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It is a real shame..

It is a real shame when grown women act like bullies and immature high school idiots.  I just had my eyes opened real wide over the last day.  All I can say is I feel sorry for the men that are spending their life with them.  If they are as catty and backstabbing to people around them as I have seen them to be, imagine the mental damage they can do at home. Wow. 
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  • That suxs, i'm sorry you had to deal with the BS
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  • I 100% agree with you!  I hate when women act like this is all a competition.  
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  • Oh, how I agree with you 100%.  Especially when they're your "friends".  We're all not perfect, and we all make mistakes.  To belittle those who make mistakes and who aren't as perfect as they are is just totally wrong.
  • I'm sorry you're dealing with this.  Some women thrive on drama and making others feel like crap.  HUGS!
  • I feel like I'm missing something completely but I can't agree more with what you said.  People are such idiots and I realize it more and more everyday, especially when I login to FB.  =)

     Hope things get better!

  • i have no idea what's going on either, but yeah...people suck!
  • I can't stand when grown women act like that!

    I went to an all-girls high school, and in some ways I think that taught me how to deal with different kinds of women... because I had to.

  • I can't stand when people act like that either.  Some people wonder why I like to hang out at home with my hubby and dogs so much, its because of petty BS like this.  Sorry you are dealing with this right now :(
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  • completely a shame. I love having friends and I don't think you can have enough of them but come on! I didn't take the BS in high school, I don't stand for it now. Grow up, be a woman and realize catty-ness and backstabbing is a very lonely and pathetic way to be.

    AND.... moving on. :) 

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  • I think I know the situation you are referring to and I agree with you.  I must admit, I've been guilty of this in the past but I find if you open up your mind and stop being so judgy you'll find some great friendships in people you otherwise would never have gotten to know.  One of my best friends in high school started off as a worst enemy because I rushed to judge her because others were and I hopped on the bandwagon.  Life teaches me over and over that no one benefits from this sort of behavior, especially the person doing the judging.


  • I couldn't agree more.
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  • I'm sorry for whatever you're going through.

    But, come on... I can't be the only one who's a little curious!

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    I'm sorry for whatever you're going through.

    But, come on... I can't be the only one who's a little curious!

    This. Women can be totally ridiculous. People have too much time on their hands.

    I ran over to DW and found a reference on there but still don't know what's going on. Come on Newleweds, fill in the old marrieds.

  • imageFutureMrs.McC:
    imageDreamsBride411:

    I'm sorry for whatever you're going through.

    But, come on... I can't be the only one who's a little curious!

    This. Women can be totally ridiculous. People have too much time on their hands.

    I ran over to DW and found a reference on there but still don't know what's going on. Come on Newleweds, fill in the old marrieds.

  • imageFutureMrs.McC:
    imageDreamsBride411:

    I'm sorry for whatever you're going through.

    But, come on... I can't be the only one who's a little curious!

    This. Women can be totally ridiculous. People have too much time on their hands.

    I ran over to DW and found a reference on there but still don't know what's going on. Come on Newleweds, fill in the old marrieds.

    Agree.  Spill it, girls!

  • imagenatalee215:
    imageFutureMrs.McC:
    imageDreamsBride411:

    I'm sorry for whatever you're going through.

    But, come on... I can't be the only one who's a little curious!

    This. Women can be totally ridiculous. People have too much time on their hands.

    I ran over to DW and found a reference on there but still don't know what's going on. Come on Newleweds, fill in the old marrieds.

    Agree.  Spill it, girls!

    this!

  • The Land of Placenta has more details. 

    And if anyone is confused by what I just said, PM me!!!

  • No vaguebooking!  I have no clue what the Land of Placenta is.  If you feel strongly enough about it then post a link or something.  Goodness! 
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    No vaguebooking!  I have no clue what the Land of Placenta is.  If you feel strongly enough about it then post a link or something.  Goodness! 
  • Unfortunately there is nothing public.  I found out that there is a secret board that is used to talk sh*t on people, the same people these "women" go and act friendly to on the normal board and on facebook.  I found out some specifics they were saying about certain people and am sick about it.  They act like they are 12.  Seriously petty immature crap.  I don't need it, I don't want it, and I won't deal with it.  I blocked a few people on facebook and I am DONE.  Also, if these people come here after they are married I am done here too (which sucks to say since I love you girls).  I don't even KNOW one of the girls as I have not been on those boards and she was talking about me and a few others like she knows me??  They must have very small lives if that is what it is all about for them. 
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    Unfortunately there is nothing public.  I found out that there is a secret board that is used to talk sh*t on people...

    How did you find that out? 

  • imageSimplyMistaken:
    Unfortunately there is nothing public.  I found out that there is a secret board that is used to talk sh*t on people, the same people these "women" go and act friendly to on the normal board and on facebook.  I found out some specifics they were saying about certain people and am sick about it.  They act like they are 12.  Seriously petty immature crap.  I don't need it, I don't want it, and I won't deal with it.  I blocked a few people on facebook and I am DONE.  Also, if these people come here after they are married I am done here too (which sucks to say since I love you girls).  I don't even KNOW one of the girls as I have not been on those boards and she was talking about me and a few others like she knows me??  They must have very small lives if that is what it is all about for them. 

     

    They are very childish!  Jamie, if they try and come on this board I don't think they will be very welcomed over here.  It's sad that they don't know us and still have the decentsy to talk crap.  Shows what kind of person they really are. 

    Don't let it get to you to much.  They aren't worth the breath or time to try and figure out what is wrong with them. 

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    I think I know the situation you are referring to and I agree with you.  I must admit, I've been guilty of this in the past but I find if you open up your mind and stop being so judgy you'll find some great friendships in people you otherwise would never have gotten to know. ........  Life teaches me over and over that no one benefits from this sort of behavior, especially the person doing the judging.


    This.  Exactly.  

    I know I'm not perfect in the least.  

    And I'll be the first to admit, (and I'll probably get flamed for it) that I was initially a part of that "secret board" when it was first created by another knottie.  When I saw the direction it was going, I disassociated myself from said board.  I mean we all have our differences with others, but some people tend to cross the line. At that point, it's not cool.

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    imageSimplyMistaken:
    Unfortunately there is nothing public.  I found out that there is a secret board that is used to talk sh*t on people...

    How did you find that out? 

     I'm just going to say it... The DW boards moderator started this secret board and they like to say crap about other people on it.  We know this because a few people were on the board and left it a while back.  She only lets certain people join her special board. 

    a few days ago I posted something on the DW board and I had wrote misterically instead of misteriously, I was in a hurry and was just typing really fast.  It happens to all of us right?  A day later I see on facebook that this said person's "phone has misterically dissapeared". 

    Flat out making fun of me...

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  • It's unfortunate..... Meghan posted her GBU and Would / Wouldn't do one day last week.  Several people replied to her threads.  The next day the GBU was gone. Not the Would / Wouldn't do, just the GBU thread.  Obviously someone had to have deleted it, unless it was a TK error......  But anyway, Meghan re-posted her GBU and wrote that her original post "misterically disappeared".  These women had a field day with Meghan's mistake in spelling and one of them randomly posted on her FB Wall...   "My cell phone Misterically disappeared".   That was all.  Random post.  Meghan posted on TK how mean some people can be, and yeah... it snowballed from there. 

  • That's ridiculous, Meghan!

    I guess we were about due for some drama around here.  Something always seems to happen about once every 6 months or so.

  • This is just sad and disappointing! :-(
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  • imageMistym05:
    This is just sad and disappointing! :-(

    I agree.

    I saw a post about this on the DW board and wondered what it was all about.  Really disappointing to hear about this.

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    imageMistym05:
    This is just sad and disappointing! :-(

    I agree.

    I saw a post about this on the DW board and wondered what it was all about.  Really disappointing to hear about this.

    I saw that post also.  It is really disappointing to hear about this.  I don't post often over there but probably will not anymore.

    Meghan, don't let these girls over shadow what should be the happiest time in your life.  They're not worth it. 

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