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  • I haven't been a size 8 since high school. I thought I was so fat then. Oh, how stupid I was.

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  • I'm also 5'3" and at 135 lb. pre kids I was a solid size 6. But I suspect when I get to 135 after 2 kids I'll be more like an 8. Particularly since at this moment I'm not working out like I was BC. WW thinks I should weigh between 109 and 135. There is no way on God's green earth I could get to 109, nor would I want to. 
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  • My goal weight is lower than 135 but I would happily take 135. Stupid baby.
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  • imagemulva33:

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    I honestly think no one looks good less than a 6, unless you are on camera.

    No way.  If we're talking about a junior size 4, sure I agree.  But, if we're talking about a size 4 in standard vanity sizing you find at BR, Ann Taylor, etc?  No way.  4 is not super small.  Not to say a 6 or and 8 or whatever isn't also a good look, but a 4 is not tiny.

    i agree.  i'd be a 4 at around 125lbs and I look good.  Even at a 2 i did not looks sickly or abnormal, just fit.

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  • My BMI range is from 105-145.  I have always assumed that the 105 area is for very fine-boned people.  There's no way I could even attempt to get down to 105, much less sustain it healthfully.  I think with weight, as with size, it all depends upon your frame.  I do not have a small frame.  I think even at 125, I looked a little thin (to me, maybe not to others?).  Sure, I enjoyed buying smaller sizes, and though it was sustainable, it was not at all enjoyable (I really like my food).

    I totally get that a size 8 could be 'fat' for others, but I feel fine in it.  Not fat, not thin - medium, which is good enough.  And as I am trying to impart to my child, good enough is good enough.  I embrace mediocrity.

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  • Yeah, I have no idea at what weight I'd be a 4.  I've never been a 4, except I guess I was probably a children's 4 at some point.

    It looks like the healthy range for my height is 114-151.  114 is NOT going to happen for me.  I don't have a goal weight, but I'd like to be a size 8ish.  I think that's going to be around 145-150 pounds on me based on previous years.  I'm 27 down, and 40 or 45 to go.


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  • I think I have reverse anoxeria. I've been all sizes from 6 to 16.  My best is a 10, but I'd refer be a 12 than a 6.

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  • I have an extremely small frame.  My hands are the size of an 8 year old's, it's freakish.   i was 119 the day i got married and still had a belly.  I was just pointing out the fact that 4 is not an unhealthy look on some people
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  • imagesamfish2bcrab:
    I have an extremely small frame.  My hands are the size of an 8 year old's, it's freakish.   i was 119 the day i got married and still had a belly.  I was just pointing out the fact that 4 is not an unhealthy look on some people

    Yeah, I mean I'm really small and more muscular than most women, but still - at 125/130 I was solidly in overweight category for me. I look blobby above a 4. I prefer a more athletic build on myself though.

    But yes. I think lots of women look awesome at size 2 or 4.

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  • I must have a huge frame. At 145 you could see my ribs (not a lot, but you could clearly make them out) and my hipbones poked out.
  • imageoklagirl:
    I must have a huge frame. At 145 you could see my ribs (not a lot, but you could clearly make them out) and my hipbones poked out.

    Hipbones don't necessarily make you underweight though. I think it's all so relative especially once muscle is taken into account. 

    I'm 5'6" and 127 and somewhere in the 4-6 range depending on the brand. I'm not too skinny, but I don't need to lose any more weight. I actually want to put on a few pounds of muscle. I'm 127lbs of solid flub right now, so I'd be healthier a bit heavier but not fatter. I also tend to look heavier than I am since I carry weight in my upper arms. 

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  • imageftnups:

    But yes. I think lots of women look awesome at size 2 or 4.

    I do too.  Really, people are different shapes and densities, guys.


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  • okla it's been a while and everyone seems giant from way down here, ha, but aren't you like 5'9" at least?

    And confession: it obviously depends on the specific person and their build, but seeing ribs or hip bones does not automatically look sick or gross to me.

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  • I was around 120 for our wedding. Looking back, I feel that I was approaching lollipop head land.
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  • imageftnups:

    okla it's been a while and everyone seems giant from way down here, ha, but aren't you like 5'9" at least?

    And confession: it obviously depends on the specific person and their build, but seeing ribs or hip bones does not automatically look sick or gross to me.

    I don't necessarily think it looks sick--like on marathoners, but I always think it is unattractive.

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  • Fitty, I'm about 5'8".

    Yeah, my whole point was everyone carries their weight differently. What looks good on one looks bad on another.

    It doesn't matter, though, because I will probably be stuck at 160 and a size 10 for life. Someone brought in three loaves of bread from Panera and I keep going and eating a slice. Sourdough is my weakness.

  • I'd love to see my hip bones.
  • imageFallinAgain:

    I think I have reverse anoxeria. I've been all sizes from 6 to 16.  My best is a 10, but I'd refer be a 12 than a 6.

    I have some kind of reverse anorexia or whatever it would officially be called.  Except in photos and dressing room mirrors.  At home I always think, Hey I look fine....good, even.  Then I see a picture of myself or try on new clothes and I'm disgusted.

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  • image_Fenton:
    I have some kind of reverse anorexia or whatever it would officially be called.  Except in photos and dressing room mirrors.  At home I always think, Hey I look fine....good, even.  Then I see a picture of myself or try on new clothes and I'm disgusted.

    I do this too.

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  • imagenoisy_penguin:

    image_Fenton:
    I have some kind of reverse anorexia or whatever it would officially be called.  Except in photos and dressing room mirrors.  At home I always think, Hey I look fine....good, even.  Then I see a picture of myself or try on new clothes and I'm disgusted.

    I do this too.

    Huh...I didn't know my H was moonlighting as a photographer.  I've never seen a flattering picture taken by that man.

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  • imagenoisy_penguin:

    image_Fenton:
    I have some kind of reverse anorexia or whatever it would officially be called.  Except in photos and dressing room mirrors.  At home I always think, Hey I look fine....good, even.  Then I see a picture of myself or try on new clothes and I'm disgusted.

    I do this too.

    Ditto.

     Man, there are a lot of short people in this thread. Where my tall girls at?

    I'm 5'10" and was a hot size 10 at 164 lbs (my lowest adult weight, been overweight my whole life). 150 would be a 6-8 for me. My dream weight. I have a looooong way to go to get back down there. I just want to lose 20lbs before my sister's wedding so that I don't hate the pictures forever and ever.

    I was going to start Weight Watchers yesterday but with my stomach drama I decided to start next week instead.

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  • PG-I was wondering where the tall girls were myself. I'm 5'11 and according to Wii my ideal weight should be somewhere around 157 and WW says the healthy range is between 143-179.

    I can't even remember how long it's been since I've been there and in fact can't remember wearing anything less than a 14 since I was a kid. I'm not sure I want to know how long it will take me to get back there.

    I'm pretty sure it's pronounced your mom's a moron and if you didn't have your name legally changed by the age of 22, so are you. Unless you're from another continent. -Groomz
  • Oh, yeah at 135 w/out curves (seriously my bra was 28 B), I was a 4. Post-baby the lowest I've been was 140ish and a 6.

    My new I'm-not-preg-maternity jeans are a 10. I think I look pretty good until I see pictures. My solution is to tell myself they're just bad pictures. 

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    "The meek shall inherit the earth" isn't about children. It's about deer. We're all going to get messed the fuckup by a bunch of cloned super-deer.- samfish2bcrab

    Sometimes I wonder if scientists have never seen a sci-fi movie before. "Oh yes, let's create a super species of deer. NOTHING COULD POSSIBLY GO WRONG." I wonder if State Farm offers a Zombie Deer Attack policy. -CaliopeSpidrman
  • fenton I think that is called body dysmorphic disorder. or at least that is what emjo yelled at me after my fake pictures came out and she called me a fattie.
  • image_Fenton:
    imageFallinAgain:

    I think I have reverse anoxeria. I've been all sizes from 6 to 16.  My best is a 10, but I'd refer be a 12 than a 6.

    I have some kind of reverse anorexia or whatever it would officially be called.  Except in photos and dressing room mirrors.  At home I always think, Hey I look fine....good, even.  Then I see a picture of myself or try on new clothes and I'm disgusted.

    YESSSSSSS.   My arms don't have dimples in my mirror.   I don't have 3 chins, either.

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  • Tall ladies represent.  I'm 6'.  Probably by best adult weight has been in the 165 range, which is right in the middle of the WW healthy range for my height.  I'm above that now, but am working back in that direction. 
  • I loved my pre-pregnancy body.  I'm almost 5'10" and was a size 2.  My weight gain in pregnancy has been really hard on me, especially since my will power sucks and I'll probably never get back to that size again.  I miss my waist. 
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  • I wonder if I have hip bones under this fat somewhere.  I've recently discovered that I have collarbones and it's amazing.

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