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Perhaps flameful: Pulling kids out of school for vacay

What is your opinion on this? (given the kid is not behind academically or anything like that)

 

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Re: Perhaps flameful: Pulling kids out of school for vacay

  • IMO, I don't think parents should pull their kids out of school for vacation.  No sir-ee.
  • I might pull my kid out for 1 day to travel to a important family event (wedding) but not for a vacation to disneyworld or the beach.  That is what Summer, Christmas Break and Spring Break is for. 
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  • imagecamo_bride:
    I might pull my kid out for 1 day to travel to a important family event (wedding) but not for a vacation to disneyworld or the beach.  That is what Summer, Christmas Break and Spring Break is for. 

    yep.

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    I have no issue with it.  As long as the kid is doing fine in their schooling, doesn't matter to me one bit.
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    Really? My parents took us out of school probably once a year to travel. We always took our schoolwork but it was always less crowded on off season. I never thought it was a big deal.
  • imagecamo_bride:
    I might pull my kid out for 1 day to travel to a important family event (wedding) but not for a vacation to disneyworld or the beach.  That is what Summer, Christmas Break and Spring Break is for. 

    I agree.  Being married to a teacher though, this will never be an issue!

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    imagecamo_bride:
    I might pull my kid out for 1 day to travel to a important family event (wedding) but not for a vacation to disneyworld or the beach.  That is what Summer, Christmas Break and Spring Break is for. 

    yep.

    Ditto.
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  • Older grades I would say it would depend on what tests, finals, etc. were coming up.

    Pre-K, Kindergarten, 1st grade, etc. I have no problem.

    We pulled Abbie out of Kindergarten to go to Disney World in 2009 because they were doing the birthday deal so we had to be there on her b-day. 

    She missed a Friday in 1st grade this year so she could go to Dallas with DH for the Cotton Bowl.

    Both times her teachers said, it's no big deal, it's just a day or 2.

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  • imagemissjake:

    imagecamo_bride:
    I might pull my kid out for 1 day to travel to a important family event (wedding) but not for a vacation to disneyworld or the beach.  That is what Summer, Christmas Break and Spring Break is for. 

    yep.

    Ditto.
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  • 1-2 days to get a head start on a long weekend or a longer holiday is fine with me.  More than 4-5 days I would say to wait.  We have SO many high school kids that get pulled out of school to start family summer vacations the entire week of final exams.  We have to give them their exams early which I have a huge problem with.  Why can't they wait one more freakin' week, lol!  I just hate when parents don't properly communicate with the school and teachers and just pull them out one day for a week and we have to have all their work up to the front office in 2 hours.  Ugh! Use your best judgment.  You and only you know what is best for your kiddo.
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    I have no issue with it.  As long as the kid is doing fine in their schooling, doesn't matter to me one bit.

    Agreed!

    We have a fall trip planned, which will have K missing approx. 15 hours of instruction and we discussed it with the teacher who had no issues whatsoever. She said people often do it and she is glad to provide the work ahead of time so the child stays caught up.

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    imagePAGAS:
    I have no issue with it.  As long as the kid is doing fine in their schooling, doesn't matter to me one bit.

    Agreed!

    We have a fall trip planned, which will have K missing approx. 15 hours of instruction and we discussed it with the teacher who had no issues whatsoever. She said people often do it and she is glad to provide the work ahead of time so the child stays caught up.

    Do it and enjoy your vacation :)

  • No issues with it, personally. We were taken out of school several times to get a jump on vacation or take advantage of a vacation deal.
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    1-2 days to get a head start on a long weekend or a longer holiday is fine with me.  More than 4-5 days I would say to wait.  We have SO many high school kids that get pulled out of school to start family summer vacations the entire week of final exams.  We have to give them their exams early which I have a huge problem with.  Why can't they wait one more freakin' week, lol!  I just hate when parents don't properly communicate with the school and teachers and just pull them out one day for a week and we have to have all their work up to the front office in 2 hours.  Ugh! Use your best judgment.  You and only you know what is best for your kiddo.

    Oh, I'd have a HUGE problem with that as well. that's ridiculous.

    Like Ayers, when the kids are younger, it's one thing....but I would NEVER compromise tests, finals, important project due dates.

    I am surprised the district is willing to do that! (the administering of the tests early)

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    imagehoustonkdw:
    1-2 days to get a head start on a long weekend or a longer holiday is fine with me.  More than 4-5 days I would say to wait.  We have SO many high school kids that get pulled out of school to start family summer vacations the entire week of final exams.  We have to give them their exams early which I have a huge problem with.  Why can't they wait one more freakin' week, lol!  I just hate when parents don't properly communicate with the school and teachers and just pull them out one day for a week and we have to have all their work up to the front office in 2 hours.  Ugh! Use your best judgment.  You and only you know what is best for your kiddo.

    Oh, I'd have a HUGE problem with that as well. that's ridiculous.

    Like Ayers, when the kids are younger, it's one thing....but I would NEVER compromise tests, finals, important project due dates.

    I am surprised the district is willing to do that! (the administering of the tests early)

    I'm not. More and more schools and districts cater to the parents that complain the loudest. There are a few states that have already passed (or about to pass)something that allows kids to turn in stuff when ever with no consequence. Last year all tx schools HAVE to allow kids to make up grades to a 70
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  • DH said: resoundingly NO.  But it's high school and as mentioned can be a huge pain for the teachers to get things done around vacations.
  • Being a teacher my answer is no. In my opinion students have plenty of days off and the summer to vacation.
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  • I thought days like that were counted as un-excused absences?

     

  • imageTexasHarmony:
    I thought days like that were counted as un-excused absences?

    I think they are, though I am not sure what the rule is for kindergarten, as it's not mandated in the state of Texas.

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  • I tried to work with the school once four years ago to arrange for the girls to miss one Friday. I was told absolutely not and that it would be an unexcused absence for which they would take zeroes on every grade. I was irritated to say the least.
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    I tried to work with the school once four years ago to arrange for the girls to miss one Friday. I was told absolutely not and that it would be an unexcused absence for which they would take zeroes on every grade. I was irritated to say the least.

    Wow, that seems a bit extreme for elementary school! And for only 1 day?! Geesh! Pulling kids out was never a problem for me when I taught (for 6 yrs). I'd have a kid do it every so often, but it wasn't ever excessive, and if the kids could stay caught up, I was fine with it!

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  • No, that's what spring break and summers are for. 
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    I tried to work with the school once four years ago to arrange for the girls to miss one Friday. I was told absolutely not and that it would be an unexcused absence for which they would take zeroes on every grade. I was irritated to say the least.

    My mom tried to do the same when we were in high school - we were visiting family.  Eventually, she just told them that we were sick!  lol.  She was irritated that she had to lie.

    We were rarely pulled out of school, unless it was some sort of family emergency (funeral, etc.).  I usually had perfect attendance!  We did our trips during SB and summer.

  • not trying to be a witch or anything- as I told a student to go on a disney cruise for her birthday (the last week of school-- grades were already turned in, etc), but we (schools) get paid by the government based on attendance. i know 15 hours isn't much- and it's "just one student" but if it became a trend, I'm just sayin' the $ from the government now already sucks... we need all we can get.

     

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  • I have no problem with it, especially with younger/elementary-age kids UNLESS the child is struggling in school. If that were the case I wouldn't pull them out for a vacation. But as long as the kids are caught up on schoolwork I don't think it's a big deal. I doubt that missing a few days of elementary school will really make a big difference.

    We're booked on a Disney cruise out of Galveston in 2012. My kids won't be in school yet but my niece will be in 1st grade and my nephew in 4th. My sister already talked to the school about it and it won't be a problem.

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  • imagecamo_bride:
    I might pull my kid out for 1 day to travel to a important family event (wedding) but not for a vacation to disneyworld or the beach.  That is what Summer, Christmas Break and Spring Break is for. 

    Ditto!   

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    we (schools) get paid by the government based on attendance. i know 15 hours isn't much- and it's "just one student" but if it became a trend, I'm just sayin' the $ from the government now already sucks... we need all we can get.

     

    This is another good point

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  • If it's educational it's ok, I wouldn't do it for Disney (though a side trip to Kennedy might sway me in making it educational) or a trip to the grandparents. I got to visit some awesome places as a kid and missed school to do so, that helped me appreciate those trips more. 
  • Would consider doing it IF:

    *it were in the younger grades. Probably not older than 5th.
    *it was at least a SOMEWHAT educational vacation...Europe or something. Definiately NOT for a trip like Disney or to play at the beach.
    *my child had had good grades, attendance, participation while at school and would not miss anything "major".

    Otherwise, I agree...thats what summer/spring break is for.

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  • We won't.  Mr. Perfect Attendance Bpaullo would never allow it.  I personally would be okay with 1 day for a family matter, but I think DH would only agree for a death in the family.
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