Upstate NY Nesties
Dear Community,
Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.
Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.
Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
Re: **whine Wednesday**
I feel so utterly alone in the world. This m/c has affected me so much harder than I thought. I can't get over why my baby had to die. I'm terrified to try again. I am not strong as people try to tell me that I am and not sure if I can handle another loss. I'm scared to have normal regular sex with my husband when we get the cleared to try again. I'm terrified to start IUI's. I'm as scared for failure as much as I am for success.
I'm sick of my fertile friends thinking a few cycles in that they have "issues". I mean get a grip. I HAVE ISSUES. As much as I know that pain is pain and trying is hard, telling me, someone who is quickly approaching 3 years of TTC with NOTHING to show.....that you have tried for soooooo long. Just isn't going to emote sympathy from me. Or that you think you have a problem after two cycles. ::head desk::
I don't understand why people want to rush into having a fertility problem. Is it just for an excuse as to why they are not KU yet. Is it for sympathy? I can tell you that getting sympathy is not fun at all and I loathe it. I want to get congratulations for having a baby, not I'm so sorry you can't, I'm so sorry you lost yours, oh poor Sept I feel so bad for her. F' that. Who WANTS that? Give me a damn baby. Ah crap. Now I'm crying again. FML.
I've been battling something for a few days but this morning woke up with a throat so sore I can't swallow or even open my mouth to brush my teeth. I'm at work right now but think I'll be leaving soon. I can barely speak...
[hugs sept!]
The only tiny vent I can think of is that DH has the motorcycle out for the season and the weather is supposed to be yucky all weekend.
I hope it gets sunny out soon!