you. We had some friends and their relationship went south and I hate what she put him through. I saw her at a walleye game this year (this happened two years ago) and I was still MAJOR PO'd at her but he has moved on and it's not my place to reem her out because I only know his side of story.
The he is the primary person you should be blocking. As nasty as this is apparently getting, there is no reason he should have any access at all to your page or be able to search you.