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Re: Christmas Party Disaster
I admit we had been drinking. I don't drink often so it really doesn't take much. None of you know me personally...we are all behind computers...so in reality (the real world) none of the negative comments matter. If I sounded self-absorbed ~ forgive me...because I'm really not like that. And I guess I shouldn't let the little rumor bother me either...because as long as DH and I know what happened and we communicated that with our cousins..so that is all that matters...
And for the post about DH & I going to counseling...Yes We do go to counseling...my point...we have ups and downs just like any other married couple...I don't go around acting as if I'm better than anyone...I just feel that the person who spreaded the rumor was messy and had to much time on her hands...period!
So I hope you all had your laughs for the day...with some of the post I sure had mine :-)
I try to stay drama free...
I really don't see a problem with my husband coming into the restroom with me, it's not like he is a stranger.
this comment doesnt surprise me at all...and when during the 3 pages of posts did you add the "oh, i was dizzy"BS? Nice try but aded way too late to be true.
i think you love the drama, do things to attract drama, and then try and play the whole i dont understand the drama act. the length of this whole post and your excess # of responses says it all.
Um...you conveniently forgot to answer the second and most important question. What is it you have learned from the experience? The general feeling here is not a damn thing. You've done nothing but lie and downplay your actions from the beginning. You were merely "showing affection" while dancing. Sure. You were simply "dizzy". Okay. You got all the other guests dancing because your love for fun inspired them SO much. Absolutely. You had no idea people would find it weird that you played a spirited game of "find the yule log" in the bathroom. Riiight. You were the one to deliver the words of strength to mend your cousin's marriage. You betcha.
Barf.
hahahahaa people talk about you because it's damn weird to take your DH to the bathroom with you (unless you're planning on having sex in there). adults can generally take care of potty business alone.
you also sound like a bit of a hypocrite-you say you wonder why people say things with no proof-but then turn around and say that the people who weren't dancing aren't happy in their relationships.
It's 100% obvious what was happening in the bathroom.
He was cupping her pee.
Don't worry, it wasn't sexual.
"Find the Yule Log!" Hilarious!
Jim & Kristen ~ August 19, 2006