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I may start looking
for an apt somewhere. I know it's probably jusy "wishful" thinking (That sounds so bad) but last night H really pissed me off. I have been good with keeping the peace and just keeping my mouth shut, but when he is mean to Aiden,I draw the line.
Aiden got a new toddler bed for his birthday. Last night was his second night in it. He went to sleep ok but woke up around 2am crying and wanted to watch a movie. I went in and layed with him for a min but he was crying (A sad cry, not screaming or anything) and then I left the room and was going to see if he calmed down a little since I knew he was just really tired.
So I went to go lay down and H got out of bed to see why Aiden was crying. Well, Aiden kept crying and H got upset and started yelling at Aiden to "JUST GO TO SLEEP!" So I jumped up and told him not to yell at AIden them I layed down with Aiden and snuggled him. I ended up taking him back in my bed and he fell asleep.
It just really upset me. Ugh. 
Re: I may start looking
I agree. I hope you are able to move out soon. I really feel for both you and Aiden.
I agree, too. You deserve so much more than a relationship where you have to "keep your mouth shut" to "keep the peace." That kind of environment just isn't good for anybody, ESPECIALLY if Aiden is getting pulled into it.
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I'm not sure. She seems very annoyed that my step brother is living in the garage at the moment. When I tell her what is going on all she says is "I wish I knew what to tell you." I'm sure if H was the one to leave and we had no place to go she would left me, but If I am the one to leave, she might not be so understanding
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I am sorry Liz. GL searching, even if the move won't be for a while. Just a thought, do you have any stable/laid back/boring friends who are looking for a roommate? That might help a little with the bills!
And I am sorry you and your H are having such a hard time
That's not fair to you or to Aiden. I hope you find a solution soon!
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