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Have you/would you leave your dog overnight alone?
Re: Have you/would you leave your dog overnight alone?
I dont know specifically why but I am not a fan of this at all...
The only way that I would personally even consider it is if the dogs are not crated in the house.
But even then, i'm not a fan....
Oh, I didn't even think of that part. Our dogs are NOT crated. Never have been.
If they were, I wouldn't even be comfortable leaving them 8 hours a day while we're at work. We'd have to have someone come over and let them stretch out.
Our dogs are spoiled rotten and have the run of the house.
I've never done it, but I guess we could. He's home alone 10 hrs during the day usually and is fine. We'd def need someone to let him out to pee at 10 pm and a long walk or a short run (plus potty business) at 7 am. He'd LOVE having the bed to himself.
ETA: we've stopped crating him unless there's storms (or he hasn't had enough exercise, b/c then he's destructive) and he's fine. But we have always boarded him for overnights, and I think we'll continue to do so...i don't see us finding a dog walker/player soon.
We do it on the occasions that I'm out of town and DH works. DH leaves for work at 6pm after feeding the dog. Then, a friend comes over to let him out around 10-11pm right before bed. DH feeds the dog again when he gets home at 7:30am.
We don't like doing it (we're overprotective dog parents) but, quite frankly, the dog doesn't seem to mind. Our friend says that when he comes over the dog is usually asleep in one of his "spots" (on our bed or in DH's dirty laundry.)
This.
Well, they are alone 8-10 hours during the day some days, and then we are generally home in the evenings and sleep there. So the dogs are alone for one long stretch, but then NOT alone the rest of the time.
I'm thinking if someone comes over for 15 minutes a few times a day, it isn't the same as having time with people for 16 hours a day like usual. Even when we are sleeping, they are near us and know we are there.
I'm just not sure 48-72 hours of being almost totally alone is comparable to being gone all day at work. Their basic needs would be met, but they also are used to getting attention a lot of the rest of the time.
So dog lovers, some pets are happy at home for a while but when it becomes days, be sure your dog is not crying or barking while you re away. The barking disturbs everyone. And makes us so sad to hear..like listening to a baby cry wanting to be picked up...