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Why I have been mostly MIA...

I feel like I need you let you ladies know what has been going on in my life.

H and I are separated. We are in the process of getting a divorce that will be finalized at the end of June. It was initiated by me, he didn't do anything wrong. It just wasn't going to work. It's hard but I know it's what is best for both of us in the long run.

It has been hard for me to type this and I've started it and deleted it a few times but I feel better now that I am getting it out there. I still want to be an active part of the board and be able to go to gtgs so I feel like I needed to let you all know.

 Sorry for all the rambling. I hope you guys don't mind a single gal on the board (do we have any of those?)... 

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  • I am sorry to hear.  I believe LawyerLindsey is divorced. 

    *hugs*

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  • Sorry for everything you are going through.  Of course you are welcome here!
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  • I'm so sorry you are going through this..of course you are welcome here!!!!!

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  • I'm so sorry to hear that.  Are you doing alright (as well as can be expected, anyway)?  And you absolutely should stick around! 
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  • Sorry to hear this. I hope you are staying strong. Definitely stick around!
  • I am really sorry you are going through this, I can't imagine how tough it must be.

    ::HUGS::

    ps you better stick around!!!

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    I'm so sorry to hear that.  Are you doing alright (as well as can be expected, anyway)?  And you absolutely should stick around! 

    I'm doing alright. I've been in my apartment for a few weeks and finally got everything out of the house so it's been a process but I am doing okay.

     I am glad I finally said something on here. I knew you would all be here for some support.  

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  • I am so sorry you are going through that!
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  • I'm sorry to hear what you are going through. I'm married again, but I also went through a divorce many years ago.  It is a hard thing, even when you know it is right.  For me, it was actually making the decision and filing and then it got better. I hope it will be that way for you as well.  If you ever need to chat, feel free to send me a pm.
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  • I'm so sorry, but of course we are here for you!!
  • I'm so sorry to hear that you're going through this Sam. You know we'll be here to offer support whenever you need it!

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  • I'm sorry! Like I said in my pm awhile back- feel free to catch me on here, email, facebook or phone... It's hard to believe that my divorce was final almost 1 year ago. The emotional up's and down's you're going through are normal and the most difficult part of the process. Just remember, it gets better and having friends/family that are supportive and allow you to vent are priceless.

    ps- will you be at the Tiger's game on Saturday?

  • I'm so sorry to hear that.  It's nice to see you back on here though.  Please come back and post whenever you like.  We'd love to hear from you!
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    I'm sorry! Like I said in my pm awhile back- feel free to catch me on here, email, facebook or phone... It's hard to believe that my divorce was final almost 1 year ago. The emotional up's and down's you're going through are normal and the most difficult part of the process. Just remember, it gets better and having friends/family that are supportive and allow you to vent are priceless.

    ps- will you be at the Tiger's game on Saturday?

    Thanks.

    I'll be at the game with my parents. We are in 219. I am assuming you are going to be there... 

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  • imagesammi11586:
    imagecutter21:

    I'm sorry! Like I said in my pm awhile back- feel free to catch me on here, email, facebook or phone... It's hard to believe that my divorce was final almost 1 year ago. The emotional up's and down's you're going through are normal and the most difficult part of the process. Just remember, it gets better and having friends/family that are supportive and allow you to vent are priceless.

    ps- will you be at the Tiger's game on Saturday?

    Thanks.

    I'll be at the game with my parents. We are in 219. I am assuming you are going to be there... 

    Yep! That's what we're doing for my sister's bachelorette party. We have tickets in section 217

  • I'm so sorry that you're going through this right now.  I know it can't be easy.  Please stick around and know that we are here for you if you need us.  Hang in there.
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  • I am so sorry to hear that you are going through such a rough time. I hope things start to improve for you soon.

    ETA: You best keep posting!!

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  • Sorry you're going through this.

    Congrats on the new apartment!

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  • so sorry you are going thru this.  I hope that everything goes ok (as ok as it can given the circumstances). 

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    Cycle#25-50mg clomid, IUI#1 = BFP 12/24/11 ~ m/c 1/5/12 ~ 2/21/12 beta level finally 0.
    Cycle#28- 100mg clomid + Ovidrel + IUI#2 = BFN
    Cycle#29- Follistim + Ovidrel + IUI#3 = BFP 5/8/12 ~ betas dropped 5/17/12 ~ Cytotec(fail) D&C (fail) & then a methotrexate shot to get things going ~ 6/28/12 Beta FINALLY 0.
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  • I love you Sam & I'm glad to see you on here again! I've missed you tons! Are we still on for tomorrow?
  • I am so sorry to hear about what you're going through. I cannot imagine how tough it is but it sounds like you're in good spirits. Good luck with everything - and of course keep posting!
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  • Sam, I'm so sorry you are going through this.  Stay strong and stick around.  If you ever need to talk just let me know.
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  • I'm so sorry *hugs*
  • Sorry to hear this!  We are definitley here for you and you better be posting!  :)  Also, I enjoy my Brandon fix when you post.  :P
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  • Oh Sam, I'm SO sorry to hear this... I've been missing you on the board!  Please stick around and keep posting.

    Btw - congrats on your advisor role!!  The Kettering group is lucky to have you :) 

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  • I'm very sorry to hear you're going through this - it cannot be easy.  Of course you're welcome here!  Remember we're always here to lean on.
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  • Sam - I am so sorry to hear this!  Of course you are still welcome over here!!

     

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  • Sorry to hear you are going through this.  My friend went through a divorce and it was really hard on her, so I hope you are doing ok!
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  • I'm so sorry Sam!  I was literally just thinking about you this morning (I need to order a couple things).  Keep your chin up, and definitely stick around here!
  • Good for you for making a tough decision about what is best for you.  And think about how much fun you will have decorating your totally cute and girly new apartment!

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