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I'll start the where were you on 9/11 and tribute to those lost post
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wow...this brought tears to my eyes. im so sorry for your losses
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I cannot even fathom what you went through. I'm so sorry for your losses.
Wow. I've never "known" anyone so close to the action. I am so so sorry for your losses. You're in my thoughts and prayers today! ((hugs))
I was in my ex-boyfriends dorm room when we flipped the tv on. I tried to get in touch with my mom, but couldn't. Finally, I was able to get through. I'll NEVER forget!
hugs to you, manhattanbride.
i was in my office in Midtown, getting ready to go to a client in Westchester...the car picked up my coworker and i at 9am and as soon as we got in her phone rang and it was her mom, telling us what she was watching on tv...we looked up and over toward downtown and there was the smoke, etc.
the car continued up to Westchester and we listened on the radio to what was happening...got to the client and obviously all decided the meeting wouldn't be conducted...got back in the car to go back to the city (my coworker lived there, and we thought we'd be able to get her back in) but got stuck in the Bronx.
saw one of the towers collapse. went back up to W. where she got picked up by her mom, then he drove me to my parents' house in Paramus, and my good friend who works near there picked me up and we drove back to Hoboken together...barely making it there as the police were closing all the roads behind us. got to my apartment around 1:30...i was one of the lucky ones who wasn't stuck in the city all day.
my friends and i went to the bus/train terminal in the early evening and volunteered our time helping people who were finally getting across the river and routing them to their buses and trains, giving them water, etc. we felt it was the least we could do. plus, i lived directly across from the hospital and didn't want to be anywhere near there, since they were bringing people there who needed treatment (which ultimately ended up not happening). i slept at a friend's house a few blocks away....again, didn't want to be alone in my apartment.
spent the next several weeks/months walking my neighborhood and seeing tons of smoke, praying harder than i ever had each morning that i went through the tunnel (or whichever way crossing the river didn't take 2+ hours that particular day), going to wakes, etc.
i remember EVERY detail of the day...down to each exact item of clothing i wore. i could recall every minute if i needed to. i will never forget.
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manhattanbride - your story hurts my heart... I'm so sorry you went through that and lost so many. The man i was dating who survived from tower 1 lost many friends/coworkers, too - he suffered a lot of survivor guilt. I haven't talked to him in many years - but will never go through this day without thinking of him and hoping he is OK - because I know for years after he suffered from his experience, as I'm sure you have. Hearing you are doing better this year makes me happy- for you- and hoping that Mike is also feeling better about it now.
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Yeah I can relate with the survivors guilt for sure. I kept thinking to my self, how did I get down 97 flights in an elevator and be ok, I was probably on the 30th floor when it happened. I was also thinking about how and why did people on the 3rd floor not make it out. I call Ben's family every year and chat with his parents, they stopped coming to NY a couple years ago. I did not just know people from my office, I knew the workers at J crew and Starbucks in the mall below, I knew the chef and the wait staff at Windows on the World and The window washer who always brought me stale wheat thins thinking I liked them and saying I looked like an angel when I wore my white shirt. And would always tell me the places in Italy I should go when I get to travel. ( I still have that list from him in a frame) I was going to be an attorney. After that day I changed ALOT I no longer cared about billing hours or the need for power, I had the need to help. School made me go to counseling when i got back to school because my roommate told them about my nightmares and such at night. I was allowed to stay at school, but they only let me take chorus, one psychology class and community service as they thought it would help. I changed my major to psychology and international relations. Got my masters in Social Work and Phd in Autism Education... and working in special ed since... Bad things happen, but good does come out of horror.
OMG, your story is incredible. I am so sorry and wanted to say how brave you and your brother were.
I was still at home getting for a late college class. My mother called and told me what was going on , I put the news on and watched the second plane hit.
My husband (boyfriend at the time) was at Steven's and watched the whole thing from across the river.
I have read every post in this thread and its just so sad. I will never forget.
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WOW. I just read your post 10 times over, just to take in your story. I'm glad to hear you're ok today, but I am so sorry for your losses. It was so brave of you and your brother to help out others on that horrific day, when you were in so much pain yourself. I pray for your continual healing and blessings over your 3 precious bundles ion the way. ((HUGS))
i was student teaching in White Plains Ny, which is a big commuter area. 8 of the 20 kids lost a mother, father and one child lost both.
MH (then BF) wa ssuppose to have a mtg in the the city that day but was running late and never got there instead he sat by the river in NB and watched the 2nd plane hit. the follwoung day we learned of one of his friends who passed. he was a port authority cop who was transferred to NYC from Newark that MOnday. he went back in to try to save his partner, however, he never came out. RIP Chris and all those who were lost that day!
omg, i am so sorry for your loss!
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I was working in Weehawken. Saw the second plane hit from the window of my building. I felt as sad watching tv today as I did 9 years ago. It's amazing these feelings will always stay with me. A good friend of ours lost her husband. She is still not doing well and will never be the same.
I was out of work and making $ workin at the cafe at the gym my sister worked at. We went in that morning together and listened to it happen on the radio. z100 announced that a plane had flown into tower 1 and we both siad, at the same time, that's not right and just knew something was wrong. By the time we got to the gym and walked in tower 2 was hit. Shortly after we heard from our father who was in DC at the time, safe, stranded in the airport. J lived in East Rutherford at the time and saw it all happen before he got to work and then had to sit there for the entire day unable to find anything out cause his bosses wouldn't let them listen/watch anything.
I just got home actually from the shore and drove by the lights. I don't think I'll ever not cry when I see them. It's just......
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I was a college freshman at Fairfield U in CT. I had an Italian class that morning I had just enough time normally before class to watch host chat of regis and kelly and they were interrupted and i saw that a plane had hit the first tower. Thinking it was just a propeller plane or something small I shut off the TV and headed to class. I mentioned it in class when I walked in but the class and the prof had no idea what I was talking about. We sat through the 45 min class (which was being audited by a random woman that day) and when we walked out people were saying another plane had hit and that classes were canceled for the day. I went back to my dorm room and had TONS of IM's from friends back home and from other countries checking in to make sure all friends/parents were accounted for. We lost our neighbor from down the block who I had known a bit, but whose daughter I was close to in high school. I didn't know too many others who were lost personally. However that woman who was auditing my Italian class that day lost her daughter. She was on one of the planes that crashed. Such a sad day and one that will never be forgotten.
Edit: manhattanbride212 wow....the story you wrote I read a few times. I'm so sorry for your loss but also awestruck by the courage you and your brother had to help so many others when you were hurting so badly. Welcome to the board and a happy and healthy 9months for you and those babies!
That entire day is crystal clear to me....I had just gotten to work (I was working in a Nursery School in Chester) and I was getting my things together for the day in the classroom...the kids were shuffling in and a girl I worked with came into my room and quietly said, "Is Joe in the city today b/c the world trade center was hit by a plane" (he is in NYC a lot) and I wasn't really sure, I called him immediatly and he wasn't. We had a lot of parents who worked in the city (including a few NYC firemen)...so we decided to close early..not realizing how impossible it would be to get in touch with everyone. We filed all the kids into our largest room with movies and games while I (and 2 other teachers) sat outside with cell phones and had to call about 200 families.....I kept redialing, b/c the phones weren't working (and only got thru to abt 10 families in like 2 hours). I was outside so even the weather is so clear in my mind. Once most of the kids left (around noon) I drove to Joe's house and we sat there for 24 hours just watching the news (I didn't go to work the next day). 2 of my uncles who are Newark firemen decided to go and volunteer.. i remember being so scared for them. It's a day I will really never forget.
Sending tons of prayers to my friend Christina who lost her fiance that day. RIP Bryan.
I remember this so clearly. I was living in Edison and in my "2nd" senior year of college and woke up around 10. I signed onto AIM and immediately one of my friends asked if I was okay and if any of my family was in the city. I said no and asked why. She told me about what happened and I swear I typed, "Oh come on. That didn't happen. What is this, the new Terminator movie set? That couldn't have happened." I even laughed at it to my boyfriend that slept over.
I signed onto Yahoo and sure enough, there it was all over the page. I turned on the TV and remained glued to it for hours. I remember being so emotionally raw and frayed.
My douchebag boyfriend was incapable of understanding. When I didn't want to have sex, he left the house and told me to call him "when I stopped acting like such a b!tch." Needless to say, I'd gladly give his life for any of the 3,000 killed that day.
This is exactly how I feel and I'm so sorry for all of your losses! I can't imagine. I too have read your post a bunch of times. I'm glad you are feeling better this year also! Your 3 little miracles are lucky to have such a strong mom!!
I keep turning on and turning off all of the different things on about it this weekend. My thoughts and prayers are with those that were lost and those that lost someone.