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More Lyse dramz on IF!

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Re: More Lyse dramz on IF!

  • I don't get the competition. It's the same way on the pregnancy loss board from what I can tell. I bet that would be a fun war between the two- who wins, those who cannot get pregnant or those who miscarry/have stillborn children?

    It's sick to even think like that,but I realize that these people do think that way.

  • I'm really trying to take myself out of it because I haven't had to struggle like this.  However, I just can't stop thinking how destructive this must be to their entire lives.  Where are their husbands in all of this?  Do they have these same thoughts?  Do they just keep their heads down and hope their wives pull through?  I seriously hope that they contain this crazy to the board and just use it as a place to vent. 

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  • Christ, that blog post is so self centered. She didn't warn ME. She didn't apologize to ME. She's a so called friend to ME. I get that IF is all consuming and creates a lot of self doubt, but OTHER PEOPLE AREN'T GETTING PREGNANT TO SPITE YOU.
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  • Nobody can get pregnant but me!
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  • That's not true Kristen. I think I will go get pregnant tonight to spite her.
  • My coworkers wife is losing her mind over the fact that she can't get pregnant. They have been TTC for 2 MONTHS. If she struggles with IF she is going to be fvcking crazy.

  • 2 MONTHS? Holy hell if they need any sort of testing or treatment she is going to need a straight jacket. I will never understand that.
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  • imagewingedbride:
    That's not true Kristen. I think I will go get pregnant tonight to spite her.

    I would too if my body would ever decide to start ovulating again. 

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  • BSCBIL's GF pouted on facebook when her friend announced she was pregnant. She also pouted in the car for 15 minutes after we announced to H's family we were pregnant again. I mean, she literally up and left the group and went and sat in the car by herself while we were standing around looking at the u/s pic.

     Hello! You have been TTC for 2 months?! And you're in an unstable relationship?! Plus, our getting pregnant does not mean you cannot get pregnant. There are not a limited amount of pregnancies available each year.

    I still fume over this.

    Also, Lyse, did you become the "so-called" friend because you got pregnant? Or because you were flaunting your coverage? Either way, she sounds nuts.

  • All the funny things I can think of to say sound incredibly cruel once I type them out....but man. That's really unhealthy.

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  • I think I became the so called friend because I had coverage and go to do IVF before her and therefore got pg first. That's what I can figure. I still don't know how I flaunted my coverage other than to answer yes if asked about it. No one else piped up yesterday that I did. Maybe the voices in her head told her I was.

     

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  • imageheyemilina:

    There are not a limited amount of pregnancies available each year.

    Yes there are!  And the Duggars are hogging most of them!  The rest of us have to scramble for the few fertilized eggs that are left.

    Noisy, embrace the cruelty.  Let it out.  It wouldn't be right to keep it to yourself.

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  • imageCaliopeSpidrman:
    imageheyemilina:

    There are not a limited amount of pregnancies available each year.

    Yes there are!  And the Duggars are hogging most of them!  The rest of us have to scramble for the few fertilized eggs that are left.

    Well, then, I am glad I snatched one up from the pouting biitch when I had a chance! 

  • I get that you can't control feeling hurt or jealous or bitter. It is irrational.  However, you can control who and how you express those feelings too.  I think they feed off each other telling them that whatever post and say is fine because they are going through something painful.  It isn't. You don't get to hurt other people because you are hurting. 
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  • I agree w/ you Fallin.  And I think all these IF blogs and boards make it even worse.  Like, ideally, they should be good b/c women can comfort each other and relate while they go through something very difficult... but, in reality, it's just a place where someone validates another chick's insanely self-centered, irrational, unhealthy way of thinking. 

  • Not sure if this was shared here or not, but this whole thing reminds me of this cartoon I saw months ago.

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VY5ZDMLpXUU&feature=related
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  • imagelyse2143:

    Not sure if this was shared here or not, but this whole thing reminds me of this cartoon I saw months ago.

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VY5ZDMLpXUU&feature=related

    That is awesome.  Seriously though, is everyone on Clomid these days?

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  • imagelindsayll:
    imagelyse2143:

    Not sure if this was shared here or not, but this whole thing reminds me of this cartoon I saw months ago.

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VY5ZDMLpXUU&feature=related

    That is awesome.  Seriously though, is everyone on Clomid these days?

    People are poppin that shiit like it is candy. 

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