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Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.

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Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.

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  • Bubba ~ I'm sorry to hear things are tough right now.  Hopefully they get better soon.

    I confess that I really don't like Kesha's songs.  I find them to be very annoying and I think she has zero talent. ::skipping her song on aol radio now::

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    imageBubbasgirl524:

    I confess that DH & I have been having problems in our marriage lately & its all I can think about. We are trying to work on it, and most days we are fine, but Im can't get over what happened & that is affecting it.

    Wow, it feels a little good to be able to say that 

    I'm sorry you are dealing with this.  Left Hug  I hope things get better soon.

     

    This...so sorry you're going through a rough time. ::hugs::

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    imagevitaminc28:
    imageBubbasgirl524:

    I confess that DH & I have been having problems in our marriage lately & its all I can think about. We are trying to work on it, and most days we are fine, but Im can't get over what happened & that is affecting it.

    Wow, it feels a little good to be able to say that 

    I'm sorry you are dealing with this.  Left Hug  I hope things get better soon.

     

    This...so sorry you're going through a rough time. ::hugs::

    Ditto!  Keep your chin up.  Sorry you're dealing with this right now.

  • imagemardoll10:

    I confess that I am thinking of several things to post about, but won't because I'm tired of people getting all bent out of shape about my personal thoughts.  It's not a personal attack on you.  Get. Over. It.

    Pretty please post! Smile 

    I (plus I think other regulars do too) like your random thoughts. if others don't tell them to go fly a kite or take a flying leap off a tall cliff.

  • imagemardoll10:

    I thought of a new one on my way to the bathroom for literally the FIFTH time this morning....

    I have caught myself thinking about how convenient it would be to have a colostomy bag.  Sometimes stopping what I'm doing to go to the bathroom is so freaking annoying!  Especially when I drink a big coffee and literally have to pee every 5 minutes.  And we're not talking about a tiny bit of pee, it's like, "dang, that was a lot of liquid went through me in the past 3 hours!!"  lol.  I realize that this is totally ridiculous.

    Also, I confess that I googled colostomy bag to make sure it was the thing I was thinking of and that I'd spelled it correctly.

    LOL You are so goofy. If you take Vesicare, it helps with the urgency feeling but you need a script. I drink a lot of water, so I'm always going. I hate it when I'm on the road for work and have to find a decent bathroom. I refuse to go to gas stations though.

  • i confess that i hate liars and i believe someone on here has a huge problem with lying. i am often sitting on my hands not to call them out on it.
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    imagejesss10:
    i confess that i hate liars and i believe someone on here has a huge problem with lying. i am often sitting on my hands not to call them out on it.

    You made me just seriously question myself to make sure I haven't lied about anything on here.  I don't think I have....

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  • imagejesss10:
    i confess that i hate liars and i believe someone on here has a huge problem with lying. i am often sitting on my hands not to call them out on it.

    Interesting.  I think I blind to stuff like this most of the time.  Maybe it is naive.  I need to pay closer attention because now I'm curious (aka - nosey).

    And this is going through my head now. Ha!

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  • imagevitaminc28:

    imagejesss10:
    i confess that i hate liars and i believe someone on here has a huge problem with lying. i am often sitting on my hands not to call them out on it.

    Interesting.  I think I blind to stuff like this most of the time.  Maybe it is naive.  I need to pay closer attention because now I'm curious (aka - nosey).

    And this is going through my head now. Ha!

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    LOL I guess I don't pay much attention to what's going on, but now I'm curious.

  • imagevitaminc28:

    imagejesss10:
    i confess that i hate liars and i believe someone on here has a huge problem with lying. i am often sitting on my hands not to call them out on it.

    Interesting.  I think I blind to stuff like this most of the time.  Maybe it is naive.  I need to pay closer attention because now I'm curious (aka - nosey).

    And this is going through my head now. Ha!

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    I just assume that everyone tells the truth, since there is no reason to lie.  And now I have the chant 'liars, liars' going through my head! :)

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  • imagemary811:
    imagevitaminc28:

    imagejesss10:
    i confess that i hate liars and i believe someone on here has a huge problem with lying. i am often sitting on my hands not to call them out on it.

    Interesting.  I think I blind to stuff like this most of the time.  Maybe it is naive.  I need to pay closer attention because now I'm curious (aka - nosey).

    And this is going through my head now. Ha!

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    I just assume that everyone tells the truth, since there is no reason to lie.  And now I have the chant 'liars, liars' going through my head! :)

    Is this a flame?

    Of course there is no reason to lie...and that is why it drives me crazy! 

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  • imagejesss10:
    i confess that i hate liars and i believe someone on here has a huge problem with lying. i am often sitting on my hands not to call them out on it.

    I think you should. I, for one, would find it hilarious.

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    imagemary811:
    imagevitaminc28:

    imagejesss10:
    i confess that i hate liars and i believe someone on here has a huge problem with lying. i am often sitting on my hands not to call them out on it.

    Interesting.  I think I blind to stuff like this most of the time.  Maybe it is naive.  I need to pay closer attention because now I'm curious (aka - nosey).

    And this is going through my head now. Ha!

    image

    I just assume that everyone tells the truth, since there is no reason to lie.  And now I have the chant 'liars, liars' going through my head! :)

    Is this a flame?

    Of course there is no reason to lie...and that is why it drives me crazy! 

    No flames from me, I just would assume that people are telling the truth, being it's a forum, where there is little to no judgement.  Maybe I should pay attention to see if there are crazy lies out there...you got me intrigued now Smile 

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    imagejesss10:
    i confess that i hate liars and i believe someone on here has a huge problem with lying. i am often sitting on my hands not to call them out on it.

    I think you should. I, for one, would find it hilarious.

    I agree. Do it!  Devil

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  • imagemary811:

    I just would assume that people are telling the truth, being it's a forum, where there is little to no judgement

    Where have you been lately?  LOL.  I would say that usually we're non-judgy and very accepting, but if you get on one of those hot topics....watch out.  :o)

  • imagemardoll10:
    imagemary811:

    I just would assume that people are telling the truth, being it's a forum, where there is little to no judgement

    Where have you been lately?  LOL.  I would say that usually we're non-judgy and very accepting, but if you get on one of those hot topics....watch out.  :o)

    You're right!...I guess I am sleep deprived and the sunshine has made me forget about the dog issue from last week.  I guess there are some hot topics around here! 

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  • imagemary811:
    imagemardoll10:
    imagemary811:

    I just would assume that people are telling the truth, being it's a forum, where there is little to no judgement

    Where have you been lately?  LOL.  I would say that usually we're non-judgy and very accepting, but if you get on one of those hot topics....watch out.  :o)

    You're right!...I guess I am sleep deprived and the sunshine has made me forget about the dog issue from last week.  I guess there are some hot topics around here! 

    there was a dog issue? Wink
    i bet no one lied in that.

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    I confess one of my biggest weaknesses is "I know something you don't know".... so mara, jess, and bubba are driving me crazy right now... I want to know!

    My husband cheated on me 

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    imagemcvaydesigns:
    I confess one of my biggest weaknesses is "I know something you don't know".... so mara, jess, and bubba are driving me crazy right now... I want to know!

    My husband cheated on me 

    I am very sorry to hear that.  What a d!ck move on his behalf.  You should probably give him a hockey stick to the nuts.  Or... you know what my favorite thing about hockey is?  When they grab the back of the jersey, yank it over his head, and punch him in the stomach from underneath.  You should do that.  Or let me, I'd be happy to assist.

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  • imageBubbasgirl524:

    imagemcvaydesigns:
    I confess one of my biggest weaknesses is "I know something you don't know".... so mara, jess, and bubba are driving me crazy right now... I want to know!

    My husband cheated on me 

     I kinda figured that :( I am really sorry you are going thru this. Tarah is right, this is not your fault and if you ever feel like you need to vent or scream or whatever, know that we will be here for you.

    Interwebs friends are the best!

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  • imageBubbasgirl524:

    imagemcvaydesigns:
    I confess one of my biggest weaknesses is "I know something you don't know".... so mara, jess, and bubba are driving me crazy right now... I want to know!

    My husband cheated on me 

    I'm so sorry.  I wouldn't be able to forget that either. *big hug*

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  • imagemcvaydesigns:
    imageBubbasgirl524:

    imagemcvaydesigns:
    I confess one of my biggest weaknesses is "I know something you don't know".... so mara, jess, and bubba are driving me crazy right now... I want to know!

    My husband cheated on me 

    I am very sorry to hear that.  What a d!ck move on his behalf.  You should probably give him a hockey stick to the nuts.  Or... you know what my favorite thing about hockey is?  When they grab the back of the jersey, yank it over his head, and punch him in the stomach from underneath.  You should do that.  Or let me, I'd be happy to assist.

    Yes 

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  • I figured that is what happened.  I am SO sorry you're dealing with this - I remember how much it physically hurt when I found out.  I was super depressed and stopped eating, sleeping - I was running on nervous energy. 

    I spent a lot of time with my girlfriends just crying over it and venting.  It took time but getting support was huge and much needed.  

    My best piece of advice - if you guys are working on it - make sure HE is working on it.  My ex failed to do that and one day I realized I was the only one bending over backwards to make the relationship work.  He was coasting. 

    You can forgive but don't believe you'll forget.  Even if you get past it - you won't forget.  Don't beat yourself up, none of this was your fault even if he claims you pushed him towards the other woman as my ex did.  What a DB he was. 

    If he was having issues then he needed to come to you - his wife - not some other chicky.  It's possible to work things out, get through it and become stronger for it.  I've seen it happen.  I hope whatever outcome YOU want to happen - happens and you find peace in it.  

    Know that we're here for you and we all think this situation sucks for you.  *hugs*  If you ever need to vent, I'm here!  :)

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  • imageBubbasgirl524:

    imagemcvaydesigns:
    I confess one of my biggest weaknesses is "I know something you don't know".... so mara, jess, and bubba are driving me crazy right now... I want to know!

    My husband cheated on me 

    I'm so sorry. Ugh. I can only imagine how difficult it was to type that and dealing with it all. I hope you know that you've got lots of support here, including some muscle to take care of biz-ness when you need it!

  • imagejesss10:
    imagemcvaydesigns:
    imageBubbasgirl524:

    imagemcvaydesigns:
    I confess one of my biggest weaknesses is "I know something you don't know".... so mara, jess, and bubba are driving me crazy right now... I want to know!

    My husband cheated on me 

    I am very sorry to hear that.  What a d!ck move on his behalf.  You should probably give him a hockey stick to the nuts.  Or... you know what my favorite thing about hockey is?  When they grab the back of the jersey, yank it over his head, and punch him in the stomach from underneath.  You should do that.  Or let me, I'd be happy to assist.

    Yes 

    YesYesYes

    What a douche.  Please let us know if you need to talk/vent, anything. We are here.

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    imagemcvaydesigns:
    I confess one of my biggest weaknesses is "I know something you don't know".... so mara, jess, and bubba are driving me crazy right now... I want to know!

    My husband cheated on me 

     I am so sorry, I figured this is what you were talking about too..this is not your fault at all!

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    imageBubbasgirl524:

    imagemcvaydesigns:
    I confess one of my biggest weaknesses is "I know something you don't know".... so mara, jess, and bubba are driving me crazy right now... I want to know!

    My husband cheated on me 

     I kinda figured that :( I am really sorry you are going thru this. Tarah is right, this is not your fault and if you ever feel like you need to vent or scream or whatever, know that we will be here for you.

    Interwebs friends are the best!

    pretty much this.  That really sucks and I'm so sorry that it happened to you.

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  • imageBubbasgirl524:

    imagemcvaydesigns:
    I confess one of my biggest weaknesses is "I know something you don't know".... so mara, jess, and bubba are driving me crazy right now... I want to know!

    My husband cheated on me 

    Oh I am so sorry you have to deal with this! What an a-hole...

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