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Babysitter ?
We take A to a sitter who watches kids out of her house. She gets 2 weeks vacation/yr (we have to pay her) and we get 2 weeks vacation if we want to take it (we don't have to pay her) and you have to take the days a week at a time. So when A is sick or we want to not take her for a day, we still have to pay. Well, the sitter is taking a day off next Wednesday and has not said anything about payment. DH & I do not feel we should have to pay, as she is not providing a service. She has not said anything about the pay yet. WWYD? Would you ask her about it? Would you wait for her to say something? Would you just adjust the check that you give her at the beginning of the week for that week and not say anything? I just want to see if we are thinking along the lines of other people or if we are being cheap.. LOL
Re: Babysitter ?
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If your sitter is taking a vacation and A cannot go, I don't see why you should pay her.