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Re: Hump Day Confessions
Damm!t my secret is out!
- My husband irritates me SO MUCH. Thankfully, he can always make me laugh.
- I am working way too much for my current course load. I don't know how I'm doing it but I'm working more than full time - which explains why I am headed for a flareup. I just want to curl up in bed for the next couple of months.
- I just want to stay home, I have no desire to go out anymore - which could have to do with the above confession.
- My MOH dress was waaaay too small and I had to buy more fabric at DB. We bought it a year and a half ago but still. :-(
Haha ewwwww.
I am totally the one who eats the food in our house!
However, he's totally the slobby, unorganized one!
Kirk does both of these things. Also, he's stupidly prone to ingrown hairs. On his legs, in his beard, on his chest- he gets like 4 of them a week. I don't understand how this is possible for someone who doesn't wax or shave (save the normal areas of the face).
Stand up for something you believe in.
haha, totally know what you mean. Mine is gross too. But, what can you do?
I know how you feel
The OB/GYN asked if I was ever a smoker and I said yes, but quit almost 5 yrs ago. I conveniently didn't tell her I had smoked for several months last year, but quit again. I also had one on Easter when hanging out with our neighbors after the in-laws left. I needed it, but felt crappy after.
Last I checked, this was a confession session. I confessed. Moving on...
I stated that it wasn't aimed specifically at Kristen. I admit that seeing she went and obtained about 50 paint swatches despite the advice she was given here irritated me a bit, but that's trivial at the moment.
What I think we have here is just you trying to pick apart everything I say and make it into a dramatic debate. You don't need to understand it. I am me. You are you.
Apparently, without being labeled "FF" we're allowed to pick apart everyone's posts? Or is it just mine?
updated 10.03.12
It's just a stupid confession. Stupid in the sense of you're basically wrong to be upset about it.
She asked for advice. She graciously received it. Whether she liked it or didn't, took it or didn't, halfway took it, still thinking about it - it doesn't matter.
If you don't want to spend the time offering advice because there's the chance that the OP might not take it well than it's very simple - just don't respond and then you won't have to piss people off by offering a 'stupid' FFC.
I'd also like to point out that YOU CONSISTENTLY pick apart MY 'flame free confessions.'
I know you have done it to multiple others but I don't want to name wrong names so I will stick with saying YOU have DEFINITELY DONE IT.
So, pot? Shut up. Kthxbai.
Oh, I totally have another one. My ILs are visiting over Memorial Day. They told us Monday. So, less than 3 weeks of notice. Before that can happen I have to:
-Recaulk my tub
-Get my rugs cleaned
-Find a new cover for the couch
-Buy FIL Father's Day stuff (because he'd rather open it when we can be with him)
I know we only see them a few (3 or less) times a year so I shouldn't be annoyed, but H doesn't see that any of these things need to be done so it is all on me...
Stand up for something you believe in.
Seriously. Your whole, "I KNOW YOU ARE BUT WHAT AM I?" crap is getting old. Very old.
Why is it that every time there is a disagreement you pop up? Or you create one?
Since your work and course load is too much, maybe you should stay the fvck away from TN.
PS -- any plans on coming up north in the near future?? I think you're beyond due..
updated 10.03.12
Can we NOT start, please? Thanks.
The post wasn't FF because I didn't intend for it to be. If I'd intended for it to be FF, I'd have labeled it as such.
However, if MB wants to confess something, regardless of whether anyone thinks it's relevant, she can. Like it or not.
I'm kinda too busy today to be playing referee so how about we just stop this right here and now. Okay? Okay.
We were supposed to come up that weekend. I told K that by the time we actually get to see our nephew he's going to be 5.
Stand up for something you believe in.
Like you all tell me a MILLION times, this is a public forum and people will say and do what they want.
So, you have to accept the very real possibility that not everyone will take all your advice.
So, STFU and chillax already.
A referee would be a neutral person. As you've, and everybody else, stated a bunch of times, you're NOT neutral and you're on ::team hairflip::.
So, just back yourself out of this conversation since no one invited you and I certainly don't want you here.
Okay? Okay? Okay? OKAY. Save your insistent, badly executed mothering for your sugar deprived child.
I never said that immature craps. So, thanks but no thanks.
I simply said MB doesn't like getting called out for *** she consistently does. She consistently 'flames,' my confessions but gets up all in arms when someone does it to her. Then, as it happens every time, ::team hairflip:: comes to her rescue.
I was just stating my confessions. I didn't create this, MB did. I didn't do anything and neither did Kristen, MB did.
But, you don't like it when you have to admit that one of the ridiculously named board bosses gets called it.
So, go away.
this conversation has nothing to do with her mothering. which BTW she is a wonderful mother. you have no right to go there. you are such a bratty little biitch.
YOU are the unwanted person here. NOT her. she made the post. NOT you. YOU started *** NOT her. and YOU made it personal.
I SWEAR to GOD that if you ever say anything, ANYTHING about my child or my parenting EVER AGAIN I will hunt you down. Back the FVCK up right now, you stupid fvcking cvnt.
This is MY post. I am the OP. Thus, I will maintain order.
NO ONE WANTS YOU HERE. EVERYONE HATES YOU. What I don't get is why you can't get it through that thick, fugly ass skull of yours.
Once again, I will reiterate. You have crossed a MAJOR line and I will NOT be playing this stupid back-and-forth bullsh!t game of yours ANYMORE.
FVCK YOU.
Holy sh!t....
ETA: And if you even THINK about blaming this reaction right up there on what I confessed, you are out of your league, little girl...
updated 10.03.12
Wow! Did I touch a nerve?
You said you keep sweets to a minimum (which is ironic, considering other things but anyways, moving on), I was simply returning to your proudly uttered statement. Why would that cause you distress?
You are not in charge of maintaining order. And, while we're on that subject, there would be no need to maintain order - IF, and only IF, everyone can act like adults. Everyone accomplished that except for MB, Stees and Amelia.
So, if the three of you could control yourselves, than there would be no need to act like you can keep order. You have no authority, you're ridiculous.
Speaking of having nothing to do with anything, why are you even here?
Did anything related to anything have ANYTHING to do with you?
No, it was simply MB getting called out hypocritical.
If there truly are no board bosses or teams here, than you would not be here.
You are, which means there are so...............you all consistently lie when you say there's no hierarchy. Again, psychologically, you guys are interesting but IRL, you're a hawt mess.
I never defended MB. I just said you have stupid arguments and you only come around to participate/create dramz.
I had no weight on the Kristen conversation and the only thing I have an opinion on is that you are a fvcking idiot and YOU are unwanted here. people may not agree with me all the time, but 99% of us would appreciate if you stopped posting here and attacking people.
no it didnt have anything to do with me, but it had everything to do with me defending my best friend, which we've all said we have a right to do. you were over the line. you are ridiculous.
whats that supposed to mean? and also it had nothing to do with you saying she keeps sweets to a minimum (true) and everything to do with you implying shes a bad mother (untrue)
How did I start this?
MB was a jerkoff to her.
I simply agreed that she was being a complete and utter jerkoff.
MB, not being used to getting called out (even though she should be there), wasn't happy and engaged in saying a series of hypocritical statements.
I then pointed out that she was being a jerkoff, a liar and a hypocrite.
You and Amelia than came out of the woodwork to defend your team hairflip even though, logically you must know she's wrong, and this has nothing to do with you.