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What the he** did I do?
OMG, I am so mad I'm shaking. It's been a crazy evening. We're going out of town tomorrow 2 hours away to see dh's brother and his wife. They just had twins and we're going up for a visit. I put both of our kids to bed. Then I spend an hour in the kitchen making a lasagna to take with us to give them. (They won't have a lot of time for cooking.) So it's 10:30 and I come into the bedroom and dh is on his laptop. (Let me remind you that he hasn't helped or said thank you.) The only thing he says is he spent $450 at Lowe's tonight. (A whole other issue.) I'm exhausted from taking care of a 4-month old and a toddler b/c he worked all day, doing 7 loads of laundry, and breastfeeding nonstop to get my supply up.
So anyway, I simply ask him if I can have the computer for a few minutes since he's had it all night. He says he's busy...and he's googling vacation ideas for a golf trip with his buddies to Chicago. I simply ask him if he could wait on that. We have a lot on our plate right now. He bursts out yelling, saying I nag all the time, that not everyone's such a saint like me, and leaves. Yes, leaves at 11:00 at night...and we're supposed to leave to visit his brother early tomorrow morning. I'm sitting here shaking I'm so mad, thinking, "What the heck did I do??"
Re: What the he** did I do?
Would it be wrong of me to say that the only thing you may have done was marry a jackass?
omg
Did he possibly pick a fight so he could make an excuse to leave?
What's the browsing history show? Or did he clear it?
I'm going with this. If I were in your shoes, my husband would be holding an icepack to nuts the size of softballs after I pummelled them with my fists of fury.
Did you ask for help or did you just seethe all day in righteous irritation?
Deleted browsing history =
Oh I ask for help, but no matter how nice I say it, to his ears, it's nagging.
Mmmmmmhmm. My ex-SIL took a trip to "Maine" to visit her "friend from college" when in reality she went to Arizona to bone her ex-boyfriend. You should ask to go along to Chicago and see what he says.
not always the case. my laptop does this automatically... if he cleared it himself before leaving, then I would wonder what he was doing. Go to ->tools, ->options, ->privacy, and see if it's automatic.
The part that really stood out to me was when he said that not everyone can be a saint like you. Sounds like he did something to make him not a saint? idk
You can still check your computers history re: cache and cookies, if not the history. If that sh!t was gone my red flag alert would be up and I'd get cell phone call history, lol.
Seriously though, your H sounds like he's being a major diick. Leaving at 11? Yeah, dude is up to something fvcked up.
Are you serious???
I don't know about you. You're the one with the dh addicted to porn, right? And the one that wanted to know if it was okay that your dh was always going out of town on weekends when you couldn't afford it, right.
Yeah dude, add tonight to this:
http://community.thenest.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/42288872.aspx
And I would say you got some issues.
Yeah it sounds like he is up to something... sounds like you need to have a long chat tomorrow and he owes you an explanation. It doesn't sound like you did anything wrong, that "not everyone can be a saint like you" comment is strange for sure.
Does he have outbursts like this often?
If not for this comment I wouldn't have clicked back through her post history.
OP.. your husband is not a good man. Not a good man at ALL.
Are you serious???
Smell his d*ck when he comes home!
No I think I would be "sleeping" when he came home, and then grab his phone before the morning and look through the entire thing.
OMFG, hahaha
If this isn't a troll, I'm still laughing too hard to care about laughing so hard
Are you serious???
the jig is up!